Get the words slut/wh0re/skank, out of your vocabulary

[ValleyDJing]

I was telling somebody this earlier and I though it should be in the tips section.

Basic sosauve teachings say all girls are horny, possibly hornier than the average guy . We need to get the words slut, skank, and wh0re out of our vocabs. The reason being that a major hurdle for alot of girls as far as sex goes, is they're afraid of being labeled such things.

I think there is a story somewhere back a long long time ago that goes something like this....

Ugly girl is horny. Pretty girl is horny. Pretty girl satisfies her sexual needs. Ugly girl doesn't. Ugly girl gets pissed and becomes extremely jealous of pretty girl. Ugly girl decides to make an insult to bring pretty girls reputation down. The word "slut" is born. Ugly girl begins spreading rumors of pretty girl being a "slut" and it sticks. Pretty girl gets less sex, because guys think she is a "skank" now. Ugly girl is happy. Soon, the word gains popularity, and is now used by ugly and pretty girls alike to bring down one another. Guys are sad because now, pretty girls won't have sex. Why? Because pretty girls are afraid of being a "slut". Guys get no sex and invent porn.
The End

So, how do we combat this? Start by stop using the words yourself. Us guys are horny and proud of it. Why shouldn't girls be? I remembered a cartoon I saw awhile back of two chicks talking. One chick says to the other, "At first I thought I was acting like a slut, but then I realized I was acting like a man". How true.

Okay tried and true method right here guys. If you overhear a girl talking about being afraid of being called a slut, you tell her this story. Of course, you can make it sound a little more intelligent then ugly girl, pretty girl. But I guarantee you, you tell her "excuse me, I couldn't help but overhear your coversation. I just thought I'd give you my two cents and tell you "slut" is actually a made up word" At this point, you should have her/their attention. You tell your story. They'll be impressed, but more importantly, you're jumping that major hurdle I mentioned earlier. They'll now feel more comfortable having sex with you than before, because they'll no longer be worried about you viewing them as a "slut".

Which brings me to my last point. Although they might feel as though you won't see them as a slut, they'll still be worried about what other people think. Thats why I'm a strong advocate of not kissing and telling. If you develop a reputation as one who doesn't kiss and tell, you'll earn some bigtime points and cure that fear of laying their reputation on the line by having sex with you. Thats the truth guys. Take it to heart.

 

[Kev07]

Awesome story, awesome post.

now i'm just waiting for a slvt/sk@nk/wh0re conversation to start up to put this into effect!

 

[Docs]

^ You mean, a pretty girl right?

 

[typical]

Haha yea lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

Saying "slut" is ok in bed if she is into that sort of thing. "wh0re and skank" probably don't qualify under the dirty talk exception, unless maybe you met her on the bondage.com personals.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Saying "slut" is ok in bed if she is into that sort of thing. "wh0re and skank" probably don't qualify under the dirty talk exception, unless maybe you met her on the bondage.com personals.

lol! Maybe you didn't understand me. When I said get the word slut out of your vocab, I didn't mean like don't say it out loud, which I don't. I meant, yall need to stop looking at chicks who have sex a lot, as sluts (and you'll have to actually read the post to understand why). Maybe a better title would've been, there is no such thing as a slut.

 

[LA_Chico]

cool cool bro, but a chick that fvcks like every bro that walks by, what does that make her?

 

[Docs]

^ Experienced. Goes for what she wants. Cute.

I think that fits the description of the ideal girl 80% of the people here want

 

[ValleyDJing]

cool cool bro, but a chick that fvcks like every bro that walks by, what does that make her?

I'm talking about the dudes that wanna call girls sluts cause they've had sex with like 6 guys, "omg she's a total slut" Or the chick that call other chicks skanks because they've ****ed a certain dude "Oh, my, god! She had sex with him! Or guys think she's as bad as a prostitute (those are the only true sluts) because they know a guy she had sex with. Come on you know the type. The guy that goes, "dude that girl gave so and so head" like she's a slut because he happens to know somebody she got freaky with. Know what I'm saying?

Girls: Just because you wouldn't have sex with him does not make her a slut.

Guys: Just because she's had more partners than you does not make her a skank. And just because your older brother's, cousin's, sister's, best friend's, brother had sex with her, doesn't mean she's a ho.

 

[MightyMate]

This may crush Your post but... Most girls are sluts.

 

[ValleyDJing]

This may crush Your post but... Most girls are sluts.

Most girls like penis. thats all it is.

 

[B-Real]

I beleive that if I told some random girl that story of the ugly girl pretty girl she might feel a little better on the inside when she talks and associates with her friends and potential lovers. But I think that some random guy saying that is not gonna make her wanna sleep with him just because she knows that he won't see her as a slut. It's like why would she believe me/him if she just met us?

 

[ValleyDJing]

I beleive that if I told some random girl that story of the ugly girl pretty girl she might feel a little better on the inside when she talks and associates with her friends and potential lovers. But I think that some random guy saying that is not gonna make her wanna sleep with him just because she knows that he won't see her as a slut. It's like why would she believe me/him if she just met us?

True not a random guy. But you "girl-friends" would feel better about it. And so would those random chicks if you ever got to know em better.

 

[Freddy1]

ValleyDJing hit the nail on the head here. This is what I basically said in another post.

The word "SLUT" should be taken out of the DJ vocabulary.

One of the MAIN reason why women are so uptight with guys is because they dont want to be label as SLUTS.

*Simply put it guys call women "sluts". Women defend themselves with anti-slut b*tch shielding. (Its a vicious circle. And it is really GUYS FAULT that they keep perpetuating it. )
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[Daydream Engineer]

they should be taken out of the dj dictionary... but they sure spice up dirty talk and phone sex lol

 

[worship]

There is nothing wrong with the word slvt. It's just the stigma attached to it and the fact that (most) girls are terrified of being labeled as such.

 

[Hughman]

People obviously aren't reading the message. The idea is to take the stigmatizing aura away from these words. They are fine to use if the girl is actually goes through guys like candy, or in bed if that's your thing.

 

[PeeGee]

I never use either words in regular conversation - for the same reason I find it is not conductive to an environment where sex is expressed and accepted for what it is.