Okay, so im in college, ive known this girl for 2 years now, entering a 3rd year, shes pretty cute and smart, to be honest, shes hot, but shes single, and shes been single for 3 years, and i know that she had only 1 bf, i think i fell in love with her the 1st day i saw her but i think im in kind of a friendzone, i think i gave her hints that i liked her, i even wrote a poem for her and i read it to her,she liked it, but she tought it was for some other girl ive been talking about few months prior to this, told her it was for her, and i was kinda tipsy when i told her that... i dont know, guys i need help, i feel like shes the one, but then, im afraid of spending so much time and wasting years of my life, any tips ?
Friendzone or nah ?
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wifehunter
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I'd take a step back to do some thinking, get some objectivity.
parkthebus
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Yes you're friendzoned and no the one does not exist.
EyeBRollin
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If you aren't having sex with her or she's not begging you to be her boyfriend, you are probably in the "friend zone."
Building_and_Loan
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If you have known her for years and have not made a move on her even though she's hot, then she does not respect you as a man.
Therefore, you will get nothing. Sorry. However, it's not too late to change your ways.
Therefore, you will get nothing. Sorry. However, it's not too late to change your ways.
CuddleJunkie
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lol, im a man, thats for sure. Yeah, well, its not just me and her, our circle of friends is kinda big, and if i try do do something, its gonna make things weird, not that im afraid of rejection. The thing im trying to say, is that shes not that typical girl, plus shes a virgin, i feel like shes waiting for that someone special, and im trying to be that guy, but maybe you guys are right, maybe i should just stahp and move on
yungballa
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I'll give you my two cents.
You're in the friendzone, I can tell. The fact that you've known her for two years and there's been no sexual vibe between you (and she's not flirting with you) or dropping any hints that she's interested in you, then you're friendzoned. Trust me, ask yourself deep down. Does this girl really like you? I think you know the answer to this question.
What do I think you should do? Sorry buddy, but there's no such thing as "the one." You should read the DJ bible and the Rational Male, or anything red-pill related. There is no such thing as the one. You'll meet plenty of girls over and over and think they are "the one" just because you're attracted to them. Stop it. There's no such thing, it's nothing but a lie; something society conditioned you to think of. If you were talking to five different girls at the same time, you won't be thinking there's such thing as "the one."
Anyways, I honestly think you should just forget about trying to get with her. Eliminate her from your life and just move on, talk to other women and get experience with other girls as you talk to them.
But... if you have reeaallly set your sights on getting her...
Now, my advice is if you really want her, you might have to start being more sexual with her. Flirt with her more, give her more compliments, touch her, tease her, use your tools of game on her, just don't do anything that's out of character, that's unneccesary becauser you've been her friend for two years and you're most likely already comfortable with each other. In short, if you REALLY want her that bad, make it known with YOUR ACTIONS that you like her. Stop talking to her like she's your friend, and talk to her like you're trying to seduce her.
I was in your situation not too many weeks ago. It was one of my best friends that I was comfortable being friends with and I just ignored my attraction for her (it was a brother-sister type relationship), but then I started to embrace my sexuality towards her and I put it into action. I tried; but I didn't get to any sexual stages with her. I'd say I'm still in the friend zone. She changed schools, anyway (I was planning to cut her off from my life b/c I wasn't satisfied with a friendship with a girl I'm attracted to).
So, in short, if you're in the friendzone and you're attracted to her, go for her and show her with your actions (sexually) that you want her, and you want more than a friend ship. NOT verbally, use your ACTIONS. But, if you fail to remove yourself from the friendzone, just drop her altogether, unless, of course, you enjoy just being friends with her (Which I see nothing wrong with that).
Also, your join date says you joined yesterday... please read the DJ bible, it'll help you tremendously, most likely even transform your life! It definitely saved me, and a lot of others on this site, I'll tell you that...
You're in the friendzone, I can tell. The fact that you've known her for two years and there's been no sexual vibe between you (and she's not flirting with you) or dropping any hints that she's interested in you, then you're friendzoned. Trust me, ask yourself deep down. Does this girl really like you? I think you know the answer to this question.
