Fvcking b*tch

[wait_out]

If you pre frame well enough it shouldn't be an issue. Girls will disqualify themselves before they even ask.

the question you need to ask yourself (ok two questions)

1) Are you ashamed in any way of your career choice?

2) Why would you want to be with a woman that doesn't respect your career?

There's things that really bother me about the job sometimes, I don't see how it couldn't for any normal person. The military enacts foreign policy. Its a pretty cold affair directed by politicians, who try to mask that fact by focusing on the inherent humanity of the troops. If you see the regular families trying their best to scratch out a living and stay safe in a conflict area, it can be heartbreaking. You've got to work the system to get them any consideration at all. Its draining. Then you get home and some people will categorize you so quickly... well its the plot of the 1st Rambo really.

The thing is if good people weren't doing the job, it would be 100x worse. Locals there know that. Not every army guy or unit is like that, but I was. If you're sincere, they are super-grateful you're out there trying to protect them. Yeah, I am ashamed of the military when they do stupid **** like shooting pregnant women on night raids. I'm proud of how *I've* acted overseas.

I just wish I was considered as more of a person and less as a symbol by these girls (guys are usually more understanding). Iqqi may be right that its a sign of an emotional defect. I should have walked away without a word.

E.G. You ONLY date girls that don't have ANY problems for military girls. Think of a girl's potential problems with anything military as a DEALBREAKER that you must uncover as quickly as possible.

This seems counter intuitive, as most guys believe they must qualify themselves to women, but a guys that turn the tables and makes girls qualify themselves to him exude a certain kind of power most men don't have.

Thank you and I'll think about this. There's a bit of an anti-military culture here and it really comes out in dating. I've put up with way too much expecting people to be open and considerate and, well, it sucks. Thanks again TO, sincerely appreciate it.

 

[iqqi]

Iqqi may be right that its a sign of an emotional defect. I should have walked away without a word.

OK, I just pointed out a weakness, or a chink, in your armor. There is nothing defective about you. There is nothing defective about having emotions, and feeling things. That is what makes us human, what makes life worth living. So I know I just contradicted myself a little bit.

But I can tell you got what I was saying, so now I will take it a step further and say that it is a great thing to be able to turn your emotions off, or guard them. But on the other hand it is the best thing in life to BE emotional, and feel things. So it is a balancing act, and a healthy sense of esteem about what you do coupled with a good poker face will do you good. But never think feeling things and having emotions are a defection. They can just be used against you in love and war.

As for advice, I would say you should go with what Backbreaker said. Not necessary to tell them exactly what you do when first meeting. It isn't even their business. Qualify them first, in a few meetings, before revealing details about yourself. Go watch "roman holiday" for a great example of a man (and woman!) hiding their true profession.

 

[SexyMofo]

Your time is the most valuable asset you have, you should have walked away after her negative reaction. On the plus side, some women LOVE men in uniform.

As for your choice to be in the military, I wanted to join the Marines, but couldn't get in due to my record.

As an older man, I supposed it worked out, I very well might have died in Iraq.

Politician are our elected hitmen, they use the military and police as their tools. In some cases it works out to our benefit, ie. WWII. In most cases, it is to the benefit of the puppet masters: banking cartels, big business.

 

[omkara]

2. why are you talking about your job anyway? how is talking about your job going to get you laid? the conversation needs to be on making her wet. your military operations do not get women wet. no job gets a woman wet.

I think before you said something about how the real way to get girls is by having value. Like negs and tricks aren't all that important, but having value is.

So it's not good to talk about your career on a date, even though that is a big part of what makes a man who he is? What are good things to talk about to get a girl turned on? I mean other than negs and tricks and qualifying and stuff. I can do some of that stuff but a lot of it seems gimmicky to me. I prefer the path of trying to build substance and value because it serves the dual purpose of benefiting me and making me more attractive to girls.

 

[sodbuster]

A couple weeks ago, I had a little 21 year old bar hag get uppity when I wanted to know who her dad was[turns out I did drink alot of beer with him in my younger days]-she thought I was hitting on her[like SHE stood a chance,but I guess she can dream]. Did the whole gamut of rude. It didn't matter,because SHE didn't matter[does it bother when a drunken bum living on the street insults you?]. Later on in the weekend,she was leaning over me[as I was getting a drink at the bar]with her t1ts in my back and head on my shoulder. I just looked back at her and said"I'm not supposed to f&cking talk to you[her words],go away"

When I didn't "shive a git",then she decided to be interested in me. BUT I really wasn't interested,so it did me no good.