Game Over. Strangly, I don't feel hurt...but relieved.

[montybrown]

My co-worker met this chick at a club last month at had a banged her the next night. She couldn't stop calling him and all he wanted was a one night stand so he told me to help him out, he gave me her number and I texted her saying that I met her at the club, etc. and I ended up setting up a date to meet her. We meet up, I banged her, and basically everything was a Lie. I kept being mysterious to her because I didn't want her to find out that I really know that guy she had a one night stand with. Lied to her about where I work, etc. But after a while, I started to fall for her. Despite her past and everything, I started to like her. I fvcking hated myself for this because it was supposed to be me just wanted to fvck her and that's it, but for some reason I got emotionally attached.

When that guy she had a one night stand with (my co-worker) took his myspace page off privacy, she saw that I left him comments and started to question me (same name, same age, etc. my myspace is private, so that's all she saw). She questions me That I REALLY DO know that person she had a one night stand with. But I kept denying it. Kept saying that I would never lie to her and I just want everything to be built on trust.

Now I completely FVCKED MYSELF. I have an iPhone and so when she wanted to listen to music on YouTube, I let her. I didn't know what her intentions was, but what she did was she looked through my phonebook and saw that same guys name. I still denied it saying there are plenty of guys in the world named that same name, etc. But here's the kicker, she actually wrote down the number and when she went home, called him and asked for him and said her name was another name. He confirmed it was him. Because he ended up calling me and asked me and I told her it was that chick he had a one night stand with. Then, She called me basically telling me to FVCK OFF and never talk to her again and hung up on me. I called her back 1 time, and left her a voice message. Then I just text messaged her the following "I know you must hate me right now, if you want to work this out then just talk to me. there are some things i need to come clean about. I just want to apologize and if you never want to hear from me again I understand"

Really, theres nothing to do to save this. I need to just move on now. But this was one hell of a learning experience I guess. I could've had this bytch if I never had a myspace which had ties leading back to me knowing her one night stand. so now I just apply everything I learned from this bytch to a new chick and be happy. I don't think I should even admit to anything and just leave everything as it is.

 

[KarmaSutra]

You deserve every bit of what this idiot threw at you. You practically begged her to treat you like a moron. She schooled you in every way and now your guilt has magically metamorphosized into some deranged feeling you relate to love.

This, right here, is tough love. You fvcked up big time. You did it. Live with it. Now you see where lying and subterfuge gets you every single fvcking time. You're sweating, sleeping with one eye open, making sure there is no stone you left unturned so she can wheedle more untruth out of you, blah, blah-fvcking, blah.

Get shut of it, shut it out. Drop this chick quick. In every way. No contact whatsoever. Then let this sh!t dig deep into your psyche and let it fry your goddamned brain for life.

DO NOT LET THIS HAPPEN AGAIN.

This nonsense infuriates me to no end. This is the wake up call your Dad never gave you brother.

:trouble: :box: :trouble:​

 

[ready123]

now there's a candid lesson in honesty

live and learn

 

[nismo-4]

I don't mean to be rude, but you got what you deserved.

Let this sh*t roll off of you. Don't let it happen again.

Tell the truth from the get-go. That lying sh*t you pulled came back and bit your @$$! And it chewed you a new a**hole!

You're sorry? I hope so. Now remember this lesson well!

 

[Sandow]

yeah u shouldn't of lied. in most cases, we develop these fears in our head, when in actuality, if you just told her the truth, she probably wouldn't have cared. I used to reserve what i said to girls, but now i find girls don't really give a fvck. And if it's bold, they'll appreciate your honesty and it shows confidence. All you had to say was that you knew you co-worker. She would probably ask how you knew him and you can just say "yeah, he's my friend, i work with him." thats it. (btw, if she wasn't such a slvt this would of never been an issue, so she has nowhere to look but at herself).

btw, i recommend deleting your myspace account. I deleted mine for the same reasons as above, and my game improved drastically. When girls saw my page, they assumed I was a player b/c of all the comments and pics. it was absolutely killing me, especially when I met a new girl and seeing my page for the first time. seriously, u dont need that sh!t.

 

[DavenJuan]

i dont think the problem is really that you lied. i mean your intentions going in where to get laid. you did what you had to do. however, i would never work this way, but to each their own. but i dont think that was the problem.

the problem occured when you lied for this ONS, then you wanted MORE. at that point, what did you think would happen. you bled it dry on lies and expected what outcome?

but look on the bright side. you got one hell of a story out of it.

