Funny online exchange today that shows how women think

[3agle 3yes]

If you want to pump and dump, first you have to pump.

I think your first mistake was taking what she said seriously - it doesn't matter what a girl says, if she likes you enough and you get her feeling hot she'll have sex with you. She can say what she wants but in the end she'll follow her emotions. In fact, just her mentioning the possibility of sex was a good sign - it shows that she was thinking about it.

You also shouldn't give the game away so easily - it would have been better to say "ok, let's see how it goes" and go out with her and try to pull her back to your hotel with some kind of pretext like showing her your holiday photos.

Arguing with her was kind of the nail in the coffin. You would be better just to stop responding at the point she started saying stupid stuff.

I completely agree. I've been considering making a thread about my appraoch. It might be too long for some guys here, but my success rate is very high.

For a cold approach, my first goal is to get her number and nothing more. If I don't get her number, when she leaves I'll never see her again (most probably). The most powerful thing I do is make her laugh, which typically calms down her nerves and makes her comfortable with me, the rest is just the occasional small talk.

Then, when I have her number my next goal is to get her to respond to my messages. Again, humour is my best weapon.

Once she's responding to my texts, I arrange a meet up during the weekend (I don't think asking her when she's available is a good idea, I'll explain). The trick here, is to meet her somewhere casual and I'll tell I only have 30 minutes to spare and after that we can go are seperate ways.

I still have friends who arrange dates with women with the intention of spending hours with her. In my experience this causes a lot of women to flake. Saying you only have 30 minutes to spare puts them at ease, as it's low commitment.

I also don't ask them when they're availble unless they can't go out on a weekend, which is when most people are free anyway, because I don't want them to think about it. If they have to think about the time when they are going to meet up with you, they're more likely to flake (probably because of anxiety).

Once she's agreed to meet me and we're physically together, this is when I start to openly flirt and become slightly more sexual.

If I'm making her laugh and she's having a reasonably good time, it's so much easier to get her to stick around longer. Even if she has to leave, the chances she'll go out with you again is 10x more likely than it was before, because she's done it already.

Then, my next goal is to get her to my house. Once she's in your house and you're both alone with each other, she'd be stupid to not know what's expected.

My appoach more nuance than this, but for anyone who's struggling and reading this, try it.

 

[bat soup]

I completely agree. I've been considering making a thread about my appraoch. It might be too long for some guys here, but my success rate is very high.

For a cold approach, my first goal is to get her number and nothing more. If I don't get her number, when she leaves I'll never see her again (most probably). The most powerful thing I do is make her laugh, which typically calms down her nerves and makes her comfortable with me, the rest is just the occasional small talk.

Then, when I have her number my next goal is to get her to respond to my messages. Again, humour is my best weapon.

Once she's responding to my texts, I arrange a meet up during the weekend (I don't think asking her when she's available is a good idea, I'll explain). The trick here, is to meet her somewhere casual and I'll tell I only have 30 minutes to spare and after that we can go are seperate ways.

I still have friends who arrange dates with women with the intention of spending hours with her. In my experience this causes a lot of women to flake. Saying you only have 30 minutes to spare puts them at ease, as it's low commitment.

I also don't ask them when they're availble unless they can't go out on a weekend, which is when most people are free anyway, because I don't want them to think about it. If they have to think about the time when they are going to meet up with you, they're more likely to flake (probably because of anxiety).

Once she's agreed to meet me and we're physically together, this is when I start to openly flirt and become slightly more sexual.

If I'm making her laugh and she's having a reasonably good time, it's so much easier to get her to stick around longer. Even if she has to leave, the chances she'll go out with you again is 10x more likely than it was before, because she's done it already.

Then, my next goal is to get her to my house. Once she's in your house and you're both alone with each other, she'd be stupid to not know what's expected.

My appoach more nuance than this, but for anyone who's struggling and reading this, try it.

Sounds like a good strategy. I'm going to steal it.

 

[Clamslammer]

So I meet this HB8 last night in Hong Kong on the scout dating app. She has 9 out of 10 yoga body long thick hair down to her waste and a very nice face. Small tatoo above her right ankle though....so obvious pump n dump material.

