Girl and I broke up about a week ago. It was a bad breakup for me just because I did everything right, and in the end my and her parents screwed it up (long story, unimportant).
Bottom line is I know I need to get over this. I've read the breakup guides, I've done what they said. She's been talking to me, and we hung out once (I had to get stuff from her), and by the end she was laying on me. I'm about to leave and she hugs me....tells me she still wants to be with me but she isn't ready for a relationship right now. Whatever, I'm fine with that, I say to deal with her life and it's not my problem anymore, and she can call me some time if she thinks she's grown up and we can talk.
Well i've been out and DJing other girls, and i've been at the top of my game. THe only problem is I can't get this girl off my mind. I've been constantly busy, having a good time with friends, I've been writing a lot of music (in a band) and working a lot....in the end my mind always ends up on this girl. I was offered sex by an HB8.5+ the other night (she handed me the goddamn condom), and I turned her down because it almost made me sick from thinking about my ex. Last night I even had a dream we were together (not anything dirty), but just going out like we'd used to, and it set the bar for a ****ty morning.
In the end, I'm wondering what you all do to get girls out of your head and move on. I'm not contacting her at all or doing anything that includes us, but for some reason I just can't forget about her. It's not even throwing off my DJ game, but it's just really making me sad I guess, which is something I havn't felt in a long ass time.
Thanks.
[edit] not sure if it matters, but while me and this girl were going out, I did it all like a true DJ, and it worked perfectly....but I still felt a lot more for this girl than any of my past girls for some reason, something about her seemed to really get to me [/edit]
Bottom line is I know I need to get over this. I've read the breakup guides, I've done what they said. She's been talking to me, and we hung out once (I had to get stuff from her), and by the end she was laying on me. I'm about to leave and she hugs me....tells me she still wants to be with me but she isn't ready for a relationship right now. Whatever, I'm fine with that, I say to deal with her life and it's not my problem anymore, and she can call me some time if she thinks she's grown up and we can talk.
Well i've been out and DJing other girls, and i've been at the top of my game. THe only problem is I can't get this girl off my mind. I've been constantly busy, having a good time with friends, I've been writing a lot of music (in a band) and working a lot....in the end my mind always ends up on this girl. I was offered sex by an HB8.5+ the other night (she handed me the goddamn condom), and I turned her down because it almost made me sick from thinking about my ex. Last night I even had a dream we were together (not anything dirty), but just going out like we'd used to, and it set the bar for a ****ty morning.
In the end, I'm wondering what you all do to get girls out of your head and move on. I'm not contacting her at all or doing anything that includes us, but for some reason I just can't forget about her. It's not even throwing off my DJ game, but it's just really making me sad I guess, which is something I havn't felt in a long ass time.
Thanks.
[edit] not sure if it matters, but while me and this girl were going out, I did it all like a true DJ, and it worked perfectly....but I still felt a lot more for this girl than any of my past girls for some reason, something about her seemed to really get to me [/edit]