Funny rejection story that happened to me yesterday

[derby1]

Did i mention the one at the petrol station by me,

Every 3 days she would be thirsting all over me
Asking me constantly when I was going to take her out( I told her to chill out a little bit)
Comes and sits by be at the cafe, (keeps asking when im taking her for a meal, tbh that put me off a little)

then a week later I asked her out to her face

and she replied "I cant sorry" then she did this real strange giggle

lunatics

 

[Atom Smasher]

Strange that she went to all the trouble to look me up or strange that I asked her out the way I did? It wasn’t my most polished line thats for sure but I wasn’t about to offer food or dinner or anything like that. I didn’t try to ask her out again over Facebook I just said “you weren’t rude, I completely understand, I just figured I had nothing to lose. Enjoy the rest of your week.”

“I just figured I had nothing to lose”. I truly don’t mean to be offensive, but that was weak and undoubtedly caused her to realize her low interest is justified.

That phrase comes across as sheepish and weak to women. You should consider for next time a more powerfully-framed response.

“As I see it, the only way to make up for rudeness is to apologize in-person with a substantial gift.”
“But seriously, I understand; no worries at all.”

Saying something like this shows Boldness and class at the same time. It makes you stand out from every other Bozo she rejects, and it will usually cause her to re-evaluate her interest level.

 

[bat soup]

girl rejects you in rude manner, slides in your DMS but cant talk like an adult and say she would like to go for drinks....

Strong & independent ay

well done for holding frame bro, imagine the amount of naive guys who go right into offering the date again.

She's female and you expect her to take the initiative? Come on man.

 

[2Rocky]

My Cousin's wife he met when she was his teller at his bank.

Her friending you on FB is a definite interest signal. If your can't convert on this, there is no hope. She was on the spot at work.

 

[derby1]

She's female and you expect her to take the initiative? Come on man.

no Im getting tired of the narratives being pushed. you can ask any modern woman what men do, and they havent got a clue, literally think they do it all!

their either strong and independent or helpless and its about time they were forced to make up their mind.

 

[Velasco]

She Facebook friended him outta pity and the "don't date clients" was a bs excuse to hide the real reason she rejected him

 

[2Rocky]

Well she claimed they can’t date clients so I took that as a nice way of saying not interested. Honestly though the next move has to be on her end. I asked her out and she said she couldn’t and apologized for being rude.

"I'd like to meet with you about closing my account then"

 

[Don Dark Horse]

"I'd like to meet with you about closing my account then"

very smooth

 

[Velasco]

class at the same time. It makes you stand out from every other Bozo she rejects, and it will usually cause her to re-evaluate her interest level

"I'd like to meet with you about closing my account then"

>"Pick from those who pick you".
>Agreed. Don't waste your time with girls who are not interested in you.
> Poster makes post about girl not interested in him.
>Bro this is what you should have said instead.

 

[DonBud94]

I'm glad I ran into this cause there's this bank teller I want to get at but not sure how I should go about it

 

[Stuffnu]

No girl will take the time and effort to seek you out on Facebook for a rejection.
“Ain‘t allowed” doesn’t mean she ”won’t” allow.
”No problem, you can make it up over a drink”
2Rocky’s witty comment is also spot on.

 

[PRW63]

“hey, not to put you on the spot but would you like to grab a drink after work one night this week?”

Next time you offer a date to a women don't begin with a veiled apology (hey, not to put you on the spot, but...).

Her response “I’m good”.

She gets that a lot if she is attractive. You might have been the 3rd one that day. They get tired of if, lose respect for guys, and wish guys had the social awareness to know the difference between the behavor of a woman that is interested -vs- a woman who is being friendly in a professional environment.

Oh dang, wasn’t expecting that response after the way we’d been talking even if it was friendly chat. I kept my smile though “no problem, have a good rest of the week”.

Pretty good response. About the best you could do in that situation.

Here’s the funny part. SHE LOOKS ME UP ON FACEBOOK. She didn’t know my last name unless she used my account information. I get a random friend request an hour later and it’s her. Then she sends me a message “sorry I was rude earlier, I didn’t mean to be, we just aren’t allowed to date clients”. Which I mean I gets that’s a legit reason but I’ve just never had a girl reject me and then look me up on social media to apologize. My dating experiences never cease to amaze me, I always have weird **** happen to me it seems like.

