getting a second chance...need advice

Jaun_Don

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Alright a girl i was briefly seeing this year wants to meet for coffee this week and I ****ed things up between us and she sent me an e-mail saying that she was rather dissapointed as she was into me and there was a lot of chemistry and passion between us you know...so yeah I just want some advice as too how I should play this?, just be cool and see what happens, because the first date we ever had she invited back for a 'wee drink' and you know that means right?...:crackup:

I like this girl but see this was way back when I was interested in the room mate and sort of kept her at arms length.
 

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she wants us to end
cause i f*cked her friend (almost)
she gave me one more chance
and i f*cked her again (try!)

-jay z.
 

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Guess this depends on what happened the first time around...
 

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Hmmm... I think more information is needed. How exactly did you mess things up? What's the story behind this roommate? etc... etc...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Wait, she TOLD you she was dissapointed? What?
 

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She wants you back because she discovered you can live without her.

This is your choice. Personally, I wouldn't give any woman a second chance since the problems will most likely repeat themselves.
 

Jaun_Don

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:down: That was a waste of my ****ing time...she was cold and angry and it was awkward so I made up a lie and cut the coffee meeting short, she snapped at me about something (I forget what it was now but I just thought) **** this I'm out of here.

Why exactly did she want to see me again...meh who cares.
 
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