FR-- "vocal" orgasms? Proof that "teasing" works!

[mattathensga]

hey, I was just wondering, how many people out there have been able to get a girl to climax through talking to her? I was actually thinking about this due to a recent experience, and that it came up on another post I just replied to....

I think that this is the BEST romance/sexuallity treatment I've ever found for a lady that I'm already sexually active with, or one that seems eager, yet restrictive or hesitant about actually having sex. It does require that an attraction already be present, but thats an easy thing to be aware of...

I've had this happen in my experiences a bunch of times, but the most recent one simply amazed me... I dunno if I'm just talented (thats why I'm asking how many others out there have been able to do this!!) , or if she's just that much into me, or what... but I had to post about it.... to get others ideas, and see if anyone else is using this method...

First, let me say, that this lady and I are attracted to each other, and comfortable with each other, if this is something you're trying with a girl for the first time, proceed slowly... timing, and PATIENCE are the key!!
I didn't even have to kiss her, I just talked softly into her ear while holding her, and after a few moments she had multiple orgasms... she and I have discussed that she isn't the type to have multiple orgasms.. before she was with me she never had any M.O's maybe one or two single O's in the act of sex. We have had a sexual relationship now for a few months, and are really a well matched pair sexually, although I have been able to do this at clubs with ladies that were complete strangers, and have also been using this technique for over 8 years now....


We were just sitting out on my patio, talking. when she stood up to go inside, I stood behind her, held her close to me ...eventually, after the first O I turned her around to face me since it was getting harder to hold her up.... all I talked about was what I wanted to do (sexually) with her, like kissing her gently all over her stomach, and her lower back, told her in many different ways how and what about her I thought was beautiful, what I liked about her, described what I found sexy about her ( verbal/ mental KINO), used some slight KINO, caressing her neck and lower back brushing her ear lobe with my lower lip while I spoke ... I never once kissed her, or even had my hands below her waist. within maybe a minute she climaxed....really hard!! a few moments later, I was having to hold her up becuase her legs gave out from a multiple O. It left her entire body shaking, and sweating....and of course desiring more.. what really set her off, and I mean, turned her on to the point she couldn't hold back anymore, was talking about giving her oral pleasure ( no I wasn't "dirty", the key words I used were, "gently, passionately, etc" I.E> "wanting her hands on my head while I gently kissed her thighs" how I was " craving her legs tight around my neck"... that sort of thing.. use your imagination! and telling her I wanted her to be in control,)... and the fact that when she FINALLY calmed back down, I led her inside, laid her down, and just held her in my arms... made her loose contol.... within a few minutes she was taking action over everything I had described, and literally begging me for more... we ended up going at it all night.... LOL we paused only so she and I could call in sick to work, since we were both worn out from an all night session....(maybe 9-10 hours non stop!), and ended up collapsing a little later in each others arms....

This is a very Erotic, and sensual method of "inspiring", is the best word I can think of, a women to tap into her sexuallity... this works really well to get a shy girl to open up... its a borderland between submission and dominance.... Using this method properly, I've been able to make myself through the use of colourful language, the "submissive", while being completely dominant of the lady... tell her how much you want her to control you... women get OFF on that!

ok. enough ranting from me... I'm really interested to see what feedback this gets!!

 

[DjDreamer]

Yep... orgasm via vocalisation is a very real phenomenon... and it's so true... patience is the key... it's using vocals to slowly massage a lady's mind into releasing endorphin hormones... it's as if the lady is being placed in a trance like state...

 

[Jack McCrack]

I'm gonna have to try this very soon.

 

[BLUEox117]

Originally posted by mattathensga
hey, I was just wondering, how many people out there have been able to get a girl to climax through talking to her? I was actually thinking about this due to a recent experience, and that it came up on another post I just replied to....

I think that this is the BEST romance/sexuallity treatment I've ever found for a lady that I'm already sexually active with, or one that seems eager, yet restrictive or hesitant about actually having sex. It does require that an attraction already be present, but thats an easy thing to be aware of...

I've had this happen in my experiences a bunch of times, but the most recent one simply amazed me... I dunno if I'm just talented (thats why I'm asking how many others out there have been able to do this!!) , or if she's just that much into me, or what... but I had to post about it.... to get others ideas, and see if anyone else is using this method...

First, let me say, that this lady and I are attracted to each other, and comfortable with each other, if this is something you're trying with a girl for the first time, proceed slowly... timing, and PATIENCE are the key!!
I didn't even have to kiss her, I just talked softly into her ear while holding her, and after a few moments she had multiple orgasms... she and I have discussed that she isn't the type to have multiple orgasms.. before she was with me she never had any M.O's maybe one or two single O's in the act of sex. We have had a sexual relationship now for a few months, and are really a well matched pair sexually, although I have been able to do this at clubs with ladies that were complete strangers, and have also been using this technique for over 8 years now....


