fvcked a friend
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Maxtro
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Friends with benefits? Just don't do stuff that you would only do to a girlfriend.
well, I have to be honest and say that I don't know what I want out of it. If I make some sort of big deal about this thing, I can lose her as a friend (I mean, if I'm in her shoes and I get this whole 'well, we had sex and now I just want to make it clear to you that I'm uninterested in any prolonger emotional attachment' line, I'd be pissed off.)
If I'm not reading her right, and I don't know where her intentions are, then discussing "what this whole thing between us is" just comes off as out of the blue and out of touch with what's happening.
My original post is a poor choice of words.
If I'm not reading her right, and I don't know where her intentions are, then discussing "what this whole thing between us is" just comes off as out of the blue and out of touch with what's happening.
My original post is a poor choice of words.
Maxtro
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I wouldn't bring anything up. Since you have had sex with her, you have already crossed that line. Personally I would not discus it with her but just keep doing it (her?) The first thing that happens is that YOU need to decide what you want out of this. Do you want a relationship, to stay friends with benefits or to stop having sex?
A word of caution: I have never been in your situation so be aware of that when you read my posts.
A word of caution: I have never been in your situation so be aware of that when you read my posts.
RecoveringAFC
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I have been in that situation. It usually doesn't end well.
^^ Agreed. However, you need to make sure you know what you want. Let her bring that topic up, and when she does you can honestly tell her that you've been thinking about what's going on between you two. For all you know she may just want to be a fvck buddy. Don't assume. Unless it's been discussed, nothing is known.