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You should try some public openers on lone wolves. Your getting major ***** shields. Girls in public are far less likely to be as consistently cold.
Galaxy71's 100 Approach Journal
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In my last post, I opened 5 sets. After that night, I had opened 48 sets total.
The next night of sarging, I opened three sets. In the last set of the nights, I opened a hb7 and an hb9. It was fun when I was able to attract a girl after a only a few minutes of using A2 routines. The girl was extremely excited that she met someone extremely interesting. Unforunately, this guy stared at me and told the girls that he wanted to go to another bar. I didn't know that the two girls were with this pack of guys.
3 approaches
51 approaches done overall
The next night of sarging, I opened three sets. In the last set of the nights, I opened a hb7 and an hb9. It was fun when I was able to attract a girl after a only a few minutes of using A2 routines. The girl was extremely excited that she met someone extremely interesting. Unforunately, this guy stared at me and told the girls that he wanted to go to another bar. I didn't know that the two girls were with this pack of guys.
3 approaches
51 approaches done overall
A couple of days later, I went to this lounge that is located in a rich, upscale neighborhood. I saw this hb10 and hb8 blow out these two guys. Immediately, I opened the two set with the opener "Hi, my name is". When they didn't blow me out, I negged the target. Then I started stacking routines. The hb8 walked away, while the hb10 stayed behind with a big smile on her face. The hb10 seemed to be kind of shy. Out of nowhere, this guy stood next to her. He started making fun of my ESP routine. The guy followed it up by putting my hand on my shoulder.
Why wouldn't he stop grabbing my shoulder? His hand was about as tight on my shoulder as a leech on open skin. Things were getting tense. Finally, I gave up. A minute later, the two girls left with that same guy. I think he was the hb10s boyfriend.
3 approaches done
54 apporaches overall
Why wouldn't he stop grabbing my shoulder? His hand was about as tight on my shoulder as a leech on open skin. Things were getting tense. Finally, I gave up. A minute later, the two girls left with that same guy. I think he was the hb10s boyfriend.
3 approaches done
54 apporaches overall
11/14/2006 field report
It was late in the night. There was only an hour left before closing. I saw two girls walked by me. I asked the hb8 if it was O.K. for a girl to be friends with his ex. She answered my question and walked away.
At closing time, I intentionally crashed and burned when I saw this hb7 talking to the bartender. The only reason I crashed and burned was to get rid of some approach anxiety. It's really easy to crash and burn. You go up to girl and act AFC around her.
2 approaches
56 approaches
It was late in the night. There was only an hour left before closing. I saw two girls walked by me. I asked the hb8 if it was O.K. for a girl to be friends with his ex. She answered my question and walked away.
At closing time, I intentionally crashed and burned when I saw this hb7 talking to the bartender. The only reason I crashed and burned was to get rid of some approach anxiety. It's really easy to crash and burn. You go up to girl and act AFC around her.
2 approaches
56 approaches
11/17/2006 field report
It was busy tonight at the bar. There were a lot of young, college girls there tonight. Again my nerves started getting on me. The approach anxiety never goes away. Every time I sarge, I have to open one or two sets, before I lose my AA. Once I lose AA, the IOIs seem to start flying pretty easily now.
This night, my AA was severe. It got so bad that I decided to approach girls without using any routines. Remembering all the stuff about negs and routines seem to stress me out extremely badly. Things started off pretty poorly. I would open a set. Bam, I would get blown out 20 seconds later. Girls were more polite blowing me out compared to other nights. They would answer my questions before they returned to the conversations they were having with their friends.
I ended up opening a two set(hb9 and hb7). When the girls didn't blow me out after my dull AFC opener, I negged the hb9 and started stacking routines. The hb9 became attracted but she got dragged away by her friends. When her friends dragged her away, I her say "I want to talk to him. He is really interesting". Ugh. More tough luck.
Some time later, I got blown out. The alpha female had heard of the jealous girlfriend opener before.
7 approaches
63 approaches overall
It was busy tonight at the bar. There were a lot of young, college girls there tonight. Again my nerves started getting on me. The approach anxiety never goes away. Every time I sarge, I have to open one or two sets, before I lose my AA. Once I lose AA, the IOIs seem to start flying pretty easily now.
This night, my AA was severe. It got so bad that I decided to approach girls without using any routines. Remembering all the stuff about negs and routines seem to stress me out extremely badly. Things started off pretty poorly. I would open a set. Bam, I would get blown out 20 seconds later. Girls were more polite blowing me out compared to other nights. They would answer my questions before they returned to the conversations they were having with their friends.