We were just sitting out on my patio, talking. when she stood up to go inside, I stood behind her, held her close to me ...eventually, after the first O I turned her around to face me since it was getting harder to hold her up.... all I talked about was what I wanted to do (sexually) with her, like kissing her gently all over her stomach, and her lower back, told her in many different ways how and what about her I thought was beautiful, what I liked about her, described what I found sexy about her ( verbal/ mental KINO), used some slight KINO, caressing her neck and lower back brushing her ear lobe with my lower lip while I spoke ... I never once kissed her, or even had my hands below her waist. within maybe a minute she climaxed....really hard!! a few moments later, I was having to hold her up becuase her legs gave out from a multiple O. It left her entire body shaking, and sweating....and of course desiring more.. what really set her off, and I mean, turned her on to the point she couldn't hold back anymore, was talking about giving her oral pleasure ( no I wasn't "dirty", the key words I used were, "gently, passionately, etc" I.E> "wanting her hands on my head while I gently kissed her thighs" how I was " craving her legs tight around my neck"... that sort of thing.. use your imagination! and telling her I wanted her to be in control,)... and the fact that when she FINALLY calmed back down, I led her inside, laid her down, and just held her in my arms... made her loose contol.... within a few minutes she was taking action over everything I had described, and literally begging me for more... we ended up going at it all night.... LOL we paused only so she and I could call in sick to work, since we were both worn out from an all night session....(maybe 9-10 hours non stop!), and ended up collapsing a little later in each others arms....

This is a very Erotic, and sensual method of "inspiring", is the best word I can think of, a women to tap into her sexuallity... this works really well to get a shy girl to open up... its a borderland between submission and dominance.... Using this method properly, I've been able to make myself through the use of colourful language, the "submissive", while being completely dominant of the lady... tell her how much you want her to control you... women get OFF on that!

ok. enough ranting from me... I'm really interested to see what feedback this gets!!

you need to teach this site not learn from it

 

[spider_007]

this is the first time i've ever heard about this. i'v heard of chicks having orgasam just from licking her niple (assosiation).... but NEVER by talking to her.

Don't get me wrong i'm not putting you down. Hopefully some of our more experienced (smooth talking ) dj's can try this out and give some feedback on the tricks of doing this.......if it turns out to be a valid/effective way of getting a woman off, or at least getting her hot.....it would be a nice addition to the game on this site.....

 

[DjDreamer]

If a trance like state via voice didn't exist... there would be no hypnotists and an industry of phone sex... therefore... what is good for the gander is...

 

[mattathensga]

yeah, I'm GLAD someone else has heard of this... like I've said this has worked for me for over 8 years, it NEVER failed me... spider007, it takes patience, knowing the girl, and especially, knowing what turns them on... It came to my mind to post it here, cuase the other night was the first time it worked for me without much KINO, and with fantastic results... LOL bluefox, I WISH... I'm still learning, as we all are, but thats why I wanted to post this.. try it out... it we get a girl simply ADDICTED to you... just remember, it requires the use of very colourful laguage, not simple sentnences.... IE,,, while holding her, one hand gently at the nape of the neck, the other resting on her lower back, speak slowly, firmly, and softly, " I'd like to take you, ...... lay you on the bed, .... face down,.... and start kissing you on your shoulders.... work my way down your spine.... until I reach right about here.... ( and touch her right above her ass crack), then turn you over, ... have you grab me by the hair, .... and push my face to your Cl*t, ..... " you should get the idea. The ideal way is to DRAW it out as LONNNG as possible... This is a great idea for a guy who has issues with longetivity in bed, as it gets her all worked up before intercourse... Like Jeff Foxworthy said in that one joke... Women are like diesel engines... it takes um a while to get warmed up, but once they are... they can go all night long... Men are like firecrackers..." I'm just glad THat I have one other person thats heard of this, AND that I could give some info to ohters that haven't!
Happy hunting!!

 

[DJ_in_making]

I had a similar experience. I was touching this girl's legs and the small of her back very tenderly while tracing her spine and she just made a sudden jerk movement. I didn't know what the hell that was....

 

[mattathensga]

that sudden jerk was the first signs to keep doing what youre doing... I'd say it might have been a small climax, but more than likely the signs that she's getting close....

 

[pimpfromdayone]

Hel-l yeah dude, vocal orgasms are awesome. I would be willing to bet however that only a small percentage of the female population is capable of such a thing, and by vocal, I mean NO kino. An orgasm involves just as much mental arousal (probably much more) as it does physical stimulation, so that is basically why this is possible. Is the girl a squirter too? Haha, that would be hilarious.

While we're on the topic, did you know that there is a way to get a woman to orgasm on command? It involves some type of classical conditioning in which you associate a certain word or thing with her orgasming and she will orgasm when you command it. This is possible, but there can't be more than a handful of people in the entire world who have ever pulled it off, and of those, the women were probably really receptive to the methods.

 

[mattathensga]

ROFL Like Pavlov's dog? ring a bell it starts salivating??

Nah, shes not a squiter... almost though, like a river
I knew a chick once, on this topic, that could shot across a room... with deadly aim too!

yeah, I've read, heard, and experienced that sexual stimulation is somethin like 90% mental 10% physical... (heheh.. anyone that doubts this, next time in the act start thinking of your gramma! LOL) this situation definitely shows that mental kino is as important as knowing where to find the G spot ... and NO you cant use Mapquest to find it....

