gay vs girl perspective

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im confused about this. ALOT of gays are into me! They are all over me. Saying, "I have a crush on you", Asking my name.. Literally picking me up all the ****ing time (even in cars), i'm serious.

No offense, but i'm really sickened by gays. Hopefully none are offended.

I just wished girls acted this way and approached me! I mean, why am I a gay magnet instead of a girl magnet?

gays keep talking to me out of nowhere and have dirty looks on me.. alot say i'm "cute" and "yummy".. i literally try to avoid them and im actually developing fear towards their kind.. lol.

can anyone help me out here? can i ever be a girl magnet instead of a gay magnet? im really in confusion here, please help me.

and why do gays much often tell me i'm cute rather than girls do? girls almost never seem to compliment my looks. :|

 

[rgeere]

I've had gay guys hit on me, too.

Actually, most men who arn't ugly and live in areas with gay people probably have abeen approached by a gay man at some point or another.

As long as they don't get out of hand when they are around you take it as a hugh compliment. It actually means that there are also a large number of girls that think you are hot, and all you have to do is approach them. Girls don't make approaches.

 

[jiza101]

lol, bb.com will love this post braindmg u troll. Im loving the material ure providing me here for everyone at bb.com to laugh at u. And you wonder why u got banned. U STUPID TROLL

 

[jakethasnake]

I've been hit on by gay guys before. It's a nice compliement - nothing to be ashamed about, if you're secure about yourself.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

There is no such thing as 'Gay' - these are 'Homos'!!

This is not a compliment - it is a unwanted approach by an effeminate and you need to set these Homos in their place!!! They are approaching you as a woman and are degrading your manhood!!

 

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Originally posted by jiza101
lol, bb.com will love this post braindmg u troll. Im loving the material ure providing me here for everyone at bb.com to laugh at u. And you wonder why u got banned. U STUPID TROLL

ur very immature. look it up in bb.com i already posted this there u dumbass. wtf u got against me? get off my back, will you?

you just making urself look stupid.

edit: i dont wonder why i'm banned. i still post there dumbass. u think they'd actually ban their most valuable client @ the cyberstore?

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
There is no such thing as 'Gay' - these are 'Homos'!!

This is not a compliment - it is a unwanted approach by an effeminate and you need to set these Homos in their place!!! They are approaching you as a woman and are degrading your manhood!!

STFU you purile azz-monkey.

Okay, the reason why gay guys approach you, and girls don't is because they are men, and as such maintain the aggressive sexuality indicative of the 'Y' chromosome.

In order to circumvent this, you might want to take bit more alpha approach and begin approaching and flirting with girls. Also, tell all those gay guys that like you,'Nah thanks, I'm straight." They'll never believe you the first few times because there are a lot of guys who play straight but fvck guys anyway, just approach some girls, stick to your guns (and that doesn't mean being an azz about it) and you'll be alright.

-Cyrano

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
There is no such thing as 'Gay' - these are 'Homos'!!

This is not a compliment - it is a unwanted approach by an effeminate and you need to set these Homos in their place!!! They are approaching you as a woman and are degrading your manhood!!

This is not a complement - it is an example of someone who apparently feels insecure about his manhood, and everyone needs to realize that as long as a gay man is civil around you you don't need to tell him more than once or throw a hugh fit about it.

If one intentionally bothers you then put him in his place, but if one stops after you tell him you arn't gay then don't worry about it.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Cyrano "The Faggot" proitects his kind!!! Go to a 'Homo' website bytch!!!

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Cyrano "The Faggot" protects his kind!!! Go to a 'Homo' website bytch!!!

Having gay friends and actually knowing what I'm talking about does not a homo make.

Furthermore, I get enough action that I don't have to defend my masculinity or sexuality to a dipwad like you.

And for the last time, quit PMing me, I'm not gonna let you suck my d1ck.

-Cyrano

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

What man has 'Homo' friends!! Only effeminates would keep company with such partakers of abominations!!

I never initiated a 'PM' to date - and definitely would not contact an effeminate such as you!!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by rgeere
This is not a complement - it is an example of someone who apparently feels insecure about his manhood, and everyone needs to realize that as long as a gay man is civil around you you don't need to tell him more than once or throw a hugh fit about it.