 

[montybrown]

i dont think the problem is really that you lied. i mean your intentions going in where to get laid. you did what you had to do. however, i would never work this way, but to each their own. but i dont think that was the problem.

the problem occured when you lied for this ONS, then you wanted MORE. at that point, what did you think would happen. you bled it dry on lies and expected what outcome?

but look on the bright side. you got one hell of a story out of it.

Yep, exactly. It was only supposed to be a ONS, but I got greedy. She definitely isn't one for me to have a relationship anyway but I kept trying to play it with her because it was free sex.

 

[ducaro]

what did you learn from this? EASY FvCK, EASILY FvCKED!

Also, that is precisely the reason why I don't have anything to do with any social networking website. My privacy is my gold.

 

[Mr. Wise]

Myspace is not a place for a DJ IMO. Do not communicate with your friends on that crap. Basically, you're telling the world everything about you in a sense. How can you be mysterious when the people there know what you're into, know where you go, know how you look like and who you hang with? I deleted my page long ago and don't go on it at all. I used to be on myspace for hours checking out other chicks pages and comments etc. If she's someone you date, you're always there "checking up" on who she's communicating with, where she goes, etc. It just works on your head.

Now to your situation. If you plan to have a one night stand, let it just be that. Get in and get out. The more time you spend with the chick, the more you'll have a chance of falling for her. I've been there many times and got stuck too so you're not alone. Unlike the others though, I don't put off lying to her, but if I do, I'll make sure I don't hang out with her after I get her in bed. Basically my thinking is this - she doesn't have to know who I know, where I work, how much I make or anything else for that matter. That's my business.

 

[j0n024]

What is everyone and saying "Lying" is bad? I dont think he did bad at lying to the chick because he did something so he can get a lay and did he get it yes he did, I think you should have kept up with the lie and you should have told her "Are you that insecure that you have to question who my friend are?" The chick is the stereotype of all women...low selfesteem and always looking for the bad in situations . But I agree dont add your friends on a Myspace or make 2 accounts....I almost got fvcked by my LTR gf yesterday.

I was going to make a facebook to meet chicks but I decided against it at the last minute (I did make the profile but added nothing) ...my gf say's out of the blue "Why didnt you tell me you had a facebook?" I just told her I dont and that I was going to make one but got bored of it and asked her if she was spying on me...she denies it and we have phone sex till she get's to my place and then we just keep it going. You got to keep your lies in order if your going to be a good lier because one bad lie can fvck you over.

 

[ready123]

because you don't have to lie to get an ONS. it makes it easy at the beginning but once you start stacking lies, you make a mess that's a pain in the ass to micromanage. and like sandow said, you lose nothing from telling the truth if you have tact. the credibility can actually help you

 

[Microphone Fiend]

What is everyone and saying "Lying" is bad? I dont think he did bad at lying to the chick because he did something so he can get a lay and did he get it yes he did, I think you should have kept up with the lie and you should have told her "Are you that insecure that you have to question who my friend are?" The chick is the stereotype of all women...low selfesteem and always looking for the bad in situations . But I agree dont add your friends on a Myspace or make 2 accounts....I almost got fvcked by my LTR gf yesterday.

I was going to make a facebook to meet chicks but I decided against it at the last minute (I did make the profile but added nothing) ...my gf say's out of the blue "Why didnt you tell me you had a facebook?" I just told her I dont and that I was going to make one but got bored of it and asked her if she was spying on me...she denies it and we have phone sex till she get's to my place and then we just keep it going. You got to keep your lies in order if your going to be a good lier because one bad lie can fvck you over.

Amen. I think the general consensus of SS is that you can't lie and you have to be the opposite of what a PUA is or some sh!t. Fvkk that. he lied and got laid, he fumbled it and lost it. Lying got him something that he wanted. He isn't guilty that he lied, he is guilty that she found out. There is a difference. it's not like the lie was eating him up inside. Where was the guilt when he was gettin the pvssy? Where was the guilt when he was chillin with her rite before she borrowed the phone?

because you don't have to lie to get an ONS. it makes it easy at the beginning but once you start stacking lies, you make a mess that's a pain in the ass to micromanage. and like sandow said, you lose nothing from telling the truth if you have tact. the credibility can actually help you

Micromanage what? all he had to do was not give the girl the phone or not add her on myspace. And nothing to lose? Do you really think he would have gotten her as easily if she knew that the two were friends?

