Gaming Hot But Shy Girls

[total_afc]

OK, I'm sure some of you are watching that magician guy teach nerds how to game. You're supposed to "neg" the target. I find this stuff to be b.s. I run into so many hot, hot girls who are super nice, sweet and very shy.

You have to walk a very fine line. If you game them too direclty, they withdraw from you. If you are too subtle, you can come across as tentative and/or wimpy. It fvcking sucks. You have to walk the tightrope all the time. Until they open up, which can take a long time.

This one girl I am talking to, I have to initiate every conversation, but she can keep up the conversation pretty well once I start. Also, she has a habit of avoiding eye contact when we are face to face, she will only check me out indirectly over her shoulder.

Experience players, post your FR's of successful pickups of the hot shy chick here. Hopefully, I can add to that list shortly.

 

[lildevil]

Tip: ......I think mines is to always be at ease and always let your mind be cleared and calm before approachin....U should be at a stronger state of emotion than her ....if your calm it will be much easier for her to be calm around you....


Tip:Always have an opener that works best for you....Its better to be sure with what your doin....U dont want to open her with somethin weak..or not prepeared


Tip:Dont be dependent on Routines they can help or ultimately break u if U depend on them...the best game is natural game....is when a human...shows his humanity...be normal it shouldnt be a problem for u....

Tip:Ultimately change her mood its the best thing u can to a person....

Tip: Finally always have fun and if ur not having fun...have fun hows that for a twist

 

[Slick101]

OK, I'm sure some of you are watching that magician guy teach nerds how to game. You're supposed to "neg" the target. I find this stuff to be b.s. I run into so many hot, hot girls who are super nice, sweet and very shy.

You have to walk a very fine line. If you game them too direclty, they withdraw from you. If you are too subtle, you can come across as tentative and/or wimpy. It fvcking sucks. You have to walk the tightrope all the time. Until they open up, which can take a long time.

This one girl I am talking to, I have to initiate every conversation, but she can keep up the conversation pretty well once I start. Also, she has a habit of avoiding eye contact when we are face to face, she will only check me out indirectly over her shoulder.

Experience players, post your FR's of successful pickups of the hot shy chick here. Hopefully, I can add to that list shortly.

It's not the Game...

Its You

 

[saber]

no eye contact...either she doesn't like you or is uncomfortable around you either way you probably just need more practice imho.

 

[nanagirl]

Really shy girls are uncomfortable with everyone, it doesn't mean they don't like you. It's seriously hard for them to talk to someone, much more look them in the eyes. If she really does not want to talk to you, she will most probably find a way to get out of that situation. But if she stays (even if it looks like she doesn't care and she barely answers), she actually wants to be there with you, and she's making an effort to do so. You just need to be patience and go slow (and I mean REALLY slow), and she will eventually open up to you.

 

[yuppaz]

^That makes a lot of sense. Not everyone is a social butterfly and some people will take a while before they are comfortable enough to open up.

 

[GotED?]

As far as my experience go, don't let a 'Shy & Innocent' looking girl (or woman) take your guard down.

Women who has that natural innocent, sweet, and naive look - KNOWS they look like that and are often master manipulators, using that to their advantage. Don't be mislead - just a warning to all you men out there. These are often the most vicious women that will get to you emotionally, make you feel like you have 'rescued' them and then before you know it, they have you in the grips of their hand emotionally.

However, there are women who are consistent with what is appearing on the outside as well as the inside. For every bad apple, there is also a delicious one. Just have to be very careful, never invest emotionally early on, and sometimes it is all down to luck.

With respect,

Exodus

 

[GotED?]

Yep, I agree with SS666 - you know men who's been around the block with the crazies, and he hit the point right on.

ALWAYS determine a woman's childhood history, parental history, absence of a main caretaker (father, etc), abuse of any substance (indirect assessment of a person's ability to be self-disciplined), abandonement fears (how does she behave when you are not there with her??), emotional instability (does she fly off the handle in anger that is uncontrolled?).

This only applies to LTR - for hump and dump, get in and get out!

With respect,

Exodus

 

[floydb25]

Agree with the above 2 posters. People generally do whatever works to their advantage, and can put on great acts to gain sympathy and awareness. Players can be found in any persona, and they know what works. Hot, shy, and sweet is what a LOT of people are looking for from both genders. That doesnt mean theyre not players, dont know the game, etc. Also, just because theyre shy and sweet - doesnt mean theyre not stuck up, spoiled, conceited, two-faced, selfish, etc. Those are character traits - shy and sweet is their personality. Also, sweet doesnt mean kind, selfless, or giving. Going even further - everyone puts on their very best front in the beginning, and youre not always thinking clearly during infatuation... When you combine all that together, thats a lot of trouble.

Always keep your guard up - double-time for hotties.

 

[popsickle]

I find super cliche romantic stuff works well on those usually. I'm talking making it obvious that you're hitting on them, so obvious it becomes borderline ridiculous and usually makes them laugh. Eventually they open up.