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I have been reading alot of the post and threads on this fourm and it seems to be all about confidence, kino, hooking up in clubs, pretty much how to be a player. Thats great. confidence and kino are 2 very important parts to attracting women. And whlie it defently works for some other peopele just come off looking fake.

Confidence has to come naturaly, you cant learn confidence, contray to what alot of people on here say. You have to be comfortable with yourself and do what you want to do and fvck what people think and soon enough you will become confident. You have to be 100% content with yourself. Like who you are, what you do and that you dont need a girl to be happy and have fun. Deep down everyone even Hb's are people with the same feelings you have.

Kino it works but if you dont use it right you'll look like a horney school perv. Just touch hbs like you would anyone else but theres enough posts and **** on hear about how to use kino.

OK so those things are great for when chasing women but you want WOMEN TO CHASE YOU

I have never asked a girl out on a date, never used a pick up line never even aproached women. Why cause to me all those guys you see at parties and clubs look like sh*t heads chasing girls around trying to be Mr. Cool with puss$y as the prize.
Using this approach will get you laid that nite more times than none. Having girls chase you will get laid whenever you want.

Be mysterious- Be social at parties or clubs but dont be the dumb ass hitting on every girl in the room, sit back with your friends drink a beers laugh with your friends. basically ignore all the girls. soon there going to wonder what makes you not attracted to them and they will approach your. thats when you remain disstant. like they are boring you. talk to them but act like it is a hassel. they will start flirting so hard it is not even funny. before they think your gay tho make sure you thro a couple of C+F lines there way and a some kino if you feel like it. than tell them you have to go your hitting up another party or something just make it look like you have better places to be. give them your number. dont take theres. let them call you.

Be adventerous- Girls love a rebel and adrenline. so when the hb that you met the othe nite does call. first time make sure you busy. tell her your on your way to a concert or just driving to a party in a disstant location for the nite.(this works awsomely if it is a Weeknite) Even if your sitting home all nite you can stretch the truth a little. (hey if it happens in your mind it can be true). Tell her you going snowboarding, or surfing or some extreme sport over the weekend and if she wants to come along thats cool. I am sure she will and it will get her blood moving and she will be hooked and want to chase you forever.

Always keep her guessing, try to avoid calling her(unless it is to return a call from her and even then only return 1 call for every 3 messages) dont go saying things about how much you like spending time and **** with her. always act like she is some what of an inconvience to you. (and if your the type to be confident with yourself and go out and have fun on your own it probably wont be a far strecth from your personality anyway)

this is my suggestion for those of us who arent into going out and being pickup players. we are the laid back rebels who let the girls chase us
 

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I actually did this on a boat party, i didn't talk to any girls at all. I wasn't on my own though, i was with some mates, and no chick bothered to come talk to me, they just ignored me... When a chick does talk to me and i don't act interested they just leave :confused: Ideas ?? Im a good looking guy so i don't think its that :confused: One more point that might have something to do with it is that like 50% of these girls i used to go to school with, and its been around 6-7 months since i saw them. HOLY **** ITS RAINING HAIL STONES HERE :O
 

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I didn't read all of that but I guess what I do, and sub conciously works to some point.

I don't really talk much to anyone. When class is over, I pack and leave like I have somewhere to go, when really i'm in a rush to go home and relax. When we have our lunch break I'm out of there in a heart beat, not looking at anyone that I pass by. But I hold good conversations when I do talk, and they notice that.

For instance, yesterday I went to get a starbucks frap during the break I was zooming past everyone to get back to class (it was a short break and I didn't know if I was late or not). Then I receive a tap on my shoulder as I'm zooming past some people while sipping on my frap. I turn around to notice it was like 6 of the students from my class, 2 of them girls. The girls were smiling at me, 2 of the guys asked me something but i gave them good responses and a joke then went back on my way to class.

I notice that quite a few of the girls in the class seem to be admiring me but they're not my type. And they come to me every now and then to talk.
 

