backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Is it just me, it very well might be, but the better I do in life in general, the more my friends, my real freinds, or at least I thought guys who I thought were my real friends, resent me more and more?
I mean, it's a hard balance between trying to stay friends with guys you have known your whole life.. and you honestly, or at least I honestly want to continue being friends, as they for the most part have always been there for me.. but more and more I have noticed they seem to resent me in a way.
They do alot more things without me. 2 years ago, you coudln't go out and see one of us without seeing the other two. Now, people call me asking where was I the other night, they saw my two friends and didn't see me, and I didn't even know they were going out.
They never come by my house anymore, whereas it was a time when both had keys to my house and I couldn't keep them away if I wanted to.
I make time for my friends, or at least try to.. last weekend I swung by their house (they live together now too) to chill for a mintue and both seemed to be "busy" with other things, one was talking on the phone with his GF for like an hour, and the other was trying to get his GF to come over, so I just left, as I didn't necessarly feel like I was wanted
Don't pick up the phone when I call, etc... and it's not like they are overlly busy, one doesn' thave a job and the other talks all day on the telephone at his job.
Anyway, although I am the youngest, I have always been considered to be the more mature out of all of us, but it'sl ike I am on a totally different plato in life then they are. But when I look at them, I don't look at how sucessful they are or anything like that, and i don't want them to look at me like that either.. i want them to look at me like they have their entire lifes
anyway, anyone else seem to have this problem with people in general?
One of the things I need to get out there and improve on in general is, I really don't have alot of friends. As a matter of fact, I would venture to say that these two guys are my only two real friends. I know people, but guys I would consider friends... Either I don't trust certain people, or people don't seem to bring alot to the table as far as friendship is concerned. I'm pickier with friends then with women.
I just don't want friends for the sake of saying I have x many friends, I need people who add some type of value to my life.. rather it be encourgement, or a guy that is real good with women and i can relate too, or has a good business mind, not just fat slobs who play PS2 all day long.
But back to my question at hand.. anyone else have problems like this?
I mean, it's a hard balance between trying to stay friends with guys you have known your whole life.. and you honestly, or at least I honestly want to continue being friends, as they for the most part have always been there for me.. but more and more I have noticed they seem to resent me in a way.
They do alot more things without me. 2 years ago, you coudln't go out and see one of us without seeing the other two. Now, people call me asking where was I the other night, they saw my two friends and didn't see me, and I didn't even know they were going out.
They never come by my house anymore, whereas it was a time when both had keys to my house and I couldn't keep them away if I wanted to.
I make time for my friends, or at least try to.. last weekend I swung by their house (they live together now too) to chill for a mintue and both seemed to be "busy" with other things, one was talking on the phone with his GF for like an hour, and the other was trying to get his GF to come over, so I just left, as I didn't necessarly feel like I was wanted
Don't pick up the phone when I call, etc... and it's not like they are overlly busy, one doesn' thave a job and the other talks all day on the telephone at his job.
Anyway, although I am the youngest, I have always been considered to be the more mature out of all of us, but it'sl ike I am on a totally different plato in life then they are. But when I look at them, I don't look at how sucessful they are or anything like that, and i don't want them to look at me like that either.. i want them to look at me like they have their entire lifes
anyway, anyone else seem to have this problem with people in general?
One of the things I need to get out there and improve on in general is, I really don't have alot of friends. As a matter of fact, I would venture to say that these two guys are my only two real friends. I know people, but guys I would consider friends... Either I don't trust certain people, or people don't seem to bring alot to the table as far as friendship is concerned. I'm pickier with friends then with women.
I just don't want friends for the sake of saying I have x many friends, I need people who add some type of value to my life.. rather it be encourgement, or a guy that is real good with women and i can relate too, or has a good business mind, not just fat slobs who play PS2 all day long.
But back to my question at hand.. anyone else have problems like this?