Fun is paramount.

[De La Soul]

I woke up yesterday morning bleary eyed, with a headache like a jackhammer, and a taste in my mouth that can only be described as halfway between sour milk and cola.

Nevertheless, I woke up with a smile on my face. It was at that moment when I looked in the mirror, seeing the ugliest morning-beast you will ever see, that I could finally confirm what I had long suspected:

The most important thing in life is to have fun. A life which you don't enjoy is completely wasted.

Therefore it stands to reason, that the most important thing with women is to have fun.

Make fun your goal.

If you're having fun you will become 100% more attractive. More importantly, even if you don't get laid, it doesn't matter: Getting laid is no longer the goal. You no longer fear making a mistake, or saying the wrong thing. You no longer have a little voice in your head saying: "Don't stuff up. This could be it. Remember to make eye contact. Use kino. WAIT! Was that a dilated pupil I saw? O damn I hope I didn't miss my chance. OK, be calm and confident, just make eye contact. WAIT! She stopped talking! Think of something to say!"

Instead, you think to yourself, "This is fun! This chick is totally into me! I can make my move at any time." BAM! You make your move at ANY time. If she rejects you - no matter, you're having fun.

By having fun you completely change the way you think. You're no longer worried about details, you're no longer caught up in your self-consciousness.

Fun is the single thing that will transform you from a boring, average guy, to the PRIZE that everyone genuinely wants to win.

It's the single most powerful and fulfilling tool you can use.

Change the way you think. Think fun. And only fun.

 

[007]

Good Post man! I've been making it a point lately to have more fun in any given situation. It only makes sense!

 

[De La Soul]

Guys who are not getting numbers/dates should remember this. Guys who are getting numbers/dates should also remember this.

The difference between an average approach and a great approach is:

1. A great approach is one where the man has fun. Conversely, in an average approach, the man sees the woman as the glorified queen, the prize above all other prizes, he sees the approach as a chore or mission, instead of an opportunity to have fun.

2. A great approach happens when the man is entirely focused on HIS OWN feelings, instead of the woman's (i.e. In an average approach, the man will not be so concerned about whether or not the woman is having fun, or whether or not she is attracted to him. In a great approach, the man only cares about his own feelings).

EDIT: My opinions have changed a little bit: I still believe fun is the most important thing. However, if you want to become a serious SSer, you must also pay attention to the female's emotions.

[This message has been edited by De La Soul (edited 10-19-2002).]

 

[Challenger]

Wow, great texts here, even though I don't like the "edit"

EDIT: My opinions have changed a little bit: I still believe fun is the most important thing. However, if you want to become a serious SSer, you must also pay attention to the female's emotions.

 

[stuartSan]

Tips Forum.

 

[De La Soul]

Originally posted by Challenger:
Wow, great texts here, even though I don't like the "edit"

EDIT: My opinions have changed a little bit: I still believe fun is the most important thing. However, if you want to become a serious SSer, you must also pay attention to the female's emotions.

LOL. Yeah, the only thing that's changed in my opinion about this post is just that if you're interested in SS (which not everyone is, and I'm only dabbling in), you have to actually pay attention to the emotional states that your taking your female target through.

Otherwise, just go out there and... have fun.

De La Soul