It's FB. I would have actually expected that. Her apology is also typical. Women always feel bad about a rejection unless you really ticked them off in the process. That is why they typically don't speak in direct words and always try to soften it when they break up with a guy. Plus, in her case she doesn't want a customer to feel awkward in a professional environment next time he comes in.

 

[Bokanovsky]

She Facebook friended him outta pity and the "don't date clients" was a bs excuse to hide the real reason she rejected him

Or she's worried that he might "retaliate" by filing a complaint about her. Now she has a written record of what actually happened. Smart.

 

[Robert28]

She Facebook friended him outta pity and the "don't date clients" was a bs excuse to hide the real reason she rejected him

I mean honestly that’s how I took it.

 

[Robert28]

Some of you that want me to keep after her are forgetting the golden rule of “anything that isn’t a fvck yes is a no”

 

[derby1]

"I'd like to meet with you about closing my account then"

mate this is straight from the book of pimp

very good

 

[derby1]

Some of you that want me to keep after her are forgetting the golden rule of “anything that isn’t a fvck yes is a no”

I dont think they want you to keep her, I think were just reflecting and observing, it shows how women are excellent at raking men back in with plausible reasons. The whole post is very good

 

[B80]

This new girl just started at my bank, she’s about 27 or so. We chat it up the couple times I’ve seen her and she’s waited on me. I asked her out “hey, not to put you on the spot but would you like to grab a drink after work one night this week?”. Her response “I’m good”. Oh dang, wasn’t expecting that response after the way we’d been talking even if it was friendly chat. I kept my smile though “no problem, have a good rest of the week”.
Here’s the funny part. SHE LOOKS ME UP ON FACEBOOK. She didn’t know my last name unless she used my account information. I get a random friend request an hour later and it’s her. Then she sends me a message “sorry I was rude earlier, I didn’t mean to be, we just aren’t allowed to date clients”. Which I mean I gets that’s a legit reason but I’ve just never had a girl reject me and then look me up on social media to apologize. My dating experiences never cease to amaze me, I always have weird **** happen to me it seems like.

Fair play for asking her. Honestly though, don't this is that weird tbh.

Could be whole host of reasons as mentioned, such as being caught off guard.

She may have felt bad about it/or may actually fancy you. She may just be a decent person.

I've done stuff I've really regretted/felt bad about before and gone out of my way to apologise to the person, even though chances are I'd never encounter them again.

 

[Robert28]

Fair play for asking her. Honestly though, don't this is that weird tbh.

Could be whole host of reasons as mentioned, such as being caught off guard.

She may have felt bad about it/or may actually fancy you. She may just be a decent person.

I've done stuff I've really regretted/felt bad about before and gone out of my way to apologise to the person, even though chances are I'd never encounter them again.

Yeah I agree I probably caught her off guard but I mean it wasn’t like I was cold approaching a total stranger on the street. Which is weird because that’s worked for me the few times I’ve done it.lol My thinking was if I waited too long it would make it even more awkward, but doing it after talking a couple times didn’t seem so bad. Plus it wasn’t like I blurted it out, we were talking about different restaurants and food and asking her out for a drink seemed to be the least pressure as opposed to dinner or something. Plus women are always telling us “make your intentions known early so we don’t think you want to be friends!” so I definitely made mine known. I dunno why women get so weirded out by a dude wanting to date them because I hear women always complaining “gah it’s been forever since I’ve been asked out! Do guys do that anymore?”

 

[SW15]

@Robert28 -- The initial rejection is likely horseshiit. Let's say this woman uses a swipe apps, gets cold approached, or meets a man through her social circle. He happens to have a bank account with that particular bank where she works. That guy is technically a client. That relationship is going to happen.

Women are good at hiding behind behind those claims.

Many years ago, I approached a woman in the office building where I was working. She happened to work for the property management company that managed the building. When I asked her out, she claimed "she couldn't date a tenant". I wasn't a tenant. I worked for a company that was a tenant. I had no say in the decision for that company to renew its lease in the building or leave for another building.

I ended up catching a break on that one. I found her social media accounts and found out she was 25-26 at the time and already a single mom.

The lesson here is don't hit on women with service sector jobs that deal with the general public unless you are able to meet them outside of work. This goes for waitresses, strippers, bartenders, coffee shop baristas, retail bank employees, grocery store cashiers, etc.