 

[montybrown]

Me and my co-worker are the stars of her MySpace page now. She posted a blog addressing the both of us.......Funny how she puts this up for the world to see, now everyone will know that she's a fkn wh0re who got played by 2 co-workers.



for eric and monty

dont you two ****ers feel special that you get your own blog on my page.
well let me start one by one, since the both of you are ****ing worthless pieces of ****.

eric- you are not all that you think yourself to be. you are not the hottest thing that has walked this earth and you need to quit treating people like ****. and you have no respect for women at all, and what you did, you shall pay for greatly. you thought that you won, the game is only beginning, that so called pretty face of yours, wont be so pretty after you get whats coming to you. you want to brag what you did to me. it was nothing. it shows how much of a little boy you are by the actions you made. you took my kindness for granted, youve lied about me, you dont even know me. your truly pathetic and a waste of hate.

monty- you must be truly ****ing stupid if you think anything would ever work out. you were beyond ****ing retarded if you thought you could do anything in the first place. and i still dont believe you, once a liar always a liar, especially in your case. i only used you to get the information i needed. you werent worth my time. i hear what your saying but i dont care. i told you not to mess with me or youll regret everything you did. you thinks its over, its not. prepare for pain because thats all youll know for this year, ill make sure to see you suffer. after i caught you lying you still lied, and last night when it was your chance to come clean, you still lied. shut the **** up already, i just want to blast your ugly jaw. truthfully i never even was attracted to you, and more so i still have feelings for HIM. you never had a chance so you and eric stupid little set up would have never worked. both of you are ugly inside and out, im disgusted to look at the both of you insecure immature *****es.

boys, you little game failed. im not dumb, i saw it all the moment it started. and honestly didnt the game twist, instead of you guys screwing me over, wasnt it you monty who got screwed in the end. you should have never taken eric's offer. you should have left it between me and him cause now your in as deep of **** as him. you are no better than him, and in all our eyes, you two are on the same level, disgusting shovanistic pigs.

and more so, you two dumb ****s im not the kind of girl that has many guys. see your perception was wrong in the first place. because there was no one. and apparently the two of you are deaf (i can see eric case because of his little set back defect), because there was only one person i had feelings for and that was the only person i had feelings for in months. eric it was just a stupid game between us, and that guy that called the time i was with you, you dumb ****, he's an older brother to me, he was watching out for me because you see a bunch of my friends made a promise to protect me from *******s since i had just had a really bad experience prior to meeting you. you really dont know ****. im not a partier and you dumb ****, you were the first guy i met after that experience back in september way before i met you. so i wasnt seeing a million guys like you were saying. you were the first guy i met after 3 months dumb ****. and to set up a game with your ****ing retarded friend monty, you two ****er are sick. monty you have always ALWAYS irritated me. you and trying to be manipulative. you were to pushy and so big headed. remember you never stood anything.

you two little boys must really be dumb to believe your trick would work. it didnt. **** the both of you. word of advice, karma is a *****, it will come back in ten folds. and more importantly GROW THE **** UP you guys are 22 and 23 and act like ****ing intermediate kids. im 19 and more mature than both of you. oh and monty, he's 21 and he doesnt even pull the immature **** you do. how does it feel to know that people younger than you are more mature and smarter

 

[KarmaSutra]

Jesus, The chick is right. You both are children growing older and dumb as a box of shoes to boot.

You other guys who promote lying and bullsh!t to "get laid" need to understand that this mentality will worm it's way into every facet of your life. Once you've been branded a c0cksucking lying fvck, you're seen as that for life.

Is it worth it for a 5 minute lay?

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Then I just text messaged her the following "I know you must hate me right now, if you want to work this out then just talk to me. there are some things i need to come clean about. I just want to apologize and if you never want to hear from me again I understand"

Did she reply to your text?

 

[Potbelly]

lol...what made you pull all these lies? anyways, who cares man. move on, and stop being a compulsive liar haha

 

[montybrown]

Did she reply to your text?

Yeah.
She still calls me. Actually, she got stoned last night and then she came over to my house. Then when she was here she was all like "I can't believe I'm here." blah blah, we slept together. I took pictures of her pvssy on my iphone and showed it to my co-workers. I think she's attached to me. I call her once, she doesn't answer. Then she calls me once and sometimes I don't decide to answer. But sooner or later she'll cave in and keep calling.

 

[JLW]

Guys, I cant believe you are arguing that lying is okay.

Lying is NOT okay for the above reasons stated in this thread. Liars always get fvcked in the end, this thread being case in point.

Instead of "covering up your lies better", how about DONT LIE IN THE FIRST PLACE.

 

[Creative]

I think the worst you treat her, the more she likes it.... I could be wrong but thats what it seems like.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I think the worst you treat her, the more she likes it.... I could be wrong but thats what it seems like.

Classic AFC mentality here boys. You seriously are in need of help if you believe this crap.