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ok super hot HB MILF in her 30s looking to hook up off facebook.

ordinarily these women are just attention wh0res but this one actually is all action and talk, problem is she has so many guys trying to game her online at least 300.. she's narrowed it down to like 25 she's interested in supposedly.. how does one game this chick and differentiate oneself from the others?

she's clearly looking for no strings attached sex and before you shoot me down about using facebook i already have 3-4 other options already but this one is kind of a fantasy f*ck implants and all so i'd still want to go for it.

i've gamed chicks off facebook before so can get numbers easily no probs but this 1 is different cos she's an outright attention wh0re but will give it up if you can make the right moves..

at the moment i'm not her number 1 choice it seems..but as soon as she thought i was looking elsewhere she got all jealous and sh1t. any advice on what tactics to use to get this HB out?

because she's older she's being a bigger tease about it all, like by now i would have already number closed and arranged the meet up but cos she's looking for purely sexual gratification she's touting herself anywhere and everywhere.
 

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Have you talked to her about having sex or is it just obvious? From my experience these girls love sex, but there's one thing they love even more:

Talk about sex.

See, if you're 30 years old and a sex maniac it's pretty obvious that you from experience knows exactly what you want.

And, finding someone who understands exactly what you want.

So, what I would do is:

Talk to her as a friend. Or at least in a very friendly way.

1. Find out what she really really loves in bed.
2. Don't be weird about it. Ask gently (Unless you know to 100% she's cool with it).
2. Ask a lot about it and go in to details. BUT don't tell her what you think about it. She will ask, and when she does - Ignore her gently and ask even more about how she came to the conclusion that she loved this or that position etc. etc.)

3. After a while she'll be dying to know what you think about her fetishes and favorite positions. And, she'll also be dying to know about yours.
4. Don't just agree with her and be easy about it. Tease her a little bit.

5. Be FRIENDLY ABOUT IT. And, I don't mean like becoming friends or anything. But... imagine if you're a hot 30 year old girl with 300 guys asking you about sex-related stuff. I'd be pretty tired when the 50th guy asked me about going out or meeting up for sex.


So, when you really get to know her you're going beyond the lines. Instead of being one of the 25 guys you're the guy that's standing next to her. Then, just lead her to bed ;-)

Let me know what you think about this and i'll get back to you if you want more advice.
 

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I've seen girls that look like perfect 10's on facebook. In real life they look disgusting, fat & short with weird scars on their body.
 

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ego said:
Have you talked to her about having sex or is it just obvious? From my experience these girls love sex, but there's one thing they love even more:

Talk about sex.

See, if you're 30 years old and a sex maniac it's pretty obvious that you from experience knows exactly what you want.

And, finding someone who understands exactly what you want.

So, what I would do is:

Talk to her as a friend. Or at least in a very friendly way.

1. Find out what she really really loves in bed.
2. Don't be weird about it. Ask gently (Unless you know to 100% she's cool with it).
2. Ask a lot about it and go in to details. BUT don't tell her what you think about it. She will ask, and when she does - Ignore her gently and ask even more about how she came to the conclusion that she loved this or that position etc. etc.)

3. After a while she'll be dying to know what you think about her fetishes and favorite positions. And, she'll also be dying to know about yours.
4. Don't just agree with her and be easy about it. Tease her a little bit.

5. Be FRIENDLY ABOUT IT. And, I don't mean like becoming friends or anything. But... imagine if you're a hot 30 year old girl with 300 guys asking you about sex-related stuff. I'd be pretty tired when the 50th guy asked me about going out or meeting up for sex.


