I did a terrible thing... ended things with a girl (she gave the 'who the **** are you?' look after hanging around for a month) quiet smoothly, but succumbed today and wrote a short and mean note saying I felt she wasted my time and energy and that I felt insulted. Just a 3 sentence email, but used strong words.
Showing anger towards girls never did any good to me in the past, so I stopped doing it. Except this time... she rubbed me the really wrong way. What bothers me is she is quiet young (22) and naive when it comes to relationships. I feel like a jerk for having written the nasty note. She apologized when we ended things, but somehow it didn't cut it with me. The disappointment was lingering, and I decided to get it off my chest when I wrote the email.
What is your opinion on this? Should I have been magnanimous and let things slide, should I have been mild and told her I was disappointed (I did that in person, and she apologized), or does one just get the anger off their chest and be done with it? I just want to hear some experience and pointers from others.
Showing anger towards girls never did any good to me in the past, so I stopped doing it. Except this time... she rubbed me the really wrong way. What bothers me is she is quiet young (22) and naive when it comes to relationships. I feel like a jerk for having written the nasty note. She apologized when we ended things, but somehow it didn't cut it with me. The disappointment was lingering, and I decided to get it off my chest when I wrote the email.
What is your opinion on this? Should I have been magnanimous and let things slide, should I have been mild and told her I was disappointed (I did that in person, and she apologized), or does one just get the anger off their chest and be done with it? I just want to hear some experience and pointers from others.