 

[Billasec]

wow, amazing topic

Somone please elaborate on this method from what i have read it seems legitimate

 

[Docs]

I'll just stare at this with big beady confused eyes..

ACROSS THE ROOM?

ooook.......*leaves topic before girl explodes*

 

[ScrewIt]

heh sounds like a passionate version of phone sex. Hell if this really works then im willing to give this a try.

But how often do you believe you could pull this off several times with the same girl...it should probably work unless someone else does a better job than you at it.

 

[Eternal]

Yes, it IS possible and does work. It just takes lots of patience like matta said. I think Sir_Chancealot explained a bit about how to do this in his "Sexual Techniques" post.

 

[mattathensga]

I've had a few requests to elaborate, from friends and on this post, and thru PM, so, I'll try to be as elaborative as possible....

it takes patience, and knowing what a girl wants to hear, and what she wants to do...and some practice. Girls are just like guys, they love sex, they like to know they are desired, and they like to hear how much their partner craves them, whether it be sexually or romantically. the big difference between men and women is that women have more imagination than men... Men like to watch porn, women like romance novels... which can be just as raunchy as porn, but gives the reader (women) more of an open pallet to paint the picture, so to speak. SO, in that sense, Men are turned on by what we see. women are turned on by what they hear...

take it slow, I cannot stress this enough... patience! give her mind time to develop the mental imagery of what you've said, too much too fast will overload her thoughts, and get her images blurred. try out some simple stuff, and if she responds, go deeper, its JUST LIKE physical sex, just use your voice, and language to develop the scene and the acts. to be specific, A great starter sentence would be, " I've been checking you out all night, and I must say, you really are very sexy." another thing I might say, "I'd like to kiss you all along your spine, up and down your back" while drawing a line on her back with one finger gently... if that is taken well, I'll go a bit further, if not, I'll try something else. a well phrased indepth sentence, could be something like, " I'd really like it if you'd let me lay you down on a satin sheet in the middle of a field of ( insert her favorite flower, if you don't know, daisies are a good choice...) daisies, caress you from the nape of your neck, all the way down your sides to your toes... then I'd love to kiss you, from your (CA) calves, up your (CA) thighs, along your (CA) stomach, til I reach your neck, then I'll take my time kissing you long, slow and passionately." (CA)= Complementive Adjective...
A TRUELY Great sentence takes time to build up to, remember Jeff Foxworthy's Joke, " A women is like a diesel engine, it takes a while to get em warmed up, but once you do, they can go all night long.." its funny because we all know its true. the longer you draw this process out, the more potent your rewards and payoff will be. i.e. " I'd like you to just wrap those sexy legs around my neck, and run your fingers through my hair, while I caress and kiss you all around your belly button, until you slowly ease my face down to your (word removed by me!), where I'd gently lick your cl*t ... until you cant take it anymore, and just grab me by the ears and force my face deep inside you." I can guarantee that if you can get to this, and do it with the right tones, and emphasis, you will either get one of two responses... either she will climax, or she'll throw you down and ravage you... it should take a few minutes, maybe three to five to work your way up to something like that. be creative, especially with complements!

On that note, I'd like to add that I've read a bunch of BS about complements being bad, that if you use them too much they wear thin.... I agree, but then again I don't ... BE CREATIVE!! if you say "You're Pretty" every day, YES that is going to get dull. but if you say, "Wow, your hair looks beautiful today". or "I love the way the sun lights up your eyes" or, " I really love the curve of your hips", or just out of the blue, say something like " I think you have a very sexy ass" or something like " Has anyone told you you're beautiful today? (her response yes/no , your response well, they were right!/ stop lying, I don't believe that! ) or simply let her catch you staring/glancing at her ass, ( hell I got laid once b/c I was staring at a girls ass so indepth I walked into a wall, which she laughed about, and we talked, and ended up back at her place) you have to change it up... it doesn;t get dull with variety, and it shows that you have an interest in something a bit more personal than just an overall objective of getting her into bed.
this technique can, has and will work... think of it like mental role playing, someone also mentioned phone sex... this is very similar, but you're right there, able to put her body right next to yours, and we ( that have had sex ) know that most women enjoy cuddling, so this is a way of Pre-cuddling and getting her all worked up too!
I hope that this helps a bit more, its not an easy technique, like I've said, I've been using it (practising!!) for something like, over 8 years now, and it does take time to develop this as a talent, although most things in sex are an acquired talent!!

 

[syncmaster]

I"ve done it w/ an ex and it works pretty well...

 

[pimpfromdayone]

I haven't done this before, but dam-n, it has to make you feel kinda like a god doesn't it?! haha.
Hey, whoever mentioned that women can have orgasms from nipple stimulation, a select few can orgasm supposedly from URETHRAL stimulation.... now that is weird. Women are such incredible creatures are they not? I mean what is it like to be able to experience like 3-4 different kinds of orgasm, some of them lasting nearly a minute in length, for hours and hours on end?? The thought of it just blows my mind...

 

[Docs]

I alwasys wondered what it'd feel like to be a woman for a day.

 

[mattathensga]

LOL... the operation is pretty expensive, just for one day...