Friendzoning Chicks

[LandingWood]

What do you guys think of friendzoning chicks you used to orbit?

There's a chick I used to orbit who now has a boyfriend. This chick (regrettably) has a **** pick from yours truly. But I've always wanted to **** her. So what do you guys think of this plan:

Begin to speak with her again and orbit again, but be more sexual and more touchy. When she says anything about her boyfriend, just reassure her that my moves don't mean anything because we're just friends.

I think this will work because I look amazing and she's said it herself back in my orbiting days. So it will **** with her head that a hot guy like me is only her friend.

Thoughts? Arugments?

 

[Meisterman]

I guess you could give it a shot, but in my experience it's extremely unusual for a girl to fu*k a guy after she's mentally categorized him as a "friend." Of girls that I've been with, nearly every one we hit it off from the get go and only later became 'friends'. But if your plan is just to orbit indefinitely, that hardly ever works because you're just reinforcing yourself as a friend and nothing more. You should try to bang a girl as soon as possible after meeting her. The longer you hang around, the less your chances become.

 

[bigneil]

This can only work if you KNOW she is highly attracted to you, but has some issue such as another boyfriend.

In that case, it can indeed be highly effective.

Here is what I've done:

1) Let them know you are highly attracted to them and that you can never see them as a friend, but drop all pursuit. The ball is in their court.

2) Proceed to date other equally attractive (preferably younger) women. If you can't, you are dead in the water. No girl wants to be a charity to her man. She wants to steal him away from hotter women.

3) Since you are just friends, be sure to tell her details about your other conquests. Ask her advice but don't take it. Send three photos of hot women (who would confirm liking you if she asked them) and ask which one she would choose for that Friday night. If she is a bartender or waitress at a place that would impress another date, by all means take her there. Often when two women who are iffy about you suddenly see you with another woman, they make up their mind in a hurry (they both wanted social proof).

4) Have a party and serve fine wine and food. Invite only hot women including your "friend". Being the host of a party can be the fastest route to unclogging relationship problems.

This plan will either work right away or never. If it doesn't, hit the gym.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

What do you guys think of friendzoning chicks you used to orbit?

By very definition, you cannot 'friend-zone' someone who has already 'friend-zoned' you... by your very admission of being an 'orbiter', they were not (very) attracted to you, put you in the zone first and any attempt to zone them will have no effect at all - you basically adhere to their wishes. Even a soppy declaration of undying love might achieve more than that.

Forget orbiting/friend-zoning; what's the point. Just find new chicks you are attracted to and make it subtly clear what your intentions are from the outset. If you get rejected, just start over again. And again, until you get it right.

Non-orbiters (guys who are ultimately successful with chicks/alphas/sigmas/whatever you wanna call them) have three groups of females in their lives: family members, chicks they date/f*ck/GFs, and genuine female friends. Some guys admit that they can't be friends with a female, but I have a few.

 

[LuckyStrike88]

What do you guys think of friendzoning chicks you used to orbit?

There's a chick I used to orbit who now has a boyfriend. This chick (regrettably) has a **** pick from yours truly. But I've always wanted to **** her. So what do you guys think of this plan:

Begin to speak with her again and orbit again, but be more sexual and more touchy. When she says anything about her boyfriend, just reassure her that my moves don't mean anything because we're just friends.

I think this will work because I look amazing and she's said it herself back in my orbiting days. So it will **** with her head that a hot guy like me is only her friend.

Thoughts? Arugments?

Giving her way too much value and lowering your own by not moving on to other women. With your plan you deceive her and yourself. If you do look amazing you should have other options, right. Coming onto her with a hidden agenda can only cause problems, she will sense something is up. Thinking you don't have other options, risking destroying your frame with her and your own self respect. Sometimes the way to success is doing nothing for now, well except date other girls like you should.

Ps. Keep in mind there is a good chance she sees you as the orbiting guy, that didn't land. And now another guy has landed on her. For you to start getting touchy with her now, fill that in yourself.

