Ahhh, been a while since I've posted in this thread. Reason being that I was busy trying out another style...
I present to you the pinnacle of my DJ journey:
The Juggler Method
Not really a method in the sense that it has no structure, rules or lines. It's just a general framework for having GREAT convo with women. Looking back at it, it's really just teaching basic social skills so you can have fun interactions with women.
Anyways, the whole purpose of his method is to combine it with the natural game. Here's a summary of his method from Juggler himself:
"Think about what you would want an interaction with a girl to be like if there was no need to get sex. Let's say that sex was a given. You did not need to do anything tricky or run 'game' to score. How would you like that interaction to be? Myself I want it to be fun, exciting, relaxed, playful and sharing with each other willingly. Now think about how you can make that happen. Would you use tricks or be sneaky to get a girl to be that with you? No, that would be counter productive and/or unnecessary work. You would instead lead her by being fun, relaxed, sharing, or whatever you want the interaction to be like yourself and learn to allow and encourage her to be that as well." -Juggler
Basically, YOU don't want to be the most interesting person in the convo. You want HER to be the most interesting person. And we can achieve this by firstly, sharing some information about ourselves, then asking her big questions and shut-up
The rapport doesn't have to be DEEP, it has to be Wide (having the feeling that you can talk about ANYTHING).
Another important part of his method is the SOI (Statement of intent). Basically a statement of intent is to let her know tht you are sexually interested in her and it's not just going to be a "friends" relationship between you two.
"Wow, not only are you incredibly sexy, but you're a great conversationalist too"
The trick is to do this at her highpoints in the interaction. When she says something especially enlightening or she makes an effort to kino you, you drop the SOI. This way, it feels to her that she has "earned" the SOI.
So often, we compliment a girl, but she hasn't even done anything to deserve the compliment. She hasn't really "put her real self out" in the conversation.
And the final (and for me, the most important) part is "always take the route of less proving." Some of us are constantly trying to qualify ourselves to girls, telling them how big our house/c0ck is and how many girls we've laid.
Well, its stupid, and counterproductive. The best way to pass her "qualifications" is to be genuine about them (even if it means "failing" them).
"Are you hitting on me?"
"Of course I am."
"What car do you drive?"
"I ride the bus"
By being genuine, she'll realised you are "above" the crowd and your not trying to please anyone. And ironically, this will make her more attracted to you.
Theres WAYWAYWAY more stuff to the juggler method than this (it's mostly a combination of a couple of small things rather than one HUGE concept). I suggest you check out his podcasts on his site:
http://www.charismasciences.com/passport/podcasts/index.html
And downloads his e-book if you can.
I'm gonna try and make a "Juggler dedication post" later to really summarise in greater depth about his method. But until then, check out his podcasts. They are simply excellent.
-fender-
