Friend zone- cut contact but intrest?

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napoleon

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I read if you want to exit the friend zone you cut off all contact. Now my question- won't the girl loose intrest.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't waste your time trying to convert this "friend" into a "lover". It's time consuming, and can lead to a lot of frustration. If you have feelings for this woman, you're best off to cut her from your life.
 
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Dude, he's right. Trying to get a girl with friendzone on her mind to change her mind is like trying to fill one of Shaq's shoes with a toddler's foot.
 
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These guys speak the truth.

But if you're stubborn (like i was), there are ways to do it. limiting your contact/becoming (not cutting it off impolitely) more of a challenge is a start. start dating other girls, build social proof, improve yourself as a man, etc.. it's possible, i can say from experience.

search the forums and stuff, the info's out there.
 
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