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friend got mugged...feel like sh*t

Alright...so I was visiting a few friends at college...and we were at a party having a good time. A few friends and I decided to leave to get ice cream..and one of my girl friends calls me and wants to meet up (she was at the party too...shes a girl that i know i can get with i just need the oppertunity with her alone) ...and she ended up coming to the ice cream shop. I told her that ill come to her dorm after i go to my campus and pick up my roomate. She says alright..and that she would be at a few friends appartment(they were guys)

So i go pick up my roomate...on my way back I call her and tell her to come back to her dorm..i asked her if she wanted me to pick her up twice..said that shes fine both times and that she;ll be at the dorm in 5 minutes. I call her again a few minutes later..she says shes right down the street and she'll be there soon.

A few minutes later she calls me CRYING and tells me that she just got mugged by two black guys...i run over to where she was (about a block away form the dorm) and one of her friends is already there comforting her. I stayed out there with them for about a half hour(campus security and cops were there) Turns out the robbers threw her to the ground..took her wallet and left.

So basicallly right now i feel like crap...i shouldnt have let her walk alone...even tho its not fully my fault..i cant help but feel a bit responsible..any thoughs of how to handle this situtaion? what do i say when i call her tomorrow??
 

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Re: friend got mugged...feel like sh*t

Originally posted by dip
Alright...so I was visiting a few friends at college...and we were at a party having a good time. A few friends and I decided to leave to get ice cream..and one of my girl friends calls me and wants to meet up (she was at the party too...shes a girl that i know i can get with i just need the oppertunity with her alone) ...and she ended up coming to the ice cream shop. I told her that ill come to her dorm after i go to my campus and pick up my roomate. She says alright..and that she would be at a few friends appartment(they were guys)

So i go pick up my roomate...on my way back I call her and tell her to come back to her dorm..i asked her if she wanted me to pick her up twice..said that shes fine both times and that she;ll be at the dorm in 5 minutes. I call her again a few minutes later..she says shes right down the street and she'll be there soon.

A few minutes later she calls me CRYING and tells me that she just got mugged by two black guys...i run over to where she was (about a block away form the dorm) and one of her friends is already there comforting her. I stayed out there with them for about a half hour(campus security and cops were there) Turns out the robbers threw her to the ground..took her wallet and left.

So basicallly right now i feel like crap...i shouldnt have let her walk alone...even tho its not fully my fault..i cant help but feel a bit responsible..any thoughs of how to handle this situtaion? what do i say when i call her tomorrow??
It isnt your fault, so stop freakin, you say whatever you usually say to stupid people, you tell them it happens.
 

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We get muggings on campus all the time, so our uni installed a security bus. You should petition your school to do the same. Basically a small bus that drives around the uni at specific times (ie. every 30mins after 8PM). Unless the muggers have machineguns or something...
 

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f*ck u racist BlTCHES! :cuss:

why couldn't you just say 2 guys mugged her. WTF does it matter what race it was, does it make it any worse?
 

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why should i hide the truth? thats not called being racist you ignorant bastard
 

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Originally posted by dip
why should i hide the truth? thats not called being racist you ignorant bastard
stfu! they would'a probably kicked your ass too if it makes you feel any better.:)
 

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dont blame yourself, **** happens.

Well would it make you feel better if you were there and got shot while defending her?

no point wimpering over the past and regretting it. move on
 

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i think you should talk her into taking one of those classes for ladies to learn self defense in case of something like that
 

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you wouldn't have been able to help her had you been there anyway.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
i think you should talk her into taking one of those classes for ladies to learn self defense in case of something like that
Self-defense please no matter how good she gets there is no way a woman is going to take on two men at the same time.
 

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Actually, dont girls nowadays carry pepper spray?
 

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Originally posted by Emperiorjack
Self-defense please no matter how good she gets there is no way a woman is going to take on two men at the same time.
you never know
 

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Meeeh she probably made it up anyway, b!tch is probably well aware crying rape is played out nowadays, so shes settling for the next best thing.

Bingo!
 

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