Genetics limiting potential?

Foggy

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This is a question that I've pondered for quite some time, even before I started visiting this site and getting interested in self-improvement. To just what degree are we defined by our genetics, and to what extent do we have the power to transform ourselves? Where does one draw the line between a realistic goal for self-improvement and an unrealistic one based on that?
 

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It's not really that important. I used to worry about things like this and constantly compared myself to other people, and then I realized it's bull****. Just do the best you can.
 

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Foggy said:
This is a question that I've pondered for quite some time, even before I started visiting this site and getting interested in self-improvement. To just what degree are we defined by our genetics, and to what extent do we have the power to transform ourselves? Where does one draw the line between a realistic goal for self-improvement and an unrealistic one based on that?

the question is do u ponder over something u can't change, or make teh best out of what u have and improve urself teh best u can..


do u really have an option, does this question matter outside of a scientic class ?
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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for some reason some people cannot accept reality.

YES... its un realistic for some short Asian kid getting a tall blonde chick... it can happen... IF the girl was willing to "accept you for who you are"... but face it... its NOT going to happen.

face it... some people have standards that they can't live up to... it just is...

conan is right... keep testing the waters and find the line...
 

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Moofahsa

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I'll throw my 2 cents in here-

I'm a genetic freak, I'm 6'9" barefoot. Sometimes its awesome, other times it sucks.

Just be content with what you have, you can't change your bonestructure or skin color...

I might have been a bad ass in the stoneage, able to do battle with longer spears or something (LOL)

If your short, you won't be picking up tall hotty blondes

If your tall you won't be able to pick up those fine lookin petite asians.
 

Snow Plowman

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Huge limiting beliefs

Everyone is capable of doing what the next man can do pickup wise. Saying a short kid can't get a tall girl is irrational and dumb because all those superfical excuses we come up with don't matter one bit.

I personally have a friend who is 5'4 that had a 6'2 girl all over him. I don't know 100% if he pulled or not but it is what it is.

The sky is the limit when it comes to this game. Everyone can get good to the point of having multiple women, 3somes, lays on first day, etc. It all just takes practice.
 
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