So, when you really get to know her you're going beyond the lines. Instead of being one of the 25 guys you're the guy that's standing next to her. Then, just lead her to bed ;-)

Let me know what you think about this and i'll get back to you if you want more advice.
Hey thanks for the constructive advice. I've already asked her about meeting up and she'll give you the usual rub off of 'maybe'.. and 'we'll see' i've asked her already what she's into but not specifics she wouldn't go into detail.. only response was like 'be patient.. all will be revealed'

the last contact i've had with her was a couple of days ago where she got jealous that i might be talking to some other MILF.

im kinda playing it cool at the moment waiting for her to contact me because my attention on her has been quite high now i've suddenly taken it away to see her reaction.

at the moment i'm not at the top of her 25 list and realistically she has no qualms about sleeping with more than one guy at the same time so it's not as if it's just one position available.. but still i need to move up that ladder and put myself into a stronger position. any other advice how i could do that?

i'm on the assumption she's basing her decisions on 1)her fantasies and 2)her 'types' of men she finds physically drawn to.

neither of which i currently am fulfilling.
 

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i'm on the assumption she's basing her decisions on 1)her fantasies and 2)her 'types' of men she finds physically drawn to.

neither of which i currently am fulfilling.


IF your not already fulfilling those things for her then their is no possible way to move your way up the ladder, I say just fvck her and forget her she is a MILF granted but dont become obsessed with her show her all she was was pvssy and leave her she MIGHT talk to you more because you stopped talking to her once you got what you wanted but good luck.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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And I always thought MILF stood for 'Milf I'd like to fvck' - isn't this odd? :p
 

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yeah i should have phrased it better.. i meant in regards to 1) and 2) i fufill those things but say not as highly as maybe some others on her list of 25..

all i know is she got jealous when she thought i was talking to other ones like her.. but when i tried that tactic again she still thought i was only talking to her and my status msg's were for someone else but she thought i meant her and ended up blocking me.. hahaha.

i've been unblocked now but haven't really made any significant gains. i think i'll next her it seems like a lost cause now. i tried the tactic you described in the 2nd post but she isn't very receptive with her answers and very vague.

i assume removing my attention will p1ss her off cos though she's hot she's still past it at the end of the day so needs as much adulation as she can get.

haha.. i can never understand how these hot older women (though hot themselves) think they can compete with younger women half their age in the aesthetic ranks. seems like when your time is over it's over..
 

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so how long does the chatting go on before you actually meet up in person?

im not discrediting online gaming... just curious because i personally wouldnt have the patience to chat for so long before actually meeting. for me a lot of the fun is about the face-to-face interaction, eye contact, touching, hearing (and feeling) eachothers tone of voice, etc.

just curious. as far as your situation... id just try to watch out for wasting time on attention *****s. for all you know she could be married and just looking for a little internet-only excitement while her hubbies away - and not really interested in doing anything for real. id keep her on the backburner until something real - like meeting in person comes up.

-SLB
 

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drift king said:
ok super hot HB MILF in her 30s looking to hook up off facebook.

ordinarily these women are just attention wh0res but this one actually is all action and talk, problem is she has so many guys trying to game her online at least 300.. she's narrowed it down to like 25 she's interested in supposedly.. how does one game this chick and differentiate oneself from the others?

she's clearly looking for no strings attached sex and before you shoot me down about using facebook i already have 3-4 other options already but this one is kind of a fantasy f*ck implants and all so i'd still want to go for it.

i've gamed chicks off facebook before so can get numbers easily no probs but this 1 is different cos she's an outright attention wh0re but will give it up if you can make the right moves..

at the moment i'm not her number 1 choice it seems..but as soon as she thought i was looking elsewhere she got all jealous and sh1t. any advice on what tactics to use to get this HB out?

because she's older she's being a bigger tease about it all, like by now i would have already number closed and arranged the meet up but cos she's looking for purely sexual gratification she's touting herself anywhere and everywhere.
You can tell who are the AMATEURS and AFCs in this forum. You are one of them.

She is an attention who_re. And she is putting herself in the prize position. If you had that many options (as you are claiming)...you won't even be wasting your time with that woman....or worst...you won't be asking for "gaming" clues.
 
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