Frustration of young men explained in a chart and post

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Read this post by this dude and this **** is alarming!


It makes so much sense why so many young dudes are frustrated
 

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The data used to compile those maps used the term “single” to distinguish from married individuals. It doesn’t show how many women have or don’t have boyfriends. Or guys who don’t have girlfriends.

All these maps show is that there are more unmarried men in selective age groups.

Mgtow’s own battle cry.

And now you guys are using it as an excuse to why it’s so hard to get a girl?

Lol.
Exactly what’s going on here.

Read this post by this dude and this **** is alarming!


It makes so much sense why so many young dudes are frustrated
That seems more like an excuse than the truth. It doesn’t explain why, in that environment, that there are still men banging women left and right. There’s plenty that have harems of women, too, all over the country and all over the world.

Like I was saying in the post about OLD, this is another case of “it’s not really my fault, it’s something exterior”.

Though a male-female population ratio is a factor, it’s not the cause of their frustration. It actually makes dating easier if you’re masculine and atypical of the rest of the local guys.

These guys are causing their own frustration. It’s easy to blame the situation on something else. It’s more difficult to accept responsibility for one’s own life and correct it. Rather than learn how to have more women in their life, and developing themselves and their life, they’re blaming it on a population issue, meanwhile there are men in their same location having more success than they are. At the same time, lying to themselves about the situation, they stay stagnant, where the guy that understands what I’m getting at continues to improve his life and continues to get more women.

I could delve into the societal effects and feminization of men in the US, and abroad (but mostly western civilization), but that’s a topic all its own.

Either way, it’s just another item on a list of things used as an excuse to stay a cuck. It’s a justification to avoid facing one’s fears and problems in life. It’s weak and feminine.
 

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If there are basically the same number of men and women in that 20-34 age group how are there dramatically more single men than women unless the women are all being scooped up by older men? And if that's the case then shame on the guys their own age who cant beat out someone older for their affections.
 

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The data used to compile those maps used the term “single” to distinguish from married individuals. It doesn’t show how many women have or don’t have boyfriends. Or guys who don’t have girlfriends.

All these maps show is that there are more unmarried men then there are unmarried women in selective age groups.

Mgtow’s own battle cry.

And now you guys are using it as an excuse to why it’s so hard to get a girl?

Lol.
i blame low testosterone.


guys are so soft these days. i seen a dude run away when a cute girl approachefd at the gym. the amount of sackless cowards these days is beyond comical.

They won't approach. They rely on passive dating strategies and are utter pathetic.


There's never been a greater time to be a bachelor. Its more important now then ever to Double down. Gynocentrism, feminism, girl power era has women believing cratered SMV and degrees in left handed puppetry is empowering.



Women follow whatever society pedals. Its why they need a alpha male to keep her on check (that being, making sandwiches or tied to your bed post)!

Wait wut?
 

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If there are basically the same number of men and women in that 20-34 age group how are there dramatically more single men than women unless the women are all being scooped up by older men? And if that's the case then shame on the guys their own age who cant beat out someone older for their affections.
Mate, I'm thirty. The benchmark is top form smv 18-23. Dude's her age cannot compete. Let alone break the ice and approach. Its female stupidity to trade her best yrs in. The delusional everybody is equal rubbish gets debunked quick.

Look no further than who women ****.
 

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If there are basically the same number of men and women in that 20-34 age group how are there dramatically more single men than women unless the women are all being scooped up by older men? And if that's the case then shame on the guys their own age who cant beat out someone older for their affections.
Well, that map, look at all the dots in FL, and one of those big FL dots is literally right over my location where I live and I believe it. I believe the older men thing too since I live in SWFL which is the oldest part of the state. I'll see HB7-9 35-45 yr olds with guys over 12 years their senior. For this area it's the oldest area of the entire state. Median age 55 and most of the decent women are married and move here from up north for healthcare or teaching jobs.
 