I ended up opening a two set(hb9 and hb7). When the girls didn't blow me out after my dull AFC opener, I negged the hb9 and started stacking routines. The hb9 became attracted but she got dragged away by her friends. When her friends dragged her away, I her say "I want to talk to him. He is really interesting". Ugh. More tough luck.
Some time later, I got blown out. The alpha female had heard of the jealous girlfriend opener before.
7 approaches
63 approaches overall
11/24/06 field report
Whoa, I had to use direct game because I got drunk. How am I supposed to remember all those lines when I'm plastered. So, I see two girls standing next to a table. I approached and started talking to them. The two girls entered the bar with a fake ID(they were both 19 years of age). I told the hb7 that she was beautiful. The SOI pumped both the girl's buying temperature fast. Both girls were giggling. Hb7 told me that she wanted to give me a high five. Then things went downhill fast. I started talking about where I lived, when she **** tested me. She asked "I thought you said that
you were not from around here". I replied "I am from around here". This went on for another minute. Then I told her "I want to pour whip cream on your stomach". That line is similar to a line used by Juggler.
The girls responded by giggling. Hb7 then **** tested me again by asking "Why did you say that" I replied "Because, I want to". Hb7 became silent. She took several steps backward and she started staring blankly away from me. Her obstacle friend was laughing hysterically. I then told her friend that I wanted to rip off hb7's clothes off and make love to her. Hb7 screamed "What is he saying?". Her friend told her what I said. They giggled. Then I heard hb7 meekly tell her friend "Let's go". They walked away.
I think I triggered her anti-slut mechanism during A3. Instead of qualifying her, I got carried away by all the SOIs I was getting from the two girls. Rather than acting like a guy who is confident and has standards, I acted needy and desperate around the girls.
3 approaches
66 approaches overall
Whoa, I had to use direct game because I got drunk. How am I supposed to remember all those lines when I'm plastered. So, I see two girls standing next to a table. I approached and started talking to them. The two girls entered the bar with a fake ID(they were both 19 years of age). I told the hb7 that she was beautiful. The SOI pumped both the girl's buying temperature fast. Both girls were giggling. Hb7 told me that she wanted to give me a high five. Then things went downhill fast. I started talking about where I lived, when she **** tested me. She asked "I thought you said that
you were not from around here". I replied "I am from around here". This went on for another minute. Then I told her "I want to pour whip cream on your stomach". That line is similar to a line used by Juggler.
The girls responded by giggling. Hb7 then **** tested me again by asking "Why did you say that" I replied "Because, I want to". Hb7 became silent. She took several steps backward and she started staring blankly away from me. Her obstacle friend was laughing hysterically. I then told her friend that I wanted to rip off hb7's clothes off and make love to her. Hb7 screamed "What is he saying?". Her friend told her what I said. They giggled. Then I heard hb7 meekly tell her friend "Let's go". They walked away.
I think I triggered her anti-slut mechanism during A3. Instead of qualifying her, I got carried away by all the SOIs I was getting from the two girls. Rather than acting like a guy who is confident and has standards, I acted needy and desperate around the girls.
3 approaches
66 approaches overall
11/26/06 field report
After church worship service, my friend introduced me to hb9 and b6. Since it was obvious that my friend was into hb9, I could not game her. Hb6 invited me, my friend, and this other guy to have coffee with herself and hb9. Unfortunately, I got lost looking for the coffee shop. I could not call my friend since I lost my cell phone a few weeks ago.
1 approach tonight
67 approaches overall
After church worship service, my friend introduced me to hb9 and b6. Since it was obvious that my friend was into hb9, I could not game her. Hb6 invited me, my friend, and this other guy to have coffee with herself and hb9. Unfortunately, I got lost looking for the coffee shop. I could not call my friend since I lost my cell phone a few weeks ago.
1 approach tonight
67 approaches overall
12/17/06 field report
I went to this church social. This hb6 that I met at another event started talking to me. Since she was an hb6, I made no effort to game her. Looking back, I should have gamed her. Some weeks later, I saw her with makeup. The makeup made her go from hb6 to hb7.5. Ugh!
Some time later in the social, I opened another hb6. All the guys were flirting with her hb7.5 friend. I tried to talk to hb6 about church. Again, the woman blew me off.
2 approaches tonight
77 approaches overall
I went to this church social. This hb6 that I met at another event started talking to me. Since she was an hb6, I made no effort to game her. Looking back, I should have gamed her. Some weeks later, I saw her with makeup. The makeup made her go from hb6 to hb7.5. Ugh!
Some time later in the social, I opened another hb6. All the guys were flirting with her hb7.5 friend. I tried to talk to hb6 about church. Again, the woman blew me off.
2 approaches tonight
77 approaches overall
12/22/06 field report
At this one large bar, I noticed this Asian hb7 order this drink. I asked her if she was having fun. She said "yes" and ignored me.