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Making contact with all the girls at the very begining.Then doing what rockstar88 works well.Girls find it easier to come up to you if they have met you.And if you come off as a fun ,confident, cool kind of guy all the better.But be sexual about it at the same time.Best not to tell chicks about your boring job or whatnot either.

Ive had the most success with this method
 

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yeah i forgot to put that in there thanks hithard. It defently only works when the girls see that your having a good time without them. It does work better with girls that know who you are but dont really know you. Also your probably going to get the adventureous types of girls. the one that will approach with this method will be the secure girls. but this method i have found works the best cause now you chose the girls you want not you wagging your tail to every girl around untill you find one that will go home with you. also your going to have more fun with these girls since they are normaly the adventurous ones.
 

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Originally posted by rockstar88
yeah i forgot to put that in there thanks hithard. It defently only works when the girls see that your having a good time without them. It does work better with girls that know who you are but dont really know you. Also your probably going to get the adventureous types of girls. the one that will approach with this method will be the secure girls. but this method i have found works the best cause now you chose the girls you want not you wagging your tail to every girl around untill you find one that will go home with you. also your going to have more fun with these girls since they are normaly the adventurous ones.
Hmm im at university now, and im pretty damn independent, and am sometimes on my own. Not to many chicks will approach me :confused:
 

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your not going to get millions of girls this way. only the outgoing ones. also you cant just be a loner. saying oh im by myself so girls are intrested in me, thats just a cop out. It works when your with friends. a mix of guys girls and your having fun. the girls see you having fun and not feeling the need to go around hitting on them all nite and they start to wonder why. at this point your in there head. than they might see you in class and you with your friends and your laughing after class talking having a good time. they say wow he lookis like he has lots of fun. your in there head somemore, also now youve seen these girls a couple of times. why hasnt he hit on me yet. your in her head some more. now she's thinking about you and how much fun you seem to have and why you dont need her to have fun. friday nite you see the same girls at a party. your playing a game of quaters or beer pong with your friends. once again having a good time not paying attention to them. girl has a couple of shots loosens up, comes over to you puts her hand on your arm looks up at you and smiles." Arent you in my Chem class?" and it's all on from there
 

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Originally posted by rockstar88


Be mysterious- Be social at parties or clubs but dont be the dumb ass hitting on every girl in the room, sit back with your friends drink a beers laugh with your friends. basically ignore all the girls. soon there going to wonder what makes you not attracted to them and they will approach your. thats when you remain disstant. like they are boring you. talk to them but act like it is a hassel. they will start flirting so hard it is not even funny. before they think your gay tho make sure you thro a couple of C+F lines there way and a some kino if you feel like it. than tell them you have to go your hitting up another party or something just make it look like you have better places to be. give them your number. dont take theres. let them call you.

parties..bah.

I remember a couple yrs ago, my friend invited me to my first real party, it was a hotel suite. Shortly after arriving and getting a beer this chick comes over to me, hits on me with the "havent i seen you somewhere before line?"
amost the whole night she was around me, kinoing me...trying to tickle me and me doing it back. Then when i got into a circle to liquor chug, she joined in...me, her and 2 other dudes. After that i instantly got drunkatized...im betting her too...was some hard ass liquor. And shortly passed out.
I that situation i knew her bf was at the party, so she wasnt worth the trouble.

Anyway a warning, watchout you could be making out with some guy's gf and end up somewhere bad.
 

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I believe you dont need to actively seek kino unless your in a situation that would be all bout it, like a party or club. works for me.

thoughts?
 

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yeah i would agree i defently think it is a personality and environment thing. body language and confidence are way more important than kino in my game. im not a very touchy kind of person i dont even hug my family members that often. so for me kino comes of as awkward and takes my confidence level down and i just come off as nervous and trying to hard. but if i stick eye contact and being myself after a couple mins of some flirty converstation, girls get the picture and are into me in know time. I think kino is more of a girls flirting method. feeling your arm, taping your leg. rubbing your head. Dont get me wrong some guys can defently pull it off but it's not for everyone. do what your most confident doing is what i say
 
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