pyros
Master Don Juan
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I'm almost 29 and in the last couple of years many of my buddies have gotten into relationships. The thing is that almost all of these guys disappeared after a few months of dating their gfs.
I mean, before this we used to hang out once a week or every two weeks. Now they 'appear' maybe once every two or three or even more months! and when they do they either come just to grab a beer and leave, or have dinner and then leave, no party.
I know other people besides my buddies that do the same thing, once they're in a relationship for a few months they vanish from Earth. They spend all their time with their gfs or bfs. If they had a hobby, they will probably drop it sooner or later.
I dont get it. If you see your girlfriend at least one time during the weekdays, and you see her for sure on Fridays or Saturdays or Sundars or all of these days... why the h-eck do you stop seing your friends?? you see them once every three months? really?
I'm getting to the conclusion that they're not really your friends. It seems it is a team of ppl that get together cause this way they can accomplish their objective: finding a relationship. Once they have it, they no longer keep any interest in hanging out with you.
For me its surprising the number of ppl that act this way, I could say that it is more than 60 %. I've never done this. I've just had a LTR and I keept seing my friends at least once every two weeks, I kept hitting the gym, training martial arts etc, AND I HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GF as well.
What's your opinion? I really hate it. It makes you think that they were not really your buddies, just temporary allies that used you in a way.
I mean, before this we used to hang out once a week or every two weeks. Now they 'appear' maybe once every two or three or even more months! and when they do they either come just to grab a beer and leave, or have dinner and then leave, no party.
I know other people besides my buddies that do the same thing, once they're in a relationship for a few months they vanish from Earth. They spend all their time with their gfs or bfs. If they had a hobby, they will probably drop it sooner or later.
I dont get it. If you see your girlfriend at least one time during the weekdays, and you see her for sure on Fridays or Saturdays or Sundars or all of these days... why the h-eck do you stop seing your friends?? you see them once every three months? really?
I'm getting to the conclusion that they're not really your friends. It seems it is a team of ppl that get together cause this way they can accomplish their objective: finding a relationship. Once they have it, they no longer keep any interest in hanging out with you.
For me its surprising the number of ppl that act this way, I could say that it is more than 60 %. I've never done this. I've just had a LTR and I keept seing my friends at least once every two weeks, I kept hitting the gym, training martial arts etc, AND I HAD A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GF as well.
What's your opinion? I really hate it. It makes you think that they were not really your buddies, just temporary allies that used you in a way.