Hey everyone, I'd just like to get your opinion on a couple of things. I've been dating this girl for 7 months now, and we've been serious for 3. She's an HB8-9, a hot Chinese girl who always gets hit on by other guys even when I'm WITH her 
The relationship has been great so far, she's very moral, a complete giver, easy to talk with, and she gets along great with my friends and parents. She's also droped the L-word on me constantly since the past couple of weeks. I responded back to her and told her I felt the same, but I've also been keeping myself in check and not becoming an AFC.
I just recenly got accepted into medical school out in california for next year (2006)! :woo: I am completely psyched, but at the same time a little bummed out. I'm currently working in Boston, where she is going to college. She is going to have another year of college after I leave for medical school, and she then wants to apply for law school. (she's been hinting possibly out in CA). Last night while I was out with friends she SMS'd me saying "I kinda want some time alone this wk babe, ttyl about it. I'm so proud of you u by the way, I know you would get in." I talked with her about it and she basicly said her feelings for me haven't change (if anything have gotten stronger) however she's confused about her future career path and concerned that the reason she would be going to CA would be just for me. Which to me sounds completely logical to question. I told her that I was willing to try a long distance relationship for a year, so long as she wanted to as well. She also had a big fight at home. We then talked a bit more and she was hinting about cooking dinner together and checking out a movie later on in the week. (which i guess is a good sign) I'm planning on letting her have her space and waiting for her to call me this week.
I would like some advice on how I should approch this relationship for the next couple of months because I have a feeling there will be more fights and discussions about this. I'm also concerned if this future long distance relationship will work out becuase I know I will be busy with med school and she will be busy with college (and eventually law school.) Thanks.
The relationship has been great so far, she's very moral, a complete giver, easy to talk with, and she gets along great with my friends and parents. She's also droped the L-word on me constantly since the past couple of weeks. I responded back to her and told her I felt the same, but I've also been keeping myself in check and not becoming an AFC.I just recenly got accepted into medical school out in california for next year (2006)! :woo: I am completely psyched, but at the same time a little bummed out. I'm currently working in Boston, where she is going to college. She is going to have another year of college after I leave for medical school, and she then wants to apply for law school. (she's been hinting possibly out in CA). Last night while I was out with friends she SMS'd me saying "I kinda want some time alone this wk babe, ttyl about it. I'm so proud of you u by the way, I know you would get in." I talked with her about it and she basicly said her feelings for me haven't change (if anything have gotten stronger) however she's confused about her future career path and concerned that the reason she would be going to CA would be just for me. Which to me sounds completely logical to question. I told her that I was willing to try a long distance relationship for a year, so long as she wanted to as well. She also had a big fight at home. We then talked a bit more and she was hinting about cooking dinner together and checking out a movie later on in the week. (which i guess is a good sign) I'm planning on letting her have her space and waiting for her to call me this week.
I would like some advice on how I should approch this relationship for the next couple of months because I have a feeling there will be more fights and discussions about this.
I'm also concerned if this future long distance relationship will work out becuase I know I will be busy with med school and she will be busy with college (and eventually law school.) Thanks.