A few minutes later, I opened hb7 and hb8. I told them that they were cute. Hb8 told me that she had a boyfriend.
2 approaches tonight
79 approaches overall
At this one large bar, I noticed this Asian hb7 order this drink. I asked her if she was having fun. She said "yes" and ignored me.
A few minutes later, I opened hb7 and hb8. I told them that they were cute. Hb8 told me that she had a boyfriend.
2 approaches tonight
79 approaches overall
1/26/2007 I made three approaches at a bar. Instead of using an opinion opener, I used the line "It's not worth it". It's a line that my friends like to goof off with. Surprisingly, the sets opened when I used that lines. The women would ask why I said it. Unforunately, I didn't know what to say after that.
3 approaches
82 approaches overall
1/30/2007
I opened a two set of hb7s. While I was gaming the girls, this large man started AMOGged me by giving me a bear hug. I responded by tickling his stomach!!! His friend started laughing when I did this. The guy gave up and walked away. I ended up losing the girls when I turned away to talk to my wingman.
2 approaches
84 approaches overall
2/8/2007
1 approach
85 approaches overall
2/14/2007
At the church valentine's party, I could not approach. This is what happens when you drink coffee at night. The caffeine and the approach anxiety paralyzed me
1 approach
86 approaches overall
2/23/2007
It was brutal. Cold approaches are brutal. The past few months I haven't done many approaches, because of bad weather and poor health. As a result, I have been feeling a lot of anxiety approaching women this month. I decided the best way to cure my anxiety was to intentionally try to get myself rejected. I have this deep fear of failure. So I needed to remind myself that rejection isn't as bad as I think it was.
I entered this nightclub and saw four girls talking amongst themselves. Instead of using my opinion openers and routines, I decided to just be myself and say "Hi". Immediately, the leader of the group of girls got extremely hostile. I asked her if they were from around the area. The girls gave me short answers. One of them tried to blow me off harshly by saying "Goodbye.". She also growled "Why don't you talk to the other people in the room". I took the hint and walked away.
Some time later, I went to this one large bar. That place rightfully deserves its reputation as being an extremely difficult place to meet new people. The women there are extremely cold and unfriendly even though most of them are average-looking. This is what happens when you have a lot of agressive guys who have no problems approaching women. So I saw two average looking girls standing against the wall. I said "Hi, how are you?". Immediately, I triggered their protection shields on kill mode. The girls looked extremely cold and hostile. I asked them about whether they were from around the area. One of the girls gave me short one-word answers while the other girl was laughing hysterically. Eventually, the hysterical girl dragged the other girl away.
2 approachs
88 approachs overall
3/3/2007
At this one church event, I tried the C vs. U routine on this hb7. For some reason, this did not work. I forgot to neg the girl. She politely asked my name. But that was it. I never felt I hit the social hook point with her
1 approach
89 approachs overall
3/4/2007
I am sorry. But it was total madness at this church social. Some of the things that happen in church are just as crazy as what happens in a bar or nightclub. Most of the people in the event were in their thirties and fourties. One of the woman in the event looked like Audrey Hepburn. The woman was a lawyer, who was in her late twenties and early thirties.
Things started out normally. I went up to her and started talking to her. Instead of being that nice guy who asked too many questions, I started flirting with her. By flirting, I mean being playfull. The girl was laughing and having a good time. Then out of know where, two of my friends killed the intimacy and joined in the conversation. At this point, she was surrounded by three guys(me, and two of my friends). Then something crazy happened. Out of no where, two middle-aged guys joined in the conversation. I felt uncomfortable with all these other guys competing for her attention so I left. She was surrounded by about four guys now. Even with all the attention, she was extremely polite and friendly with the guys. She even gave one of the guys her email address. For the rest of the night, she got mobbed by the guys in the room the way Brittany Spears gets mobbed by the papparazi.
At the end of the night, her patience started wearing thin. This middle-aged gentleman was asking her all these questions about herself. The woman kept on conveniently excusing herself to get some appetizers. The guy realized what was happening and decided to just invite her to an event without asking for her a number. As she was leaving the building and heading to her car, this quiet guy did the stupidest thing ever. He started following her and asking questions like "Are you from around here?". The woman lost her composure and she walked QUICKLY to her car. She tried to blow him off with the line "It was nice meeting you". That guy got embarssed and rejected harshly in front of other people.
This is what happens in a lot of church singles groups. You have a lot of nice, older guys chasing that young, beautiful woman in the room, while all the other woman are completely ignored. The woman who is getting all this attention is initially flattered by the attention. But she eventually acts cold when she realizes how agressive the guys can be. The guys at church can be even more agressive than the young guys you see at bars and nightclubs.
