Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Don't expect loyalty from a wh@re - remember you are just the next in line. Don’t be disappointed if and when it does happen - just expect it - it is out of your hands anyway.
She could sex this guy and you wont even know it - it doesn't have to be this week it could 5 weeks from now - like i said, "you are just the next in line" - just don't get emotional.
I haven't been to this thread for 5 days and I have just read all the posts - everyone gave excellent advice especially Jay Fiedler and the others who had the same experiences. I stand by my statement from 5 days ago and even take a stronger stand now after hearing all the facts!
We all made and sometimes still make compromises because of one factor or another, this could be loneliness, lack of self-confidence to find another mate, too hard and to much work to find another everyday sex partner, emotionally needy, etc.
Plainly and simply men's personalities are different and can go from Mr.Macho Man to Mr. Passive! What is unacceptable to one man is a non-issue to another. I don't know JohnJames, but from what you posted I think you are the passive type and make compromises to avoid conflict and seem to be happier in ignorance than to be in misery with the truth.
Dude this is fine to do at this stage in your life when you just want sex, but for God's sake and yours do not make compromises when it comes to looking for a wife! You will be devastated to say the least.
I actually saw genuine concern for your welfare in this thread by all the Don Juans - do not cast aside what has been said here. Print and make a copy of this whole thread and put it in a secure place, because I have a feeling it'll come in handy when (not if) something like this happens again. You'll see readily and more clearly all the warning signs that the end of her loyalty has already taken place long before your suspicion was awaken. It is the feeling that something is out of place or not right that provokes this thought of suspicion.
This thread that you posted was provoked because you felt something was out of place and not right with the situation at hand, thus your longing for the advice for the answers you already know. Your compromises (see list above) have overridden truth, and that is ok if you are willing to be weakened as a man and accept the consequences of your dismissal of her wrongful thinking, behavior, and actions!
Hopefully, something detrimental to your mental, emotional, physical, or financial health, does not materialize as a result of your irresponsible thinking and actions and destroy you and any future prospects for happiness with a mate, whether it de a disease, a pregnancy, depression, or violence.
You cannot say that you haven't been forewarned!
Do the right thing!