If one intentionally bothers you then put him in his place, but if one stops after you tell him you arn't gay then don't worry about it.

Don't come to my surroundings with this approach - you'll be beaten down like a pimp's hor!!

Homos are not 'civil'!!!

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
What man has 'Homo' friends!! Only effeminates would keep company with such partakers of abominations!!

Tell you what, we can have this discussion when you've been the only sausage in a girl on girl sandwich.

Don't come to my surroundings with this approach - you'll be beaten down like a pimp's hor!!

Homos are not 'civil'!!!

You know rgeere, I can see we've just been schooled by the bastion of civility himself!

My gay friends are just as intellectual, sophisticated, down to earth, and respectful as any of my other friends. That's why we're friends to begin with.

What you (and those in your surroundings) truly need to realize is that not every gay guy is consumed with the desire to violate your man-cherry. You can have cordial, civil relations with women irrespective of your attraction to them. So can they. Perhaps when you finally get this you won't feel so threatened by a lisp and a limp wrist.

-Cyrano

 

[Devestator]

Gay guy hit on me too. And it put me (temporarily) on PRL's list of homosexual conspirators to bring down sosuave! Seems that only guys, straight included, are impressed with my body. My friends are like "yo dog, awesome 'ceps" and stuff like that.

Annoying, but I got a free beer out of it. I wish girls liked my body, but I pay it no mind. Working on getting money now. I'm focused. Money compensates for any and all physical flaws. Money compensates for a lack of confidence. Money IS confidence in girl-speak!

 

[Eileen]

Originally posted by -.-
I just wished girls acted this way and approached me! I mean, why am I a gay magnet instead of a girl magnet?

I think it's social conditioning. Even now, men are conditioned to be the aggressors and many women are still told that "nice girls don't call boys."

I personally think it's funny. I've been called a ***** and a lesbian by men who have not received the desired response when they've hit on me. I get a kick out of watching men dealing with what women have dealt with for ages ... unwanted advances.

Good luck to you.

 

[aftershock]

I'm not offended when that happens.

1 in 10 of the population is gay.

1 in 2 of the population are women.

Therefore there is 1 gay man for every 9 straight women.

Gay guys and women both like blokes.

So if you think about it one way, for every gay guy chats you up, it means that there are 9 women out there who find you attractive, who YOU have to seek out yourself, of course.

Am I making sense?

It's just PROOF that you are attractive!

 

[Belgium_Freak]

yep, take that absolutely as a compliment.
Listen, women are ULTRA-AFC's and if you'r superhot (wich i guess you are), they don't even dare to make eyecontact (at least none of them antwerp girls) let alone approach you. There were a lot of gay's where i worked out earlier, i mean they were making HEAVY eye contact (i have a muscular body, and slightly above average looks).

It's funny, this hb9 secretary at my work makes EC with me all the time, from upstairs (downstairs = production hall). Once our ways crossed, i tried to make EC she was looking down at the floor...proof that even HOT girls can be afc's. (did not pursue this one, because i never dip my pen in company ink...-

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Poofters hit on me all the time. I just tell them to get lost.

Only drunk women hit on me though, it seems. When they're sober I get lots of eye contact but they're usually shy and intimidated by me. Looks matter in this department. You generally have to take the initiative with women, just like the poofs do with other guys.

Imagine that. Learning something from the poofs - they are really annoying with their hitting on everyone, but they seem to employ a law of averages and get their successes out of sheer volume. They shag anything they can, thus diseases like HIV run rampant amongst them.

 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Poofters hit on me all the time. I just tell them to get lost.

Only drunk women hit on me though, it seems. When they're sober I get lots of eye contact but they're usually shy and intimidated by me. Looks matter in this department. You generally have to take the initiative with women, just like the poofs do with other guys.

Imagine that. Learning something from the poofs - they are really annoying with their hitting on everyone, but they seem to employ a law of averages and get their successes out of sheer volume. They shag anything they can, thus diseases like HIV run rampant amongst them.

Yeah, it does feel bad... Gay people having more balls to approach than some of us who consider ourselves MEN... lol.. sad.. & funny in a twisted sort of way.

 

[Eileen]

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
They shag anything they can, thus diseases like HIV run rampant amongst them.

Don't you mean they shag as many men as they can? And are you any different except that you shag as many women as you can?

Double-standards everywhere I look here ...