The conversation was good last night however she kept stressing how no matter what she won't have sex until after like the 4th date or so. So in my mind I'm already crossing her off my list...so much pump n dump material over here in Asia who try to cuck you for boring first dates and more it's crazy....if if they are quoting a number of dates they are usually pretty serious about this rule not just talk I've learned from experience.

So she messages me this morning saying she would rather meet me today instead of going out with her friends. I kind of want to take her invitation, but deep in my gut I had a bad feeling. Going to Hong Kong to post up in a hotel and buying drinks gets expensive fast and I'm on a very limited budget until Feb 15th....and this corona virus stuff.

So I say okay maybe I can come just need to book a place to stay. Then she says oh...you are booking a place? Well, just so you know I will not sleep with anyone until 4 or 5 dates...it's very important that I get to know the person first.

So then I'm thinking there is in fact a decent chance I can plow through that **** test....I have before although when it's a number such as 4 or 5 I've noticed they actually usually do really mean business. However, with this corona virus going on and my funds very limited until my next February 15th paycheck, I decide it is definitely not worth the risk if going there wasting one third of my remaining funds and coming home empty handed.

So I say **** it .....will just run a social experiment on this chick...she is proving to be too much of a headache already.

So I say you know what, if we are going to have these kind of limits and rules I think it's better that you come meet me here in Shenzhen. Plus this corona virus stuff makes it more difficult for me to go to Hong Kong.

I get this somewhat predictable text:

"I didn't play any games, this is not rule this is me, I'm not that easy to sleep with someone I just meet, if u dont wanna meet is fine, bye take care!!!! And don't come back to ask me twice after this!"

So I say okay, bye take care as well with a winkie face....then a message from wechat saying this user requires a friend request which means she blocked me haha.

So after about 10 mins I get a message from her on the dating app that we met on saying just wanted to say good luck to you....I have another guy who I will meet instead of you...and to think I originally chose you over him....he is so nice and sweet.

So I say...I'm not sure what your definition of nice and sweet is, but I speak my honest mind. No need for drama please.

I really wanted to troll this chick at this point to see how far we could go with this. Zero desire to meet this biatch and jump through her silly hoops.

She says.... this is how women are if you don't like it then go date a man.

So I say okay...good luck with your new date today...am cheering for you, just don't show him this over emotional side and it will be good.

Lol then she says: I don't think that will happen because he is so nice, so sweet and caring unlike you.

Then I say, oh you mean nice like that tattoo on your leg and how you are acting so upset because someone suggested you come meet them instead of them going to meet you? Yes you definitely deserve a really nice man...you can do it if you find the right one.

She flipped out then and said well **** you and **** off then stupid.

Honestly, if I had more money right now I would have ignored the no sex **** test, gone to Hong Kong went out with her then just hit up a club or bar if she held the no sex stance. Not worth the money that I would spend though until my next payday on the 15th. Interesting to see a girl expose her trrue train of thought so soon though.

My conclusion is the term "nice guy" or "sweet" in a woman's words simply means how willing that guy is to follow her frame and has zero to do with actually being nice. I always get a weird vibe when a woman throws around those terms a lot in the beginning....looking for a nice, sweet caring man. She talked about this a lot last night too. Seems they got pump n dumped now are trying to cuck a beta for more.

Stop overgaming it. She was interested in meeting so you should have met her. When she brought up not having sex you should have fired back with something more witty, like "Don't worry I am not that easy either...I only give it up on the first date to the really cute ones. The rest I make them wait until the 10th date" and left it at that.

 

[zinc4]

Stop overgaming it. She was interested in meeting so you should have met her. When she brought up not having sex you should have fired back with something more witty, like "Don't worry I am not that easy either...I only give it up on the first date to the really cute ones. The rest I make them wait until the 10th date" and left it at that.

This is an old post man. Seems like a long time ago now. I was in a much different place financially then. If you knew what a pain in the ass going through Chinese immigration and busing into Hong Kong could be then posting up in a hotel with barely any pocket change you would understand. No online chick is worth that. In fact, i usually make it a rule to never travel to see an internet girl. I literally use to have them come directly to my place for a movie instead of a date when i was in Taiwan.