Pierce Manhammer
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Well, in my experience living in a nice part of town, having educated and thoughtful parents and some money (it’s makes the other things possible) normally makes for decent adults.
What @BackInTheGame78 said. Wealthy families do plenty to screw up their children. Often that arises when new money parents do not want their children to struggle like they did. Thats bad. Adversity is a great teacher. I told my kids this:Well, in my experience living in a nice part of town, having educated and thoughtful parents and some money (it’s makes the other things possible) normally makes for decent adults.
What @BackInTheGame78 said. Wealthy families do plenty to screw up their children. Often that arises when new money parents do not want their children to struggle like they did. Thats bad. Adversity is a great teacher. I told my kids this:
Look. I worked my ass off to accumulate what I have. I worked my ass off to provide for you a solid foundation. Its your job to get results in the world & I'll help where I can, but I'm not obligated. I love you & I'll advise you, but you gotta make your own way.
I agree with your post, but I will say that I've known a lot of guys who would lose their girlfriend (or wife) and their job in the same week, and maybe even a place to live. Same reason, I suppose, one thing causes stresses that mess up another. Or, as some people say, when it rains it pours.Having your Mommy call into work to explain why a 28 year old can't make it in to work because they are too "stressed out" from a recent breakup or other myriad of nonsensical reasons
Hmm. I wonder by who.Damn, people around these parts *still* assuming there isn't massive subversion going on...
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
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I'm not debating that. However my kids also did not have a nuclear family unit (well kind of because my ex husband and I continued to operate as a cohesive unit post divorce, which is unusual in and of itself)....I believe that when there is affluence and education and intelligence, which often causes said affluence the outcomes for children are better. Are there messed up rich kids? Sure. Are there messed up poor kids? Sure.
A strong family units is very important for a child’s upbringing.
Not sure where the wires got crossed.
Does money affect children’s outcomes?
Children in low-income households do less well than their better-off peers on many outcomes in life, such as education or health, simply because they are poorer.www.jrf.org.uk
Income directly affects children's outcomes, says new report
There is a strong direct link between household income and children's outcomes, a new review of 61 studies shows.www.sciencedaily.com
Does parental education influence child educational outcomes? A developmental analysis in a full-population sample and adoptee design - PubMed
Children's educational outcomes are strongly correlated with their parents' educational attainment. This finding is often attributed to the family environment-assuming, for instance, that parents' behavior and resources affect their children's educational outcomes. However, such inferences of a...pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
Neighborhood circumstances and children's life chances: Landmark study from Harvard
2015 study from Harvard showing how neighborhood circumstance can have a substantial impact on a child's future earnings.journalistsresource.org
The data bears it out.
You can't look like Mr Popo and think you're gonna get smokeshows sirI had all those 3, and it was quite lean times for me in the mid-90s.
If you're 30 and under and have
-Your own Place
-A car that is 10 years old or less
-A job with low debt (better yet no debt at all)
You should be doing fairly well in the dating game
That was due to your height. Height wasn't as fiercely judged in the mid-1990s as compared to 2010-present but your height in the mid-1990s would have been a drawback. My height today is considered meh in this market but in the mid-1990s, it would have been less harshly judged.I had all those 3, and it was quite lean times for me in the mid-90s.
Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.