Scars
Master Don Juan
How should I deal with this? I have one friend (male) who acts completely different when he's around other people. LIke when it's just me and him, he is like my best bro.. but when other people is around he like tries to show off and make himself look "cool" at my expense. I've gotten into a lot of fights with this kid, not physical but verbally. The kid could easily kick my ass, and I know it. But I've never really made size an issue when I get pissed.. anyway. Like today we're messing around insulting each other, goofing off.. doing what guys do. He calls me a fag (jokingly), and I'm like "we'll see who's gay when my **** is down your throat" we say **** like that all the time. Then he's like "shut up dumbass, i get more ***** than you. and you know it". It's the truth, that's the sad thing. It brought me down a little bit, but I played it off like it didn't bother me. Then after that happened, I was a little pissed off. They were going to the movies (him and another friend of mine) they both had "dates" or "*****es" to go with. I didn't even know or planned on going to the movies, so I was completely unprepared. I was barely even well dressed.. I just through on some shirt after I got off work... anyway. I didn't feel like hanging out with them. Partly because they were disrespecting me and I didnt feel like surrounding myself with that kind of attitude, and part because I didn't have anyone to go with (date-wise) plus no money.. fealt "unclean". Then they're like "one of the chicks friends is coming, go with her. stop being a *****". And I turned them down. The blind date/third wheel type **** never works out. I knew it was gonna be gay and I told them that. And he was like "stop being a *****? what are you gonna do tonight then? we're the only friends you have". The only friends part really ****ing pissed me off.. that was kinda the last straw. I'm pretty pissed at them. I have other male friends.. but I'm hardly as tight with them as these two guys. I thought these guys were my best friends but they keep putting me down and ****. I don't even feel like hanging out with them anymore because of it. Any advice? I know this has nothing to do with pick-up.. or woman. But I thought this would be the best place for a decent response..