General question

[Obsidian]

There might not actually be one single answer for this, but I was wondering:

If a girl is somewhat nervous around you (perhaps while you're going out with her for the first time), is that good, bad, or neither? I used to think it was good because it indicated that she recognized your high relative value. But I never was really sure.

 

[Jack McCrack]

it's natural

 

[danielzxc]

In my book, that is definitely good.

It might make it harder for you, 'cos it might make YOU more nervous, but it's better than that if she just acted "freely", because that would show she's not all that concerned about how she comes across to you -- ie, that your opinion of her is of little concern to her.

Of course, if she DOES act freely, that doesn't necessarily mean she's not into you, because maybe she's just a confident girl. (Then again, think about it, if she was with Brad Pitt you think she'd be a bit more nervous, right?)