gaming a milf

[kudjy Piitb]

are the rules different for trying to game a milf as oppose to a regular HB chick?

recently I approached this milf and the chatter was very friendly but in public. long story short i managed to arrange to get together. didn't number close because of the number of people around it seemed really inappropriate but i knew i could get it if i wanted.

admittedly given the circumstances i haven't exactly gained her interest in terms of flirting with her per se. I would have if not for all the people looking around at me wondering why im talking to this older woman.

i see her a lot so its not as if i actually need her digits but i know i can get it no prob. when i brought it up today about getting her number or giving mine she did not have her phone on her but her reaction was muted by it.. it seems as if she does not expect to be approached by a young man asking for her digits in whatever way.

whats strange is that usually when you ask a girl for her number you either see her face light up or go into panic.. with this one it was just muted as if she didn't think anything of it.

im seeing her tomorrow, will get her number no probs.. but i think the big move is getting to see her outside of this arena.. i have this feeling it won't work cos i assume she's married.

what would be the best way to game her?

at present im going by the strategy of treating her like every other HB i meet. flirt with her, kino etc etc. but i feel unlike with other HBs that cos shes a milf i'd compliment her a lot more than i would regular HBs because shes older and not as hot as she was when she was 20.

any suggestions about how to play this particular scenario?

 

[kudjy Piitb]

thanks good advice. very true. i think maybe its because somehow inside of me i think its wrong to be approaching women her age even though shes hot..

like for instance today.. i kept talking about serious stuff like her kids and ****.. god i couldn't get out of this polite frame of mind. im too wary of what the other ppl looking over might think that i forget that it shouldn't matter cos they'll assume anything anyway so i should just talk about what i wanna.

i haven't asked her if shes married i try to avoid age questions. she asked me straight out what mine was and i couldn't get around it in time so i told her. she thought i was older.

it just seems im stuck cos i cant seem to talk or flirt with her like do any other HB.

because this has been like the 3rd time i've spoken to her with very little kino.. i dont even greet her with a kiss.. i assume its probably too late for me to make up the ground now is it?

 

[SamePendo]

No kino at all? Not the "natural" of sort of patting her back, or arm when talking? Do that light kino at least next time you see her, and c&f etc if you haven't allready.

Don't know how to make the transition?

Tell her tomorrow that it's remarkable how she has managed to keep composure, and not try to make any moves at you, and that it's good to know she at least tries to see past your sexy body and look into the great human being you are. Eject, and then return with "Omg! I saw you! You were totally checking out my butt!, you thought you'd get away with that now didn't you?" Eject,
and then, return afterwards and tell her, in a serious note, "we should hang out ___(name), let's go ____(action or place)".

Read this before you continue going to the gym.

Oh, and you're too self concious, people won't notice, especially because of the music.. in any case, do your thing when people are at least 2 meters from you.

 

[donArjun]

are you indian

 

[kudjy Piitb]

No kino at all? Not the "natural" of sort of patting her back, or arm when talking? Do that light kino at least next time you see her, and c&f etc if you haven't allready.

Don't know how to make the transition?

Tell her tomorrow that it's remarkable how she has managed to keep composure, and not try to make any moves at you, and that it's good to know she at least tries to see past your sexy body and look into the great human being you are. Eject, and then return with "Omg! I saw you! You were totally checking out my butt!, you thought you'd get away with that now didn't you?" Eject,
and then, return afterwards and tell her, in a serious note, "we should hang out ___(name), let's go ____(action or place)".

Read this before you continue going to the gym.

Oh, and you're too self concious, people won't notice, especially because of the music.. in any case, do your thing when people are at least 2 meters from you.

Thanks for the advice. actually i lie.. i did kino her slightly. touched her elbow yesterday gently and her tummy today.

I'm too self conscious cos the gym trainers behind us keep staring at what im doing. normally with other HBs its not a problem but cos shes older it feels weird..

music was very quiet surprisingly for a gym.

lol thats quite funny the line you mentioned but at the moment baring in mind i dont know if shes married (i assume so she has 2 kids) nor do i want to bring that issue up (i think i read that in one of your posts). so do i still flow with that kind of line?

 

[kudjy Piitb]

No, it's not too late; she's still interested; otherwise, she would be "busy." But you need to make the move using the techniques SP and I recommend. And, re: people watching: most of those folks are envious, bro. Men would like to be in your position, and the women are no doubt intrigued. Use the attention to your advg. I've had lots of older women in my life, so I know the staring can be a bit annoying at times. Just don't pay attention to it. This is your goal...you're going to regret it if you don't put yourself out there...start getting romantic with her by evoking romantic images and kinoing her hands, etc.

Unless it matters, don't ask if she's married.

very true i've noticed recently i seem to have a lot more respect than i did a month ago.

im a young guy and shes a lot older (not enough to be my mother but close).

Have you got any other suggestions of what i could say to her to evoke romantic images?

i totally agree that very few young guys will have talked to her so she's intrigued but not very wary that i think shes hot. she looks somewhat puzzled as to why i sometimes come across as a bit nervous when talking.. she definetely looks confused.

i guess the best way is to make her feel like a young girl again and use the same compliments i use with HBs my own age.

