"Friends" who talk sh!t

[oakraiderz2]

I had some friends who i heard talking **** about me. One of the was a pretty good friend who i knew was pretty sketchy and what not. This other kid came back from school and always started asking where my other friend was. Eventually they started doing everything together and always chilled (to me it seemed pretty homosexual the way they talked to each other). Anyways this was kinda weird to watch so whenever they were together i didnt talk much. And because of that im pretty sure friend number 1 started telling people i was gay. I heard them call me a fag when i wasnt around and they did little signs to each other. I talked to another friend who those kids dont like and he thought the way the were acting was borderline faggish. So i stopped talking to those kids who talked **** eventhough they still wanted to hang out. I just dont know what to do. I know they told most of our other friends who told other people that they thought i was gay but its bull****. Even if i chill with girls the thoughts still linger in their mind. I work with one kid and i think he told people there cause the other day this girl said i smell like a girl, eventhough ive got compliments on the coloogne. So basically i dunno what to do...any suggestions?

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

dude honestly, ignore them.

so what if they say your gay? if you truly are an alpha male, you shouldn't give a sh!t what they say about you, especially the way they are acting. if someone ever calls you on it, like a guy, just say something like "ya, some people think i'm gay, but none of its true. by the way, you wanna hook up?"

be comfortable with your sexuality. YOU know your not gay, and the girls will when you start unbuttoning their shirts

though if this isn't your style i guess you could just hit up a big party and shag a girl on the floor of the most crowded room

 

[kiz]

i feel you on this. whenever people try and rag on me i brush it off and its no big deal, my one friend just has some problem with me though and trys to rag on me in public and most people look at him like wtf are you doin. the kid doesn't stop even though everyone ignores him everytime. next time im just gonna drop his ass to teach him to stfu.

 

[wavejams007]

I concur with the alphmale stuff fro the first reply. Wht the hell does it matter what others say about you. These two "friends" are toaking smack behind your back? then get new friends, and forget about the two fags. Of course, you could tell them that they are F*$%ing gay cowards and then walk away, getting a little sense of revenge, but where would that get you? Just leave them, be at peace with yourself, and be a man.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
....actually it would still be gay. You suck @ life.

...lmao

 

[BLUEox117]

u know gay doesnt neccesarily mean you are homosexual ?

like sick doesnt mean you have a disease.
and cool doesnt mean you have a low temperature?

it just means they dun like u,

to post about 2 dudes saying stuff about u is sad.

grow some balls and stop trying to prove urself.

 

[wavejams007]

Gay-adj. 1. fun and lively 2. homosexual3. colorful.
cool- 1.lower than normal temp. 2. social status of being pretty popular.

BLUEox117,thanks for the sarcastic english lesson, not.

Another thing that I have just noticed about a lot of posts at this forum. NOt to diss on this forum, cuz it really is usefull and all, but a lot of posts are repetitive. And replies like BLUEox117s don't help withthe sarcasticness, unless it is humorous.

 

[SOCOM]

Friends who say bad stuff about you are not your friends.
Don't worry about it - stand up for yourself if you need to, but for the most part just ignore it.
You've got plenty of other friends, right?

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by SOCOM
You've got plenty of other friends, right?

Wrong...ive got a FEW people that i talked to when i see them around but we dont really hang out. So basically i have nothing, which is why im home right now. Im not giong to school so i cant meet anyone else really. The past few months ive started to be REALLY quite. Which i think people misunderstand for rudeness or something like that. Ive always been a quite person. Dont know where to turn now. Ive gone back to where i was when i first joined this site, with a little more knowledge.

 

[wavejams007]

Dude, you are pulling away from any social activities where you could make more friends, and that is your fault. But regardless of the fault, you should try and not be nervous to approach peple, and don't worry about what you say, but just dont make rude or mean comments, unless you are joking.

 

[paraguayandj]

If girls think that you are gay their "***** deffense" will be down, and the doors will be open my brotha, so don't be worry about that

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

Originally posted by paraguayandj
If girls think that you are gay their "***** deffense" will be down, and the doors will be open my brotha, so don't be worry about that

until they discover your straight

then back goes the wall, plus the added complaining that you were trying to deceive them

 

[paraguayandj]

I never said you should pretend

 

[white cloud 8]

Y'know, when people start calling other people 'gay' or 'homo' it usually means that they are ones who are more concerned with it (homophobes or question their own sexuality) . My own conclusion, they are just stupid and not worth your time.

 

[aBAzLLnA]

You've got friends that talk **** behind your back...and...you still call them friends...? I maybe stupid, but don't friends watch each other's back?

 

[Reach]

Doesn't anyone else think it's funny that someone called oakraider is complaining people think he's gay?

Anyway, it is pretty tough when people you trusted start acting like you're a **** and you've done nothing wrong. You can't do anything about it, try and find other people to hang with. I met some guys today who I just started playing soccer with, and that was cool.

Being called gay is pretty pointless, but they probably thought it was funny because they're homophobic and think you are too. Probably are, don't know, but you could always react to it differently and play into the gay rumours and show it doesn't affect you. LIke when the girl said "You smell like a girl" you could've said, "Well my boyfreind misses *****. There's a lot of compromise in a relationship"

 

[Bling]

You don't need anyone in the world, but yourself (and your family but that's different). Might sound shallow, but you don't need anyone. That doesn't mean not make friends, but don't lean on anyone.

 

[Bling]

Originally posted by Reach
Doesn't anyone else think it's funny that someone called oakraider is complaining people think he's gay?

They were willing to trade for Ricky


But honestly man, everyone has given good advice. The best thing for you to do is to move on. You don't honestly need any crutches.