G/f seems too friendly with my buddy and mentions him a lot

[eckhart tolle]

tell your friend to **** OFF.

jesus man. what kind of friend is this? hes doing all this flirty **** with your girl friend?????

dude when im with my bros and they bring chicks theyre into hell i IGNORE them 100% or act like a total ****ing **** just so the girls will hate me. and this is just from chicks theyre trying to get. imagine if they had a girl friend id be 1 million percent distanced from her.

telling her this is a HUGE mistake. shell never admit it no matter how much evidence you present to her. NEVER.

oh and dont get overly controlling. it will not work either. she can just be at home any day. call your friend on the phone and tell him "come **** me" hell be there in a second without hesitation and you will never know about it. so yeah youre not controlling jack ****.

sorry that i have to be so hard on you. but you have to accept the reality of it. i would just dump this chick if i were you. but if you think sex is great with her then just let it be that the sex. nothing more.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have found that relationships tend to begin with insecurity and worry over whether or not a girl will leave me for another guy. But after enough time in the relationship, I see enough of the girl to get sick of her and not care very much. If you want the b!tch, you can have her. The time it took for this transition to occur was very long when I was younger, maybe years. Currently it is about a day and a half.