 

[VikingKing]

What do you guys think of friendzoning chicks you used to orbit?

There's a chick I used to orbit who now has a boyfriend. This chick (regrettably) has a **** pick from yours truly. But I've always wanted to **** her. So what do you guys think of this plan:

Begin to speak with her again and orbit again, but be more sexual and more touchy. When she says anything about her boyfriend, just reassure her that my moves don't mean anything because we're just friends.

I think this will work because I look amazing and she's said it herself back in my orbiting days. So it will **** with her head that a hot guy like me is only her friend.

Thoughts? Arugments?

I think its petty if that's your intention. Looking to get back at some one shows you care to much and will be detrimental.

But if it is a side affect if you learning not to be desperate, that I'd say you are sitting pretty.

 

[LandingWood]

I guess I wasn't clear about our relationship the first time. I was the good looking guy in high school who didn't really socialize. There were three girls who really liked me but since I was a social retard, I never made a move. So we just hung out all the time. I was smart enough to never talk to them about their boyfriend problems throughout highschool, but I cut them off once I realized I was basically an orbiter.

It's because of the fact that I know they were attracted to me that I think there may be a chance.

 

[GS750]

I personally have no use for friendship when it comes to women. I've always wanted them sexually or not at all. I won't allow any "in between" place to exist between myself and women. I'm most comfortable either completely dominating women or ignoring them.

Agreed. I don't do platonic friendships. Have in the past (college days). Never again.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Not sure about your plan OP, but I think you should should friend zone her by focusing on some new chicks.

 

[VladPatton]

If they're attractive, keep em on the back burner. Hot chicks hang together. You might just get a booty call if they're drunk 'n horny one night.

 

[LandingWood]

Not sure about your plan OP, but I think you should should friend zone her by focusing on some new chicks.

I haven't spoken to her in months. A friend mentioned her recently.

 

[harrison9876]

the only time this worked for me was on a mega hot HB9. I fvcked her fairly quickly after meeting her...but she was more interested in Angelina Jolie's ex-BF (don't ask)...so I got thrown into the LJBF zone after a few nights of casual hook-ups.

She knew I really liked her, but I turned into an orbiter for a looooooooooong while...and then I just got fed up and walked away.

Later on...and I mean a few years down the road, I found her on Facebook...still damn hot...we started chatting on the phone again. Though deep down I still wanted her...I really became her "friend"...I talked about other girls...she talked about the next douchebag she was dating...then the next. Would always tell me how badly she was being treated...I would always tell her the same thing - "hey...someday you'll meet a guy who really likes you."

After a time period of 8 months, out of the blue she tells me she has a mega crush on me. Commented on the fact that she did not like the fact that I LJBF her...and wants to date me.

Now...

Keep in mind that though deep down I wanted to fvck her senseless...I moved on to OTHER girls and never asked her to hang out. Yes, I did flirt with her on the phone a lot...had her laughing all the time...but I guess it somehow placed her into a zone of confusion:

"here is a guy who makes me laugh, has always wanted me, flirts with me on the phone"...would never treat me like shyt like all these other guys...and he ONLY wants to be friends??"...

WTF??

In the end I dissed her (other reasons)...

She got to that point because:

1) Though I still wanted to fvck her, I really had moved on to was with other girls

2) I spoke about other girls and gave her guy advice



Personally, if you want to go this route...I would GENUINELY be her friend, and NEVER....EVER...expect anything more....EVER. Otherwise, you will just orbit and fulfill her ego...

Mike

 

[nismo-4]

Women believe they can just be friends with a guy.

Men don't buy that.

This only works if you friendzoned her first, and she wants more. Otherwise, it's useless.

AFAIC I'm either having sex, or we don't interact at all. Platonic relationships with women are pointless and useless to me. Unless they are contributing something to me, which is very rare.

Case closed.