Free Drinks or Possible Plate

[jaymbrs]

I have a good problem here. Recently a female bartender has been hooking me up with some of my drinks at this local sports bar. Her and I have made a lot of small talk and one day out of the blue she just started leaving a lot of drinks off my tab, making me shots, etc. I haven't overtipped much either. I mean I've thrown an extra couple of bucks but nothing crazy. She is cute but I don't want to ruin this hookup. I haven't asked her for her number or anything. Just keeping that bartender/patron relationship going. I'm just thinking football season is here and I'd like to continue this. However, what do you guys think? Continue getting the mug or get a plate?

 

[Spaz]

If she's "investing" that means sooner rather then later she'll want "returns" on that investment.

Ask her number or she'll start noticing less then profitable "returns" and then she'll stop "investing".

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I have a good problem here. Recently a female bartender has been hooking me up with some of my drinks at this local sports bar. Her and I have made a lot of small talk and one day out of the blue she just started leaving a lot of drinks off my tab, making me shots, etc. I haven't overtipped much either. I mean I've thrown an extra couple of bucks but nothing crazy. She is cute but I don't want to ruin this hookup. I haven't asked her for her number or anything. Just keeping that bartender/patron relationship going. I'm just thinking football season is here and I'd like to continue this. However, what do you guys think? Continue getting the mug or get a plate?

You don't even know that you could "get a plate" out of this. You're just assuming that.

 

[jaymbrs]

You don't even know that you could "get a plate" out of this. You're just assuming that.

We all have to assume we can get the girl. Thinking negatively will prevent you from getting any girl. Besides, I have a decent track record of getting female bartenders/servers since I used to be in the service industry. I'm able to relate and that's my ice breaker. It works wonders.