FR: Unintentional cold approach

[smooth guy]

At school today one of my buddies was gonna try scoring with a chick. It was at lunch break and he was just about to ask her the girl he was talking to for a while for a relationship. We were walking around the school while he was trying to think of a way to ask her for a commitment, and until he got the balls to finally ask her. I never took him seriously as I already knew he was gonna fail miserably, so I was just making fun of him.

I said let's ask a girl's opinion. I approach a girl who was in front of us (who happens to be in one of my classes). Note the only thing I knew about this girl was her name and I've never spoken to her before. Here's how it went (note this conv was in Greek so I'm just translating it - don't take it word by word)

smooth: [her name] we need a female's opinion on something here

HB8: (freezes for a sec with a surprised look since we don't really "know" each other.) hey.. what's up?

smooth: someone is just about to ask a girl for a commitment and he's not sure how to go about the whole thing... now if I just asked you straight up "hey do you wanna be girl" like a d1ckhead I'd probably get a rejection straight away.. so what's a more stylish way to do that? (at this point my friend walks away since I was just making fun of the whole thing)

HB8: (starts giggling) 'Well.. you should be nice.. show her that you care about her.. blah blah blah..' keeps giving me the typical bad advice most girls give.. then I interrupt her..

smooth: While your suggestions sound great and original how about this: you take her to a nice spot at the beach at around midnight.. you take a walk and tease each other.. then you lay on the sand.. he starts playing with your hair and rubbing your back neck.. (as I say this I touch her hair and her neck) then without even realizing you two are already feeling each other's lips and feeling some sort of electricity through your body warming you inside..

HB8: (smiles) You really do know your stuff don't you??..

smooth: I guess so.. wanna take a walk on the beach this Saturday?

HB8: are you asking me on a date?

smooth: Just to pay you back for the great advice you've given

HB8: (smiles and gives me her phone number)

smooth: Anyway thanks for your help but we gotta get on with our mission. I'll see you later in class

I don't usually post my interactions with girls but I felt I needed to post this since I NEVER cold approach.. I always met the girls through friends. Plus when approaching her I had no intentions scoring with the chick, I was just getting some laughs while being a prick to my friend. But somehow this came natural.

I wasn't nervous, I was confident, way too confident I'll say, acted like I knew the chick my whole life

what worked:

confidence - confidence had me talk with no worries of what was about to come out of my mouth and my body language was flawless as well as my face expressions. (I always had an expressive face and being comfortable in my own skin made everything look natural) Oh it was also a good hair day

emotions: - notice the DETAILS I gave about that whole "walk on the beach" speech.. while I was guiding her through the details at the same time she imagined the whole damn scenario happening in her mind.. and that made her FEEL those emotions..

kino - notice how I touched the back of her neck and her hair while going through the scenario.. it was a perfect timing for creating emotions AND kino her at the same time

We hardly talked about anything "logical", and the conversation topic was a topic women love to discuss. So I guess the opener 'asking a female's perspective' is in fact a good opener. And yes I masturbated first thing in the morning

I think I pretty much covered the important stuff.. this is for you ElStud

It's too bad I already have a gf, but it was good practice. I might start cold approaching more girls, this was kinda fun.

Feel free to comment.. critique the 'unintentional approach'.. or anything that's on your mind.

 

[Red07]

I'm not sure how it would work on someone you weren't familiar with just because it's pretty heavy.
But if you are in a mutual relationship where you recognise the person and know their name.. this is a great approach
=] Good Job

 

[smooth guy]

I'm not sure how it would work on someone you weren't familiar with just because it's pretty heavy.
But if you are in a mutual relationship where you recognise the person and know their name.. this is a great approach
=] Good Job

You're probably right on this one - it IS a bit too much on a girl you haven't spoken to before.

Might I add although I never spoke to the girl personally, the girl WAS familiar with me as I AM in one of her classes and do have social proof. Thus it did play a role I guess.

Also it might sound heavy when reading it on a message board, but the whole conversation was done and said very playfully, and all that happened in less than a minute. Funny how you can get a phone number so quickly.

Point of the post is to have inner confidence. If you're comfortable with your own skin and you're just approaching to have fun (because like I said, I only approached the girl for some laughs and had no intentions or expectations).

But as far as the approach on its own and the kino used while getting into too much detail I'm not the one to tell you if it's a good approach for a girl you just met, as like I said I never cold approach. Maybe some guys would like to give their thoughts if this is a good approach or not.