Gay DJ

[Yungerer]

Ok, I don't know what's this forum's opinion on this matter so I'll be blunt: how good are these theories for picking up men? I'm guessing that what works for a woman doesn't necessarily work for a guy but since some theories and tips deal with tricking the mind and creating rapport (I find Kino to be really interesting), they work the same, right?

If this forum isn't that suitable for this, at least some of the stuff I've already read here seems to be a good guide to improve one's mindset towards life.

 

[( . )( . )]

Men (homo or not) don't need to be gamed to squeeze a load off silly rabbit. I doubt you'll need much push/pull, negs, rapport building etc in a public toilet cubicle.

 

[Swampcamel]

idk some gay dudes are fkn CRAZY bpd same **** sometimes, actually very few gay men i get along with cause they're wrecks.

(not a blanket statement, most straight people are fvcked up too)

 

[Down Low]

What man isn't sick to death of this sh1t?

 

[Who Dares Win]

I guess that despite their orientation they still think as men therefore that crap that women want like drama and mindfvck is not necessary, they probably just go for look in men as we do in women.

Op are you asking out of curiosity or its because you're gay? dont get me wrong but if you're gay you should be more informed about us about what men look in other men, probably the only desire they
share in common with women is the size of "mr right".

 

[SamTheHobit]

Gross.

 

[Atom Smasher]

OP, establish this for us. Are you in fact "gay"?

 

[Yungerer]

Op are you asking out of curiosity or its because you're gay? dont get me wrong but if you're gay you should be more informed about us about what men look in other men, probably the only desire they
share in common with women is the size of "mr right".

I'm asking this because I'm gay. It's true guys are "easier" but when dealing with social repression, past traumas and "closetedness" I don't really know how to have "game". I'm guessing I can use some basic Kino with guys until I find positive signals but, other than that, I'm lost on what I can do.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I'm asking this because I'm gay. It's true guys are "easier" but when dealing with social repression, past traumas and "closetedness" I don't really know how to have "game". I'm guessing I can use some basic Kino with guys until I find positive signals but, other than that, I'm lost on what I can do.

I dont know how it works between gay guys (I mean you're the gay so you should know better what turns you on in a man) but if I were you I wouldnt try to kino random guys and see their reaction...

Just get in shape and go in a gay club, Im sure if you're good looking you would have guys hitting on you and you can pick the one you want but most of all why are you asking about gay seduction in a forum of guys looking to deal with girls?

It's like asking in a hunting forum the best bait for fishes.

 

[zekko]

I'm no expert on this, but notice how in most lesbian couples one plays the guy and one plays the woman? Basically one is dominant and one is submissive, one is more masculine and one is more feminine.

I suppose it's the same way with male homosexual couples, but I don't really know. I'm not aware of as many gay male couples, male homosexuals have more of a reputation for being promiscuous. Maybe that's all bigoted stereotyping though, I don't know. In a gay couple, perhaps the promiscuous one is playing the more masculine role?

 

[Omerta]

Seems like a good question to ask a pickup forum focused on the opposite sex...

Asking guys how to pickup themselves on a pickup forum if they were gay sounds like bait

 

[ScottMustaine]

If you want to be the giver, then act masculine. If you want to be the receiver, act feminime.

 

[Yungerer]

When I arrived to this forum, I didn't really know what it was about, I thought it was a general seduction forum. After reading a bit, I kinda understood it wasn't but felt it didn't hurt to ask.

I mainly came here because I'm friends with this guy I like and I can't quite understand if he is sending me signals, I'm imagining it or he's just attention whoring and thus, I wanted to learn some techniques I could test him with. I eventually realized I was being the Nice Guy and I'm working on ending that doormat state so at least I learned something

Anyway, I appreciate your responses even if you can't really help me. I'll continue reading this forum because I find human behaviour to be fascinating and I really need to amp up my social skills overall, whether with guys or girls.

 

[HalfAddict]

I don't know what it takes to pick up a gay dude but what I do know is this. If you have good hygiene, take care of yourself, and look good they will come to you. Or if you fill some sort of niche someone is in into, for example I am a 6'6 giant man... needless to say my buddy who just loves "bears" always harasses me whenever i'm visiting the city.

This has to be one of the top ten strangest SS posts I have ever read.

 

[Don_Dom]

I have a bunch of gay friends and they are a mixed bag, really. Some are pretty much women all the time, some just during some kind of conflict or when the shiz hits the fan in some way. Your mileage may vary, depending on the guy.

From what I have observed, I really wouldn't worry about game if you are gay. Just approach and be straightforward. We all have our crosses to bear in life, gay men certainly beong no exception, but having to asshat around about what you want and decode wtf women are doing or will respond to isn't one of them. Be happy you get to just deal with other men to get laid and just go for it. Just be careful, of course, to make sure your targets are actually gay....straght guys don't respond well to being hit on by guys, to say the least. But from what I've been told, you can pretty much walk up to another gay dude and tell him what you want to do.

Seriously, I don't envy gay men for a lot of reasons and I really can't imagine preferring men over women, but I've seen gay pickup in action and I gotta say.....It must be nice. Just go to gay bars or clubs an hour before last call and you will get all the practice you need. Thats what my one friend always did and even if you screw up, your efforts likely won't go unrewarded. Until he told me about this I did not realize this went on....previously I was in a gay club at last call with a woman once (long story) and it was a sight to behold....The bell rang and the ugly lights cake up....every dude left in the joint without someone basicly just paired off in like 3 mins. They might as well have just done a "shirts and skins" thing like dodgeball in Jr high. Remarkable, really. Being my only time in a gay establishment, I had no idea that this was pretty much the norm till my friend told me.

If it was like that for hetro guys the world would be a far, far, better place. Or maybe not, just more fun. None of us would need any game at all if we knew we could hook up everytime we left the house. Probably nature's way of keeping us on our toes so society doesn't crumble or something.

 

[Down Low]

Since the OP is too sick to abstain from the offensive behavior, suicide is his best option.