friendship zone

[pimp2004]

there was this girl i was trying to get with for about a few months now,i have took her on dates(i paid for) i have even bought her a b-day gift,

so day i told her how i really felt about her and she was like i dont look at you like that, only as a friend,i was crushed(am a very good looking guy,so i know its not about looks)
but anyways i was soo angry that i stopped calling her for a month,then out of now where she called saying "what happen am i mad at her"and i said i was upset about what you said to me last month and i didnt feel like calling you anymore

she said she was sorry that she mis lead me and she would still like to be friends and just friends with me
so i said "OK then its cool with me we can be friends"but i still havent called her as of yet,i have 2 other fine girls who is interested in me

what i want to know is what should i do with her,be her friend or just cut my losses and not call her ever again

 

[Omni]

What kind of a girl lets a man pay for her when she isn't interested in him romantically? Is that the type of person you want as a friend?

 

[pimp2004]

your right,i shouldnt call her ass ever again

 

[Spike_Tha_Cowboy]

She just has intense feelings for you and that scares her. The same thing happens to me all the time.

 

[Walk this Way]

Why does she even want to be friends with you?

 

[pimp2004]

Originally posted by Spike_Tha_Cowboy
She just has intense feelings for you and that scares her. The same thing happens to me all the time.

i dont think so,this girl is very out going(basically she is the average everyday hoe)and i still couldnt hit,maybe i waited too long or somthing i dont know

 

[xblitz44x]

Yeah there just seems to be a conflict of interest. If you want more than that, and you're just going to hurt yourself during this friendship then it's just not worth it. The hardest part for you isn't figuring out whether you *should* still talk to her or not. You already know that. The hardest part is going to be controlling yourself so that you don't settle with that "well at least it's SOMETHING, maybe she'll change her mind" mentality. If you can really forget about her and stick to your guns you'll be best off.

 

[abcd_z]

Okay, let's look at the situation objectively for a second here. You were LJBF'ed. There is pretty much nothing right now that you can do to change the fact that she doesn't think of you 'like that'. Now let's look at WHY this happened. You weren't a challenge. You weren't suave or smooth, or confident or C+F. You telegraphed your desperation through your actions, and she could tell. In short, you're still an AFC. Read the DJ Bible. Or go through DJ Boot Camp. Hell, do both if you're really up for a challenge. But don't worry about her so much until you've improved yourself.

 

[ArmondTamzarian]

There is no point in trying to convert a 'friend'. But you never should have spilled your guts. That is just wuss personified. Second, how could you have had such deep feelings so fast anyway? That is what really turned her off. Lets say you spent a total of 30 hours with her. You still don't know squat about her. The movies and television have been lying to you. No woman is worth falling for short of two months. Sounds like you latched on like a frightened puppy.

 

[Satan Psycho]

Man, You're post is screaming that you need to read the DJ Bible right away. Just be fortunate that you found it. (There's a link, since it seems you haven't found it)

 

[barbarianthemadserb]

Hey Pimp, actions and not words count

I remember one time that a girl kept telling me and my friends and her friends that all she wanted was to be friends. And friends dont fck friends right!?... You won't believe how many times she jumped my bones so to speak. hahahha. That relation broke up after about three months cause she kept insisting she just wanted to be friends (no sex!). Go figure eh.

Again, ******** sometimes is hard to figure out. Actions speak louder than words when it comes to females.

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