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The data used to compile those maps used the term “single” to distinguish from married individuals. It doesn’t show how many women have or don’t have boyfriends. Or guys who don’t have girlfriends.

All these maps show is that there are more unmarried men then there are unmarried women in selective age groups.

Mgtow’s own battle cry.

And now you guys are using it as an excuse to why it’s so hard to get a girl?

Lol.
I do not get your logic, if it holds true then I would argue the numbers are even more bleak because a lot more women are taken with boyfriendss than single.

As for the overall point, I don't see how it ties into MGTOW or red pill, those dudes whine about feminism. The post highlights the overall issue that we have far too many men in society.
 

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i blame low testosterone.


guys are so soft these days. i seen a dude run away when a cute girl approachefd at the gym. the amount of sackless cowards these days is beyond comical.

They won't approach. They rely on passive dating strategies and are utter pathetic.


There's never been a greater time to be a bachelor. Its more important now then ever to Double down. Gynocentrism, feminism, girl power era has women believing cratered SMV and degrees in left handed puppetry is empowering.



Women follow whatever society pedals. Its why they need a alpha male to keep her on check (that being, making sandwiches or tied to your bed post)!

Wait wut?
The testosterone issue is partly due to plastic.
 

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People with boyfriends and girlfriends are still considered “single” because they are not married.

This means on the map above, all those “single” guys could have girlfriends or be sleeping with multiple women, including married women.

It does not mean there is a surplus of guys without girlfriends who can’t get a girl because there aren’t enough girls without boyfriends.
But then the 80-20 rule, the average guy maybe sleeps with 7 women in his entire life, most of these men are struggling and likely just single men going out with poor game and validating egos of women.
 

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There are other factors too. I think the map is very accurate, because the biggest blue dot in FL on that map is right over where I live.

There are other factors too. Like lets say there is not only more single guys, there are even less dateable women. I mean like for example I see far more land whales and fugly and out of shape women around here than I see men who are fat and fugly. I see more slim, in shape and average to above average men than I see average to above average women and women who take care of themselves. I mean women that men on here wouldn't touch with a 10 foot poll.

Lets say for example you have 200 single guys in this room. 100 of them are average and above average and you have 130 women and only 40 are average or above, women us on here would target. There is going to be a problem stats wise there even for the decent looking guys to compete with. Simply not enough to go around and we see this all the time and I see it everyday too in public.

That's why even in OLD in many areas even decent looking guys have to put in a lot of work to get dates. In my 60 mile radius there is maybe 30 women I see on OLD on a regular basis I'd touch! Yet there is about 10x as many guys.

It's worse stats than the eastern front for the Germans in WW2. As you can see on the map excluding California, in most states if you live in a major city your number odds as a single guy are better. I believe the red dot for Tampa too. A lot more single women I see there than down by here.
 

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Im not american, I really have no idea which things work there and if those charts are reliable or not however Im totally sure about what happens in Europe.

I travel often at least 3-4 times per year mid term(about a month) and a dozen of times short term(few days).

I can tell you that there are countries were girls are less than guys and you dont even need a chart to know it, have a walk in Spain, Italy or Greece in city centre and you will find plenty of single guys or groups of guys by themselves...no need to tell you what you find in bars, clubs and meeting places.

You get an airplane and get to Berlin or Hamburg and you get quite close to a balanced ratio, get a train and move to Warsaw or Wroclaw and you see girls alone or with their female friends in the city centre, shops and meeting places.

If you think its just a matter of timing or girls are hiding in day/night time, just make a list of countries where sexual turism exists and you will notice that those same countries make top list.

I kid you not, there are countries were no matter where you go its impossible to find a decent number of girls below 30 while in others you see them everywhere.

If you are european and travel make this experiment, have a look at bars and clubs but also high schools when the students leave the building and try to see the ratio.

The outcome of these fact is that men in those countries are beyong desperation while entitlement of women reach pathological levels.
 

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Exactly what’s going on here.



That seems more like an excuse than the truth. It doesn’t explain why, in that environment, that there are still men banging women left and right. There’s plenty that have harems of women, too, all over the country and all over the world.