 

[kudjy Piitb]

same pendo im curious about that link you put in your post. i've read that before and you mention something about talking to other guys for social proof etc.. can you explain why you need to do this?

in my experience when i chat to the other guys there and then i try to approach some girl.. they usually try to interrupt my flow by trying to get an introduction to the girl via me.

i get really annoyed with that because i put in all the hard work and took the risk to chat to her so i don't really feel the need to pass her onto someone else for me to compete with for her.

 

[SamePendo]

You are doing something or very wrong, or very well, because what they do is either very disrespectful, or as if you were their long time friend.. I'm guessing it's the first.

You don't need to do it, but social proof is a very good.. weapon.

And, yes, even if she is married, or not, do it.

The issue here isn't the milf man, it's you. No offense, but you seem as a guy with low self-esteem. Try a bootcamp.

 

[kudjy Piitb]

none taken.

it's not a disrespectful thing. its just some these guys i know.. wouldn't say im friends with them just guys i know. and if they see me talking to a hot girl they might have peeped themselves before but didn't have the balls to talk to her and see me doing it, they see it as a way to get an introduction.

i only find the social proof works if its with other HBs you say hi to and know. like you mention, makes the one you're after jealous and intrigued.

i think the underlying prob is that im too caught up in doing the wrong thing and conscious of it that i make myself nervous when talking to them in a relaxed confident manner.

do you have any other lines/tips if i don't feel ready to use the one you mentioned above?

 

[cutesusie]

You are so hilarious!!!
You're talking about nutrition and exercise to an older, possibly married woman, and you're wondering why she's not reacting emotionally to your suggestions to get together???
Sorry, sweetie, but it doesn't take a genius to figure out what's going on here.
I'm a married woman, and I have male friends.
You're in the friend category with this lady.
Besides, what on earth are you doing trying to pick up a woman who might be married? If she is married, what then?
Do you really see yourself with a girlfriend who has a husband and kids?

Go take a cold shower, sweetheart.
Time to get some self-respect and grow up.
Sheesh.

 

[kudjy Piitb]

You are so hilarious!!!
You're talking about nutrition and exercise to an older, possibly married woman, and you're wondering why she's not reacting emotionally to your suggestions to get together???

never suggested to her to get together.

Sorry, sweetie, but it doesn't take a genius to figure out what's going on here.
I'm a married woman, and I have male friends.

'men don't have female friends. only women they haven't f*cked yet.'

You're in the friend category with this lady.

we'll see..

Besides, what on earth are you doing trying to pick up a woman who might be married? If she is married, what then?

then i move on to many others i got going on there, its ignorant to focus on just one woman, pointless even.

Do you really see yourself with a girlfriend who has a husband and kids?

of course not. who said anything about girlfriend?
if i get to bang her then i get to bang her, if i dont then i don't.

Go take a cold shower, sweetheart.
Time to get some self-respect and grow up.
Sheesh.

you're one to talk.

 

[cutesusie]

Hey Kudjy,
I'm sorry for upsetting you, I didn't mean to come across so harshly.
I understand where you are coming from - I still have men propositioning me, even though I am happily married.

Look, do you really want to bang a married woman with kids?
Imagine if she is married, but unhappily, and she sees you not as a casual fling, but as future boyfriend material...then you are in BIG trouble.
What about an angry husband?
Please, don't waste much more time on this lady, you do not want to ruin lives (hers, her husband's if there is a husband, her kids) by becoming involved with a married woman.
Even if she is up for just a bang, the story will not end there for her, even if it does for you.

There are lots of pretty girls around to just 'bang'.
Please be a man about this and back off if she is married.

The difference between a common player and a Don Juan is that the Don Juan is a thoughtful, adult MAN.

 

[kudjy Piitb]

Hey Kudjy,
I'm sorry for upsetting you, I didn't mean to come across so harshly.
I understand where you are coming from - I still have men propositioning me, even though I am happily married.

great. that just flatters your ego.

Look, do you really want to bang a married woman with kids?

she's hot so i don't care. a HB is a HB. a beautiful woman is still a beautiful woman regardless of age.

Imagine if she is married, but unhappily, and she sees you not as a casual fling, but as future boyfriend material...then you are in BIG trouble.

lol i really doubt she's gonna see that in me! hahaha

What about an angry husband?

if she's married im not going to get involved.

Please, don't waste much more time on this lady, you do not want to ruin lives (hers, her husband's if there is a husband, her kids) by becoming involved with a married woman.

who said she's married?

Even if she is up for just a bang, the story will not end there for her, even if it does for you.

There are lots of pretty girls around to just 'bang'.
Please be a man about this and back off if she is married.

The difference between a common player and a Don Juan is that the Don Juan is a thoughtful, adult MAN.

sounds like a definition of an older afc to me

what you say is duly noted but unless you got something productive for me advice wise geared to my situation that will aid me like the other posters have, please don't post more of this stuff to try to guilt trip me. i'm not posting here to have an argument with you.

thanks, but no thanks.

