Thanks for the pointer to Hawaai guys blog the other day .
Here are how things have gone so far,
Not had sex for a while,,So in bed the other night I started jerking off.She starts getting restless then gets out of bed puts the light on and says are you wanking,I say yeah I'm relieving my sexual tension,she starts saying who you thinking of?
I ignore it and just say I'm having sexy thoughts she continues to persist about who ?
I ignore it she goes in the other room to sleep.She comes back in 5 mins later trying to row,I ignore it she goes and sleeps in the other room.
In morning she is getting ready for work I (1st day of new job) I say are you wearing that ,she already has a polo top on,she picks up her thigh length boots out of the wardrobe and says should I go to work in these,I respond well you may actually earn more money if you do.
I ask for a cup of tea in bed,she comes up later with a cup of tea for me we talk,no problems or arguements
.
Last night at work she asks me to print some pictures off for her (I'm not sure if this is **** test ??not really sure how to recognise them)
But as shes asking me to do something for her usually I would just do it
I told her this morning when she asked I did'nt have time,no problems.
Today she asked me to phone the washing machine repairman as our machine broke,I said no things got a bit heated usually I would have given in and just gone and picked the phone up and called him,but I said you broke it you phone him.Blocked with coins from not checking the pockets.
Not sure If I'm doing this right or not or I'm being petty by refusing to do certain things and which are actual **** tests and which are not.
But there seems a bit less drama around at the moment and she seems to be hovering around me more instead of me hovering around her..
Any help on recognizing **** tests?appreciated,its a LTR and I can't refuse to everything she asks.
She is asking me to take the family for a meal but I have said lets see how much the washing machine repairs cost.
Thanks for listening,any tips welcome
Here are how things have gone so far,
Not had sex for a while,,So in bed the other night I started jerking off.She starts getting restless then gets out of bed puts the light on and says are you wanking,I say yeah I'm relieving my sexual tension,she starts saying who you thinking of?
I ignore it and just say I'm having sexy thoughts she continues to persist about who ?
I ignore it she goes in the other room to sleep.She comes back in 5 mins later trying to row,I ignore it she goes and sleeps in the other room.
In morning she is getting ready for work I (1st day of new job) I say are you wearing that ,she already has a polo top on,she picks up her thigh length boots out of the wardrobe and says should I go to work in these,I respond well you may actually earn more money if you do.
I ask for a cup of tea in bed,she comes up later with a cup of tea for me we talk,no problems or arguements
.
Last night at work she asks me to print some pictures off for her (I'm not sure if this is **** test ??not really sure how to recognise them)
But as shes asking me to do something for her usually I would just do it
I told her this morning when she asked I did'nt have time,no problems.
Today she asked me to phone the washing machine repairman as our machine broke,I said no things got a bit heated usually I would have given in and just gone and picked the phone up and called him,but I said you broke it you phone him.Blocked with coins from not checking the pockets.
Not sure If I'm doing this right or not or I'm being petty by refusing to do certain things and which are actual **** tests and which are not.
But there seems a bit less drama around at the moment and she seems to be hovering around me more instead of me hovering around her..
Any help on recognizing **** tests?appreciated,its a LTR and I can't refuse to everything she asks.
She is asking me to take the family for a meal but I have said lets see how much the washing machine repairs cost.
Thanks for listening,any tips welcome