What do I think you should do? Sorry buddy, but there's no such thing as "the one." You should read the DJ bible and the Rational Male, or anything red-pill related. There is no such thing as the one. You'll meet plenty of girls over and over and think they are "the one" just because you're attracted to them. Stop it. There's no such thing, it's nothing but a lie; something society conditioned you to think of. If you were talking to five different girls at the same time, you won't be thinking there's such thing as "the one."
Anyways, I honestly think you should just forget about trying to get with her. Eliminate her from your life and just move on, talk to other women and get experience with other girls as you talk to them.
But... if you have reeaallly set your sights on getting her...
Now, my advice is if you really want her, you might have to start being more sexual with her. Flirt with her more, give her more compliments, touch her, tease her, use your tools of game on her, just don't do anything that's out of character, that's unneccesary becauser you've been her friend for two years and you're most likely already comfortable with each other. In short, if you REALLY want her that bad, make it known with YOUR ACTIONS that you like her. Stop talking to her like she's your friend, and talk to her like you're trying to seduce her.
I was in your situation not too many weeks ago. It was one of my best friends that I was comfortable being friends with and I just ignored my attraction for her (it was a brother-sister type relationship), but then I started to embrace my sexuality towards her and I put it into action. I tried; but I didn't get to any sexual stages with her. I'd say I'm still in the friend zone. She changed schools, anyway (I was planning to cut her off from my life b/c I wasn't satisfied with a friendship with a girl I'm attracted to).
So, in short, if you're in the friendzone and you're attracted to her, go for her and show her with your actions (sexually) that you want her, and you want more than a friend ship. NOT verbally, use your ACTIONS. But, if you fail to remove yourself from the friendzone, just drop her altogether, unless, of course, you enjoy just being friends with her (Which I see nothing wrong with that).
Also, your join date says you joined yesterday... please read the DJ bible, it'll help you tremendously, most likely even transform your life! It definitely saved me, and a lot of others on this site, I'll tell you that...
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Lozboss
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No you're not a man. A MAN goes for what he wants- doesn't worry over the social circle.
Either move on or make a move. Two choices.
Dressed is right. Time for you to unplug. Read: The Rational male.
Do this ASAP.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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You're friendzoned. She probably did know that the poem was from you but didnt want to hurt you. Don't go out of your way for anymore man cuz the steps you'd need totake to **** her are pretty much gone.
Maximus Rex
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Of course she liked it, you gave her a gang of unwarranted attention.
How was being afraid of going after the p*ssy and going full on needy beta male faggot with this broad suppose to benefit you.
Read the DJ Bible and the Book of Pook.
And pray tell why do you feel this way considering that you've never seen this chick naked.
You know what that is a picture of? No Rex. What is it? That's a Roman legion. Do you know what the guy in the front is? No Rex, what is the guy in the the back? He's the commander of the legion, a centurion. What is your point Rex?
Well to this broad, you're knowing more than those dudes carrying the shields, a just a mere legionnaire in her legion of followers. You've f*cked up so bad with this chick, that you might actually be the centurion in her legion of followers. My advice is to learn game and holla at other chicks because it's a wrap with ole girl.
Guys, thank you a lot, you guys helped ! Im' going to get more sexual with her, let her know that im atracted to her, and if she declines, its hr loss, because i got other girls who want my **** pretty bad, ill show her, either youre on this boat or youre not ! Btw, ill read those books , ty guys !
CuddleJunkie
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Rex mayne, don-t do that to the legions please hahahaha. Holy ****
Of course she liked it, you gave her a gang of unwarranted attention.
How was being afraid of going after the p*ssy and going full on needy beta male faggot with this broad suppose to benefit you.
Read the DJ Bible and the Book of Pook.
And pray tell why do you feel this way considering that you've never seen this chick naked.
You know what that is a picture of? No Rex. What is it? That's a Roman legion. Do you know what the guy in the front is? No Rex, what is the guy in the the back? He's the commander of the legion, a centurion. What is your point Rex?
Well to this broad, you're knowing more than those dudes carrying the shields, a just a mere legionnaire in her legion of followers. You've f*cked up so bad with this chick, that you might actually be the centurion in her legion of followers. My advice is to learn game and holla at other chicks because it's a wrap with ole girl.
NSX-R
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Rexy is on fire!! hahahahah