 

[ProtoMan1]

Hey Kudjy,
I'm sorry for upsetting you, I didn't mean to come across so harshly.
I understand where you are coming from - I still have men propositioning me, even though I am happily married.

great. that just flatters your ego.

Look, do you really want to bang a married woman with kids?

she's hot so i don't care. a HB is a HB. a beautiful woman is still a beautiful woman regardless of age.

Imagine if she is married, but unhappily, and she sees you not as a casual fling, but as future boyfriend material...then you are in BIG trouble.

lol i really doubt she's gonna see that in me! hahaha

What about an angry husband?

if she's married im not going to get involved.

Please, don't waste much more time on this lady, you do not want to ruin lives (hers, her husband's if there is a husband, her kids) by becoming involved with a married woman.

who said she's married?

Even if she is up for just a bang, the story will not end there for her, even if it does for you.

There are lots of pretty girls around to just 'bang'.
Please be a man about this and back off if she is married.

The difference between a common player and a Don Juan is that the Don Juan is a thoughtful, adult MAN.

sounds like a definition of an older afc to me

what you say is duly noted but unless you got something productive for me advice wise geared to my situation that will aid me like the other posters have, please don't post more of this stuff to try to guilt trip me. i'm not posting here to have an argument with you.

thanks, but no thanks.

Dude kudjy Piitb, get a life. So you want to ruin lives... and then call this so called milf's husband an older afc... when we all know that you just want to bang her. Despicable.

 

[SamePendo]

Hey Kudjy,
I understand where you are coming from - I still have men propositioning me, even though I am happily married.

We all know that, thanks for participating.

Kudjy, can't think of any other line. Do that, and it will get you much more relaxed, you'll either know if you're in, or you're out. Great luck, let us know how it goes!

And don't wuss up! Next time or never!

:cheer:

 

[kudjy Piitb]

Dude kudjy Piitb, get a life. So you want to ruin lives... and then call this so called milf's husband an older afc... when we all know that you just want to bang her. Despicable.

what the f*ck you talking about you dumb sh*t?! i said what she described sounds like an older afc, i never said this 'so called milfs husband' an afc..

sounds like you're one of these older afc's too who your mrs left you for a younger man.. do i detect a little bitterness? yes i do.

as i said before if you don't have anything productive to contribute with to aid my situation and my goal then shut the f*ck up & f*ck off. i don't sh*t on your threads so don't sh*t on mine. you're not adding value to this thread with your nonsense hater b*llsh*t.

go p*ss off on your high horse and high and mighty attitude you p*ssy before i go take your woman from you and make you cry you b*tch.

 

[kudjy Piitb]

We all know that, thanks for participating.

Kudjy, can't think of any other line. Do that, and it will get you much more relaxed, you'll either know if you're in, or you're out. Great luck, let us know how it goes!

And don't wuss up! Next time or never!

:cheer:

thanks samependo.

at least SOME people on here actually provide you with useful information rather than question you from a moral ground standpoint.

 

[Nexxus]

right so u wanna **** a milf? don't bother, you probably won't, she considers u a friend and if she finds out u wanna **** her she'll think you a huge freak. Besides only **** her if she ain't got no husband or children (especially sons) they'll whoop ya ass if they find out (which they will) unless you wanna ruin lives or at least put huge drama in it which is unneeded

oh yeah I have friends who are girls, honestly and they're hot, not ugly so just stfu
and nobody insulted you, you insulted everybody, I bet you'll insult me as well but why would I give a ****? you're either a sad punk in need of a reality check or a troll with no life who isn't brave in the real world so just takes out his anger on the internet which is even more sad

 

[kudjy Piitb]

right so u wanna **** a milf? don't bother, you probably won't, she considers u a friend and if she finds out u wanna **** her she'll think you a huge freak. Besides only **** her if she ain't got no husband or children (especially sons) they'll whoop ya ass if they find out (which they will) unless you wanna ruin lives or at least put huge drama in it which is unneeded

oh yeah I have friends who are girls, honestly and they're hot, not ugly so just stfu

yeah sure you do..

and nobody insulted you, you insulted everybody,

uh if you read up you dumb f*ck i didn't insult anyone who didn't insult me first

I bet you'll insult me as well but why would I give a ****?

you're damn right i'll insult you, you've insulted me at the end of your post so you're the one who's started it, not me.

you're either a sad punk in need of a reality check or a troll with no life who isn't brave in the real world so just takes out his anger on the internet which is even more sad

man shut f*ck up what the hell do you know?!

you're only 17 barely out of puberty and from ethiopia for christs sake. you don't know sh*t. if you could f*cking read i've already said that i'm not getting involved if she has a husband. i think you should have more concerns about when your next meal is then to comment on this thread. god you're a dumb sh*t. start commenting when your balls have descended you pre pubescent b*tch.

why the f*ck you getting involved in the first place anyway? i never cussed you out so why get involved? you're dissing me at the end of your post so i got every right to go at you p*ssy. protoman1 must be your gf you fag.

i never insulted anyone on here who didn't insult me first. my hostility is therefore merited.

 

[donArjun]

ok I think you answered my question about which ethicity you are from.