FallenLeaves
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Hello internet, this is my first post here, and I am ready to tell a story. A story of how I met my girlfriend.
It was the first day of orientations at my university. I met her during a seminar, we talked a bit and on the second day I asked her for her phone number. I guess that is how it began, we texted each other a lot during the first week and on Friday of that week, we hung out ate and had a really good time. That sunday, we pretty much toured downtown while trying to buy her a printer. We had so much fun, shopping and just acting like tourists. The next week was pretty interesting, we would go to the library and study, the 5th floor, where it was just us, quiet and had a great view. Then that friday, less than 2 weeks after I have met her, i asked her out. Her response was that of "i dont know, sure... okay" I know now, i guess it was a bit fast. She was my first girlfriend and I was her first boyfriend, for both of us this was gonna be a brand new experience.
And that is where things began to go downhill, after we started "dating" we hung out less (we were in different faculties so we didn't have any classes together), we talked less and when we did go out ( to go grocery shopping) there would be awkward silences. I know she is very shy and is not very good at expressing her feelings, in fact for her even hugging me is a bit too much. She also doesnt like making this relationship very public, she didnt want to meet my friends and she only a few of her best friends about me. So after I realized her interest level was decreasing, I tried the ignore her method. I didnt text her for a day and on the evening of the second day, she text me first asking how my day was. Though I know I may be over thinking it, I feel as if i am being friendzoned. A few days ago I told her how we should spend more time together, yesterday she texted me asking me to go grocery shopping with her. However the way she talked made it feel as if she is doing me a huge favour by spending time with me, so again after careful review my friends all suggusted that i turn her down so it would not make it feel as if she had me in her hands.
And so this is where I am now, I feel so confused as to my feelings for her. I know at times, I am an attention ***** and I want her to make me feel special. But as of now I do now feel that she is treating me any differently than any of her guy friends. When ever I ask her to get food or hang out with me, she would always be busy. So tell me internet, what should I do? what is she thinking? have the leaves began to fall?
It was the first day of orientations at my university. I met her during a seminar, we talked a bit and on the second day I asked her for her phone number. I guess that is how it began, we texted each other a lot during the first week and on Friday of that week, we hung out ate and had a really good time. That sunday, we pretty much toured downtown while trying to buy her a printer. We had so much fun, shopping and just acting like tourists. The next week was pretty interesting, we would go to the library and study, the 5th floor, where it was just us, quiet and had a great view. Then that friday, less than 2 weeks after I have met her, i asked her out. Her response was that of "i dont know, sure... okay" I know now, i guess it was a bit fast. She was my first girlfriend and I was her first boyfriend, for both of us this was gonna be a brand new experience.
And that is where things began to go downhill, after we started "dating" we hung out less (we were in different faculties so we didn't have any classes together), we talked less and when we did go out ( to go grocery shopping) there would be awkward silences. I know she is very shy and is not very good at expressing her feelings, in fact for her even hugging me is a bit too much. She also doesnt like making this relationship very public, she didnt want to meet my friends and she only a few of her best friends about me. So after I realized her interest level was decreasing, I tried the ignore her method. I didnt text her for a day and on the evening of the second day, she text me first asking how my day was. Though I know I may be over thinking it, I feel as if i am being friendzoned. A few days ago I told her how we should spend more time together, yesterday she texted me asking me to go grocery shopping with her. However the way she talked made it feel as if she is doing me a huge favour by spending time with me, so again after careful review my friends all suggusted that i turn her down so it would not make it feel as if she had me in her hands.
And so this is where I am now, I feel so confused as to my feelings for her. I know at times, I am an attention ***** and I want her to make me feel special. But as of now I do now feel that she is treating me any differently than any of her guy friends. When ever I ask her to get food or hang out with me, she would always be busy. So tell me internet, what should I do? what is she thinking? have the leaves began to fall?
