From a male perspective, what trait in a woman is equivalent to tallness in a man?

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We've often wondered why women find tallness attractive in men and It's clear/obvious how most women respond with desire to tall men.

From a male perspective, what trait in a woman is equivalent to tallness in a man?
And how do we react to it?

We're not talking about physical fitness; being tall and being fit are distinct qualities. (Infact, a short but muscolar and fit guy could appear stronger than a taller but skinny man)
 
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For women, those traits might be...

1. Big natural breasts without being overweight
2. A lower body fat and athletic physique

Male SMV is a combination of looks, money, status, and personality. Female SMV is looks and personality. In female SMV, looks matter more than personality. Good looking females can lower their SMV with a bad personality that often causes drama.
 

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Youth.

I’ll flirt with any woman who is young, But if she older, even if hot, won’t do it.
 

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I'm happier with a feminine 6 rather than with a masculine or damaged 8.
Oh that's convenient. Explain what does a 6 mean to you, I assume she has to be cute right? and not overweight?
 

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Definitely big boobs (both big and big relative to their overall size) for the "imposing physical presence in a good way" effect

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Oh that's convenient. Explain what does a 6 mean to you, I assume she has to be cute right? and not overweight?
I would like to keep the conversation on the point of the first post and not go into other personal topics, but I will explain to you that a 6 for me is not a 6 for you. An 8 for me, is a 6 or a 9 for you.
We did not have the same imprinting, that's why talking about this could be too personal.
I read some scientific studies about this.
When it's not in the body (maybe she's curvy or soft), it's in her face! And you can see it in women who are so young even after 35 (childish look)
 

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I would like to keep the conversation on the point of the first post
The conversation is on point. Cause if a 6 for you means cute, then looks matter more than anything.
 

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Height in a man is a characteristic that:
* can't be changed
* the majority of women find desirable
* .. to the point that for some women, it's a deal breaker
* nevertheless, short guys can still pull if they shine in other ways (just not with the height Queens)
* there is a sweet spot, an ideal ratio, ie it's possible to be too tall
* height also has a halo effect, ie helps radically not just for finding a partner, but in social interactions with everyone, men & women.

The female equivalent would be a slender bone structure.
Whilst overall leanness / fitness can change over time and circumstance, we have to accept the bone structure we're born with.

Women with a sturdy bone structure have difficulty looking graceful or feminine (perhaps with clever tailoring).
Women with a slim bone structure can still be fit/strong etc.
But a fit/strong woman who's built sturdy just looks masculine, whereas the same girl with a thin build could be an insta influencer.
I think it goes without saying, that any body type could be fat.
(No, I wouldn't bang a fat chick regardless of body type)

Sure, lots of guys like their women chunky.
but yeah, I'm one of those guys who greatly prefers my women to be thin.
 

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True. Not universal tho.
I'm happier with a feminine 6 rather than with a masculine or damaged 8.
That's personal preference.
Same. Well, her personality affects her looks anyway. But she has to be baseline physically attractive. The rest is up to her to prove me right or wrong.
 

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tallness in a man?
height also has a halo effect, ie helps radically not just for finding a partner, but in social interactions with everyone, men & women.
This is the biggest $hitburger men today happily eat.

The biggest autists, weirdos, lack of social interaction skills are tall men. For them it does help them, because they need the boost in height for people to pay attention to them.

Through my career I've worked with thousands of men, no joke, they biggest weirdos are the tallest men. The ones who got their $hit together, smart, care free and enjoyable company, are average height guys.

We even have a saying in the Latino Community, that tall guys are so weirdos because gravity doesn't let blood flow easily to their brains.

Men today are so easily manipulated by society, and we can see it in the last decade. Men don't realize they are under attack, and the topic of "height" is the strongest point to make them insecure and quit.
 

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A banging body.

I would pretty much go for a chick with a banging body no matter what her face looked like all things being equal...I can always turn her around be fvcking a 10/10
 
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