Hey all,
So there is this girl that works upstairs at a company near mine. Not the same company so don't start with the never date women you work with. Cuz we dont work together. I've seen her few times a month and thought she was cute, she smiled at me and I've said Hi a few times to her. No real conversation because I've always been busy with clients.
Anyways, a few days ago, I went up to her work not only to game her, but I did need something that her company was selling. We sat face to face across one another at a table discussing what I wanted to purchase. We talked about a lot of personal stuff, non business related. I feel the convo would of gone on for hours had I not been c0ck blocked by her business phone ringing.
She was closing her shop, but stayed for a long time to talk to me. I feel I did well, we are the same age, had the same car, and even went to the same college unknown to either of us. I didn't see any IOIs (ie. hair touching, etc) Again I wasn't really looking that hard. but she seemed interested. I thought she was shy, but she was real high energy, not super high but like I said from my impressions of passing her.
Now my question is, How do you determine whether a girl who is kind of high energy if she is interested or not? I mean is she acting this way towards everyone!? or not thats what I'm having a hard time figuring out. I've always been able to tell with girls who arent so out going. But I'm having a difficult time figuring this thing out.
One thing I did notice is she did hold strong eye contact, and I tended to look away at times. Now I'm having a hard time determining if that is interest level or if she is just in her sales/manager mode and does this with every guy.
I will have the time to talk to her in the next few days, because I need to pick up my order. So do I go for the number close when I see her next and just say fck it and see where it goes? Need some advice, Im ok at speaking to women just TERRIBLE at building ATTRACTION.
Need some pointers!!
Thanks.
So there is this girl that works upstairs at a company near mine. Not the same company so don't start with the never date women you work with. Cuz we dont work together. I've seen her few times a month and thought she was cute, she smiled at me and I've said Hi a few times to her. No real conversation because I've always been busy with clients.
Anyways, a few days ago, I went up to her work not only to game her, but I did need something that her company was selling. We sat face to face across one another at a table discussing what I wanted to purchase. We talked about a lot of personal stuff, non business related. I feel the convo would of gone on for hours had I not been c0ck blocked by her business phone ringing.
She was closing her shop, but stayed for a long time to talk to me. I feel I did well, we are the same age, had the same car, and even went to the same college unknown to either of us. I didn't see any IOIs (ie. hair touching, etc) Again I wasn't really looking that hard. but she seemed interested. I thought she was shy, but she was real high energy, not super high but like I said from my impressions of passing her.
Now my question is, How do you determine whether a girl who is kind of high energy if she is interested or not? I mean is she acting this way towards everyone!? or not thats what I'm having a hard time figuring out. I've always been able to tell with girls who arent so out going. But I'm having a difficult time figuring this thing out.
One thing I did notice is she did hold strong eye contact, and I tended to look away at times. Now I'm having a hard time determining if that is interest level or if she is just in her sales/manager mode and does this with every guy.
I will have the time to talk to her in the next few days, because I need to pick up my order. So do I go for the number close when I see her next and just say fck it and see where it goes? Need some advice, Im ok at speaking to women just TERRIBLE at building ATTRACTION.
Need some pointers!!
Thanks.