4 approachs
93 approachs overall
3 approaches
82 approaches overall
1/30/2007
I opened a two set of hb7s. While I was gaming the girls, this large man started AMOGged me by giving me a bear hug. I responded by tickling his stomach!!! His friend started laughing when I did this. The guy gave up and walked away. I ended up losing the girls when I turned away to talk to my wingman.
2 approaches
84 approaches overall
2/8/2007
1 approach
85 approaches overall
2/14/2007
At the church valentine's party, I could not approach. This is what happens when you drink coffee at night. The caffeine and the approach anxiety paralyzed me
1 approach
86 approaches overall
2/23/2007
It was brutal. Cold approaches are brutal. The past few months I haven't done many approaches, because of bad weather and poor health. As a result, I have been feeling a lot of anxiety approaching women this month. I decided the best way to cure my anxiety was to intentionally try to get myself rejected. I have this deep fear of failure. So I needed to remind myself that rejection isn't as bad as I think it was.
I entered this nightclub and saw four girls talking amongst themselves. Instead of using my opinion openers and routines, I decided to just be myself and say "Hi". Immediately, the leader of the group of girls got extremely hostile. I asked her if they were from around the area. The girls gave me short answers. One of them tried to blow me off harshly by saying "Goodbye.". She also growled "Why don't you talk to the other people in the room". I took the hint and walked away.
Some time later, I went to this one large bar. That place rightfully deserves its reputation as being an extremely difficult place to meet new people. The women there are extremely cold and unfriendly even though most of them are average-looking. This is what happens when you have a lot of agressive guys who have no problems approaching women. So I saw two average looking girls standing against the wall. I said "Hi, how are you?". Immediately, I triggered their protection shields on kill mode. The girls looked extremely cold and hostile. I asked them about whether they were from around the area. One of the girls gave me short one-word answers while the other girl was laughing hysterically. Eventually, the hysterical girl dragged the other girl away.
2 approachs
88 approachs overall
3/3/2007
At this one church event, I tried the C vs. U routine on this hb7. For some reason, this did not work. I forgot to neg the girl. She politely asked my name. But that was it. I never felt I hit the social hook point with her
1 approach
89 approachs overall
3/4/2007
I am sorry. But it was total madness at this church social. Some of the things that happen in church are just as crazy as what happens in a bar or nightclub. Most of the people in the event were in their thirties and fourties. One of the woman in the event looked like Audrey Hepburn. The woman was a lawyer, who was in her late twenties and early thirties.
Things started out normally. I went up to her and started talking to her. Instead of being that nice guy who asked too many questions, I started flirting with her. By flirting, I mean being playfull. The girl was laughing and having a good time. Then out of know where, two of my friends killed the intimacy and joined in the conversation. At this point, she was surrounded by three guys(me, and two of my friends). Then something crazy happened. Out of no where, two middle-aged guys joined in the conversation. I felt uncomfortable with all these other guys competing for her attention so I left. She was surrounded by about four guys now. Even with all the attention, she was extremely polite and friendly with the guys. She even gave one of the guys her email address. For the rest of the night, she got mobbed by the guys in the room the way Brittany Spears gets mobbed by the papparazi.
At the end of the night, her patience started wearing thin. This middle-aged gentleman was asking her all these questions about herself. The woman kept on conveniently excusing herself to get some appetizers. The guy realized what was happening and decided to just invite her to an event without asking for her a number. As she was leaving the building and heading to her car, this quiet guy did the stupidest thing ever. He started following her and asking questions like "Are you from around here?". The woman lost her composure and she walked QUICKLY to her car. She tried to blow him off with the line "It was nice meeting you". That guy got embarssed and rejected harshly in front of other people.
This is what happens in a lot of church singles groups. You have a lot of nice, older guys chasing that young, beautiful woman in the room, while all the other woman are completely ignored. The woman who is getting all this attention is initially flattered by the attention. But she eventually acts cold when she realizes how agressive the guys can be. The guys at church can be even more agressive than the young guys you see at bars and nightclubs.
4 approachs
93 approachs overall
3/25/2007 I tried to open a moving set but I failed to reach the hook point.
1 approach
94 approaches overall
3/29/2007 At this upscale lounge, I was talking with this hb7.5. She was wearing, sexy, fishnet, stockings. After stacking some routines, she mentioned her boyfriend. When I found out about this, I vibed and ejected.
4 approaches
98 approaches overall
1 approach
94 approaches overall
3/29/2007 At this upscale lounge, I was talking with this hb7.5. She was wearing, sexy, fishnet, stockings. After stacking some routines, she mentioned her boyfriend. When I found out about this, I vibed and ejected.
4 approaches
98 approaches overall