Like I was saying in the post about OLD, this is another case of “it’s not really my fault, it’s something exterior”.

Though a male-female population ratio is a factor, it’s not the cause of their frustration. It actually makes dating easier if you’re masculine and atypical of the rest of the local guys.

These guys are causing their own frustration. It’s easy to blame the situation on something else. It’s more difficult to accept responsibility for one’s own life and correct it. Rather than learn how to have more women in their life, and developing themselves and their life, they’re blaming it on a population issue, meanwhile there are men in their same location having more success than they are. At the same time, lying to themselves about the situation, they stay stagnant, where the guy that understands what I’m getting at continues to improve his life and continues to get more women.

I could delve into the societal effects and feminization of men in the US, and abroad (but mostly western civilization), but that’s a topic all its own.

Either way, it’s just another item on a list of things used as an excuse to stay a cuck. It’s a justification to avoid facing one’s fears and problems in life. It’s weak and feminine.
Exactly.

Just go inside a popular mall in a mid sized city of 500,000 and you'll see plenty of available single young women walking around.

From the way this OP is written, one might think those women practice celibacy.

The delusions some men have is amazing..
 

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Exactly.

Just go inside a popular mall in a mid sized city of 500,000 and you'll see plenty of available single young women walking around.

From the way this OP is written, one might think those women practice celibacy.

The delusions some men have is amazing..
The mall around here is dead. You might see a few teenagers, single moms, and otherwise mostly old people but hot single women walking around lol. Iij don't even bother shopping there the selection sucks. Even the new mall in tampa I go to not a lot of customers. Most of the hot chicks at the mall are the ones working in the store. When I bought my sun glasses a couple weeks ago at sunglass hut there is a very perky hb8 chick working there. I totally would have smashed her. Mom was with me so I couldn't really flirt with her plus I lived over 100 miles away
 

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The mall around here is dead. You might see a few teenagers, single moms, and otherwise mostly old people but hot single women walking around lol. Iij don't even bother shopping there the selection sucks. Even the new mall in tampa I go to not a lot of customers. Most of the hot chicks at the mall are the ones working in the store. When I bought my sun glasses a couple weeks ago at sunglass hut there is a very perky hb8 chick working there. I totally would have smashed her. Mom was with me so I couldn't really flirt with her plus I lived over 100 miles away
I'm sure where ever you go there's no single hot women walking around.

Meanwhile other men has an abundance of it.

It's the way of the world, the haves and the have nots.

When u r fed up with it, then learn.

However if u r still insist on having the same mindset, then enjoy having nothing, ur past results will be your current results and ur current results will be ur future results.

Enjoy it.
 

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Read this post by this dude and this **** is alarming!


It makes so much sense why so many young dudes are frustrated
Yeah, I'm single. Let me give you all the disadvantages:

- more free time (to work on self, body, business)
- more money
- more autonomy
- no in-laws
- s*ex with a multitude of women
- no kids to drain my bank account or cause me stress.
- no wife to make "happy" so I don't get ass raped in court and lose half my s*hit.

Yeah, reaaaally s*ucks, lol.
 

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Some maybe. But those men could also have a low number of lifetime partners due to marriage. There are other explanations for such things.

The 80/20 rule doesn’t actually mean 20% of guys get 80% of the women, anyway.

The 80/20 rule applied to dating would be more accurate if you were to say that men in group A get the very same results of men in group B, but do so with only 20% of the effort that men in group B apply to get it done.

In other words, both men get one girl each, but men in group A do very little to get that result compared to men in group B, who are trying harder to get the same result.
There was a bro science video online.

Manlet needed to be a best selling author, surgeon, and billionaire to attract. Even then most wouldn't.
 

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There was a bro science video online.

Manlet needed to be a best selling author, surgeon, and billionaire to attract. Even then most wouldn't.
And the competing non-manlets had to be murderers & child molesters: :mad::mad:

 
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