Ever since I was little I've never had an aversion to feminine things. It's not like I ever wanted to be a girl, but I never told myself "I can't do that because that's something girls do." It was never a huge issue for me, but my parents would try to steer me away from feminine things if I was ever "curious" (like wanting to put on makeup once when I was three years old or whatever). Fast forward to today, in my mid-twenties, and I still enjoy some things associated with women. I don't have a desire to wear makeup or dresses or anything, but I don't mind watching interior decorating shows or shopping or whatever gay guys like to do. It's not that I prefer those things over more masculine things (sports & weight lifting, violence, laying down the law), but I don't mind if HGTV or something is on.
That all being said, I'm as straight as an arrow, homosexual acts disgust me, and I've never even considered doing anything sexual with other men. I also never really got into porn as watching the genitalia of other men wasn't something I found desirable.
I'm really disturbed by this pro-gay movement in that I think a lot of people who would otherwise consider themselves straight are being fed this intolerant idea that we must categorize ourselves by masculine or feminine traits. If I were in that kid's shoes, I probably would have been labeled gay as well, and my mind would have been warped. Fortunately for me, though, I had sensible parents, and now I just consider myself more open-minded without letting society place arbitrary restrictions on what I can and cannot do.
Society is going down the toilet. It's a shame, really.
