I worked for this wholesale fragrence company. While working there i became friends with this guy. We were in training to open up our own office. We worked long hours mon-sat. And we also took business trips every week IF you wanted to go on them. Basically we started flirting and i thought it was innocent. I never thought that he would actually be interested in me. So we kept flirting and one day he asked me to take him home because his brother had his car. I agreed and on the way there we just talked about work. Innocent right? Well, when we got close to his house he asked for my number and i tried to ignore it, but he asked for it again so i gave it to him. At first we just talked about work. Then he called me on a saturday night and asked could i come see him at his aunts house and i went. We talked for hours about everything. And he was telling me how his wife wasnt supportive of the job because during our training we go paid on commission. She naggs him all the time and etc. So he asked me to get out of the car and i did. He was hugging me and i knew that he try to kiss me so before he did i asked him did he know what he was doing. He said yes so we kissed. and then i left. The following monday i went on my first business trip with the office and he went as well. We shared a room and beds and nothing happened we just cuddled and i enjoyed it. He admitted he liked me and he knew i already liked him. I thought i could handle being with him while he was married but i couldnt. ONe day his wife called my phone and asked did i know her husband. Turns out she got the cell phone bill and was wondering why my number was on it so much for calls and text messages. He told me to just tell her if she called back that we worked together and i did. I was upset but the next night is what took the cake. He called and put his wife on the phone to make it seem like somebody else was calling me from his phone. I told him that our relationship had to end because if it didnt he would never leave his wife like he told me he would. I also told him that i was no longer working in an office with him so he needed to find someone else. I tried to end on good terms but he never responed to my message. So i took it as its done and he's accepted it too. But then i got a text after a few days of non communication saying "whats up". I guess he doesnt take me serious because i have told him that i was done with him but this time im serious because the wife has began to call and how he put her on the phone was like a slap in my face. Why would he be calling me now? what do i do to get fully over this man? Can we really be just friends? What should i do? what does he want from me? he was really good with my baby and he always helped me out. I felt that he could have really been into me. I also felt like it wasnt my problem because im single and i can do what i want and he's married so its between the two of them. FOR ALL THOSE WHO HAVE SMART REMARKS KEEP THEM. I KNOW I MADE A MISTAKE AND WE ALL MAKE THEM. WHAT MATTERS IS WHAT YOU DO AFTER YOU REALIZED IT WAS A MISTAKE. AND PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS.