AlexTheGreat
Senior Don Juan
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Hi, I'm new here ..... hehehe great first post hein ? lol
Well, I just wanted to know something ....
I've been friendzoned by this girl at school that I really like. She told me once that she did have a high interest in me. I know that I ****ed it up by being too present, too available, too pushover, too nice --- too AFC/nice guy . Anyways, she knows I like her, and sometimes it seems like she might be a little interested.
I will start tomorrow the DJ Bootcamp, to get rid of my AFC-ness, get more confidence, and let the Man hiding in me transpire over this Nice Guy that I am right now.
So, the question is .... As she was interested in me when I wasn't paying a lot of attention to her (at the beginning, I didn't put her on any pedestal or whatever ... Just when I started to get to know her, when my feelings for her started growing, that I put her higher than me), and that she lost most of that interest when she saw my AFC-ness and lack of confidence, could I make her regain that interest with a change of attitude ? I mean, summer vacation is coming soon, so I'll have more time to practice the DJ skills and get rid of the AFC in me. Could the change of attitude, plus the DJ skills, plus the 2 months of absence, make her change me from the friend to the real zone ?
Well, I just wanted to know something ....
I've been friendzoned by this girl at school that I really like. She told me once that she did have a high interest in me. I know that I ****ed it up by being too present, too available, too pushover, too nice --- too AFC/nice guy . Anyways, she knows I like her, and sometimes it seems like she might be a little interested.
I will start tomorrow the DJ Bootcamp, to get rid of my AFC-ness, get more confidence, and let the Man hiding in me transpire over this Nice Guy that I am right now.
So, the question is .... As she was interested in me when I wasn't paying a lot of attention to her (at the beginning, I didn't put her on any pedestal or whatever ... Just when I started to get to know her, when my feelings for her started growing, that I put her higher than me), and that she lost most of that interest when she saw my AFC-ness and lack of confidence, could I make her regain that interest with a change of attitude ? I mean, summer vacation is coming soon, so I'll have more time to practice the DJ skills and get rid of the AFC in me. Could the change of attitude, plus the DJ skills, plus the 2 months of absence, make her change me from the friend to the real zone ?