I wasnt gonna update this till tomorrow (sunday) but i woke up an hour ago and cant fall back asleep - happens when i drink. This is super super long cause i like to write a lot (good practice for work and school) so i apologize ahead of time. Feel free to skim. Also im gonna update this tomorrow so check in then. digging all the support btw (@EvilAgenda i was studying at ISU when i made this account but am in philly now)
Ok overall i failed to meet my goals but had a really fun night which is the important thing in the big picture and i did meet some women folk.
K so night kinda got off to a bad start since i didn't to go to the gym like i almost always do on friday before going out. Im tired and want to nap but im wired from the green tea i had with dinner which ironically i drank so id have energy to workout :cuss:
I get some work done, buy cheap beer, make myself sexy, text a HB8 from a night class i take at a cc to tell her im prob goin to this bar later, and then eat some celery cause im awesome like that. I pregame with my friends place while watching Jeremy Lin go off against the lakers (dude is a true underdog).
We head to a disappointingly small and super jewish party (literally). Im jewish ethnically so i fit in, but i cant say the same for my irish catholic and black friends haha. I see one cute girl but a sec later some chaud puts his arm around her. Ugh
I talk with this guy and girl from penn state. the girl is cool but shes a high 6 at best and an unathletic jewish girl, which is the my least favorite kind. Ugh again. I enjoyed talking to her though and learned a lot about the place im goin for spring break and penn state which im planning on visiting at some point.
I leave and meet up with my friend and we head to my favorite bar. My friend is loyal, trustworthy and a solid workout/bball buddy but he sucks with women - cares way too much about what people think of him. Hes good about not getting in my way and encouraging me though so i dont mind when we its just us hitting up the bars. He legit wants me to get laid cause he see's me approaching spitting decent game all the time but still failing to translate it into getting some action. I feel bad cause its hard to help him get girls when im so focused on getting some action for myself
We get to the bar and wander around as usual looking for sexy ladies. At this point in the span of 2 hours, with few carbs in me, i've had 6 beers and am feelin good. I run into this group of 4 girls i know sitting at a table and make small talk about the status of the bars tonight. Quickly run out of things to say and bail. In retrospect i should have chilled with them to build social proof especially since they were sitting in an area that gets a lot of foot traffic. Idk if there was room at their table though.
I then think i see HB8 from class but i just got to the bar and want to play it cool so i pretend not to see her haha. This is a childish move that bites me in the a$$ later when I go to the bathroom to make sure im sexy and get focused. I come out look around but cant find her. It may not have even been her but im still mad i didn't just go say hi.
My friend and i realize its already 1am - damn where did the time go - and the girl to guy ratio is terrible plus most girls are already with guys. On my way out i run into a HB7 who i've known for a while and am always impressed with friendly she is especially since we dont know each other well. She shows me her drunken injuries from the evening and we laugh and i give her a big hug
I want to talk a little more and get her # but her friend is calling her over plus she is super drunk and prob wont remember.
Out on the street a HB7 gives me shiit for wearing a dallas cowboys shirt. I yell back saying its not a cowboys shirt and to read the back of it. We keep going and walk by two hot girls dressed super patriotically for some stupid frat party or something. I get all excited and tell them that im wearing a cowboys shirt and also love america
My friend starts laughing and saying im ridiculous.
We go to this shallow frat guy infested bar he thinks is the best place to meet women for some reason. I see a girl wearing the shirts they give out for when its your b-day and congratulate her. She's super cute and we hit it off but then she wanders off randomly with some dude i thought was there with her friend.
I find my friend who has a beer for me even though i didn't ask for or want one, but he insists cause he says its awkward to be at a bar without a drink, which is true - see what i mean about being a good dude.
I see another girl with the bday shirt and start all over again haha, but switch to her friend cause shes hotter. This works perfectly cause the bday girl is with some dude and my girl is sober. She seems into me and is atleast a do-able 6 (bad lighting is your best and worst friend). I decide to go for it and will determine if shes hot later. The conversation is much worse than with the cute bday girl from earlier so i turn back to my friend. She keeps looking back at me so i suck it up and try to force a conversation about her coat. I think she seems disapointed im not being sexual or that we're having a conversation about her coat, but shes not giving much to work with so i bail and get her #.
i see the cute b-day girl again and we start talking again. Yay. I get her name and when she asks for mine give her a hard time cause i took the time to learn hers but she doesn't know mine
she thinks this is funny and her mine and things are going well when some drunk idiot standing next to us starts chanting "get her #" i just ignore this and all she does is smile a little but it kinda throws me off a little. Im just recovering when some guido frat douche with earings, gelled hair and a necklace comes up who knows her well, shes in a sorrority so this makes sense. He even picks her up in a hug and spins her, which is something i've always wanted to do but usually f-it up by squeezing to hard and hurting the girl haha.
I wait till he leaves then talk to her for a little and ask for her # but she says she has a bf! Im so taken aback i can't even respond with one of the witty lines i got from this site: "well here's my #, call me if you want to upgrade" or "great, he can make us breakfast in the morning". I just say well let me know when you guys break up and walk away.
Its 2am and the bar is closing so my friend and I leave. I feel sad as usual that another weekend night is ending. We walk by a bus stop and i see a bunch of HBs. I tell my friend im gonna pretend to be taking the bus and start talking to 2 HB8s about when the bus is coming and where they're going. Its not going well but i find out they're freshmen so i lie and so im a junior at their school (its late and im drunk so dont judge) and give them a hard time.
I learn the hotter one is there on scholarship to play volleyball. She's like 6 ft tall so this makes sense, but is from cali and says she doesnt like it here. Also she cant smoke bud cause they test her (i giver her a hug at this point
I've now fully turned my attention to her cause shes hotter and i've always wanted fvck a taller girl - like them long legs. though she was ignoring me a little at the beginning has responded to my messing with her. I give her a hard time about not liking it here and tell her all the fun things to do. I can tell shes challenging me cause im shorter 5'10'' on a good day and she prob gets with giant volleyball dudes. I stand my ground and maintain my confidence. I say they lied and the bus hasn't come yet so im gonna go get food. I get her # and she puts her full name in and says she'll let me know when she can smoke.
I text her 30 min later
Me:Hey HB8 its Kenny Powers, even though you can't smoke weed im gonna help you have a good year.
Her: haha much appreciated
Me: no prob, have you really not been to ___ bar?
Her: I really havent!
Me: Damn girl you live under a rock? ___ bar is where its at
Im tempted to text her tonight while the iron is hot but think im gonna wait and ask her a volleyball question in a few days to settle a "debate". Then next weekend get her to meet me at a club. I've heard the volleyball team at this school are sluts so i think i could get a solid lay from her and make her an fbuddy at best. I regret not working her friend though and then getting the vball girl's # so we can all meet up at that bar one day. this would idelaly make her wonder which one i was into and throw her off a little i think.
Final notes:
Sorry for the essay, i shouldn't even be writing this right now as i have work to do but whatever. My next one wont be so long. I really never had the chance to escalate to making out but wish i used kino more. Its kinda tough when the girl is by her friends and they are judging. I actually was touching the cute bday girl on the arm a lot though.
I had a fun night though and enjoyed the conversations i had and chillin with my friend. Im trying to meet up with one of these plates ive been workin on tonight and hopefully get some much needed vag. But that prob wont be till later so my goal is to get to the bars around 10:30 and talk to as many girls as possible and escalate super fast.
Love to hear your guys thoughts on my night and stuff, especially with the volleyball girl.
