Originally posted by Cheat_LBJ
I hate to be Danny Downer, but I'll do it anyway:
I've seen WAAYYYY too many good men brought to the point of near nervous breakdowns and many good reputations ruined because "she was drunk and horny, and wanted me bad....LAST night."
If you even have a question in your mind whether or not she's being true when she says she wants to have sex with you, while drunk, then leave it be.
Yeah, she's making a decision and should be mature and take responsibility for it, but (at least in the US) the law gives her a way out the next morning if she claims she doesn't remember what happened and claims she was too drunk to consent.
Even if the charges never hold up, do you want to be the guy people remember as being investigated for date rape? Or do you want to be the guy that has to spend hours answering questions at a police station, jerking off into a cup to do a semen analysis, and having your life put on hold for an investigation?
You might regret missing an F-Close, but there will be more in the future if you're a true DJ.
You only live once.. if I was worried about every girl I ****ed crying date rape, I might as well walk around with gloves and a mask on for fear of dying of ebola
Plus, girls that cry "date rape" you can pretty much spot out.. there is a difference between a girl letting herself get drunk so she can be "taken advantage of" and a difference with a girl having emotional baggage.. I have seen both, I can honeslty say I only regret one girl I have ever ****ed.. she was a freakin headcase.
Also, you have to be able to prove Date Rape... one thing I always do, ALWAYS, is when a girl comes back to my place, which honestly isnt' all that often, I usualy don't **** when I first meet someone, but it happens from time to time, is I make them drive their own car by themselves with me not in it
how the **** you are going to say I date raped you when you DROVE OVER MY HOUSE AT 3 IN THE MORNING, SUCKED ME UP AND LEFT ON YOUR OWN WILL, WITH NO DRUGS IN YOUR BODY, BECAUSE THEY WILL RUN A TEST
If you can get them to call for directions, that's even better
anyway, I think the first poster realizes the error in his ways, so I will let that be, just learn from our old mistakes and pains, and whatever you do, my gosh don't ask her out.. you own it to yourself to **** this girl.. YOU OWE IT TO SOSUAVE TO **** HER
IF YOU CAN'T DO IT FOR YOU, DO IT FOR THE TEAM!!:cheer:
Speaking of teams...
Yeah, pretty much, i look at all women as freaks, because they are... now, some are freakier than others, but all are freaks.. all are women I can relate to on a sexual level .. why would I want to relate to them differently?
I mean, I'm a nice guy in the sense that I give a damn about people, but I don't give a **** in reality how "great of a person you are" or how "super cool you are" or how "great of a friend" she is... does she look good? Does she have too mcuh baggage to the point to were she isn't ****able? Can she give a good hummer? if I can get a Yes no yes, than we can talk.
I used to give a damn.. my old oneitis, used to literarly call me, like clock work, at 11:05pm every night, right after law and order when off (she got me hooked on that show), and time for her to brush her teeth and change into her bedtime clothes, would get in bed, call me, talk for 45mins-1 hour, and fall to sleep on the phone, Mon-Sunday night with the exclusion of maybe a friday or a saturday, where she would call me after she got done ****ing her BF
and i was stupid enough to let her, that's why I don't even blame her.. a woman is going to do whatever she can get away with, she isn't going to make you be a man, you have to do that on your own.
Now? As many women phone numbers as I have.. I might talk on the phone 30 mins-45 mins a week.. I have the cheapest phone plan ever and I don't come close to using all my mintues.. I don't like talking on the phone, I would rather be making money or if I want some company, talking to women in person.
The point isn't that women don't make good friends.. they don't, but that's not the subject.. the point is, you should be busy to the point in your life, that if you actually have time to have your regular male friends, and the time to entertain your female friends, which wil always take mre time because females are high matinance, than you aren't living life the way it should be lived
When I had a GF, I barely had enough time for her and my friends.. hell now, I barely have enough time to do the things I have and want to do now.. I catch myself having to make myself eat before I forget, and you want me to spend hours a week talking to a woman I supposely have no sexual interest in?
Even if I was single and had no women, that's time I could be reading, spending in the gym, learnign how to make money, etc
I have a saying.. you can't offend a freak by anything you possibly do.. all it will do is turn her own more... you have freaks, than you have, FREAKS.. the married woman that i used to mess around with and pulled me into a bathroom stall and grineded on me while we made out, out of the blue, was a FREAK..
The more I pushed the evenlope, the more she loved it, the more she couldn't stop seeing me.. I was like a drug to her. for a month straight, she was at my house every night until i had a talk with her and was like "look babe, I mean, I like kicking it with you too, but I mean.. you are married and I have other this going on in my life, this has to slow down, I can't be ****ing you every night... don't get me wrong, I have had worse problems, but this is a problem nevertheless"
One day she got soo bold as she had me invite a girl I was talking to besides her on a double date with her husband, and she sat next to me, hand on my **** the entire time with her husband sitting 2 feet away.
My EX liked to do things, but I knew there were certain things I couldn't do with her or she would get offended, even though she was my GF
My old oneitis talks a good game, but can't back it up to save her life.
See, alot of guys want to be able to **** all the women in the world.. that's not possible, and even if it was, you would die from every diesease known to man kind, plus some women you don't want to ****... when you are on top of your game you have options..
but you can **** WITH all the women and that's always my goal..
In other words, I can get you do **** I want you to do, rather it be talk to me, talk to my best friend, hook me up wtih your fine ass friend, whatever the case may be. And that's not hard, no gaming involoved, jsut be a freakin man.. women love men, they really do
If i'm just as plastered as her then game on.
