How to get a girl in 4 easy steps
Here is how you get a girlfriend.
Follow these steps in order, if one or two get out of order that's OK. Just make sure that they are all done before you INDIRECTLY pop the question.
1st off: Assuming you've already met her, talked to her, got her number, and dated her at least a couple of times:
[STEP 1 HUGGING]
After your first date, you should definitely hug her upon leaving.
After any date you should always hug her upon leaving.
Say it with me, "Whenever we are parting from each other I will end the encounter not with a handshake, or a simple goodbye,
I will leave her with a HUG and whisper "goodbye" while doing it.
How do you do this? Simply grab her and hug her.
If she's startled the first time, don't worry about it, that's probably a good thing. It shows her that you have a measure of unpredictability to you. Besides she'll get used to it after a couple of times and come to expect it. In short she'll begin to love you for it.
[STEP 2 HANDHOLDING]
On the next date say, "you have pretty hands, can I feel how soft they are?" Grab her hand and kino it.
Make a comment. Be honest but in a C/F way. You can say "You have really soft hands, they feel nice, but they are as cold as ice." Or, "Your hands aren't as soft as I expected, in fact they feel like a construction worker's hands." Now everytime you see her make it a point to hold her hand while you are with her, she'll get used to it. When you get good you'll expand to grabbing both hands at once and swinging them, and walking while holding hands.
[STEP 3 KISSING]
Don't talk about kissing with her. Use the mouth spray kiss close.
So that's a second good reason to always keep a little can of mouth spray on you at all times. Make sure that she is already relaxed and having fun with you. If she isn't, then either build up to it by making her laugh and lightening her mood or wait until she's in a better mood. It doesn't have to be in private but that can help some. At some point stop, gaze into her eyes for a good ten seconds, say "I just want to take in your beauty for a few precious moments, may I please?" Then spray into your mouth, move in like you're going to kiss but stop and back up then hold the can up to her mouth and spray if she let's you.
If she does let you then kiss her. Don't be shy, throw a little tongue in and suck. Bite her bottom lip as you end the kiss. Now everytime you first meet up with her, greet her with a kiss. Start with a kiss, end with a hug.
[STEP 4 ASKING HER To BE YOUR GIRL]
You NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER come straight out and ask her to be your girlfriend. That shows way too much neediness.
So this is what you say:
"Do you think it is too early in this relationship to be talking about hooking up as a couple?"
Based on her response if it is positive then go ahead and say "Then I want to be your boyfriend." [Notice you DID NOT ASK HER TO BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND] Please pay attention to how that is worded.
If the response to the first question was negative then say, "OK we'll wait some time and talk about that later."
See how you left the door open for yourself.
Remember getting a girl is not hard. It involves work though.
AFCs can get girls sometimes without going through any of these steps, but they won't keep her for long. She'll get stolen away.
But because you are a DON you not only know how to get a girl,
you know how to "lock her in" and keep her!
So keep doing what it was that got you her in the first place, long after she is finally yours.
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