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FR: The Virgin from College

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I had a girlfriend in college who was a virgin, I treated her badly, took her virginity and discarded her, she was very hurt and I just didn't care.

I've always been an a$$hole with women, so after I ended my last relationship, I started to reflect about my previous relationships and how they failed. I sent her a message apologizing for my behavior in the past, and that I hoped she was happy. I wanted to clear my conscious and throw some positive energy to the universe.

She told me a bunch of things she kept inside for 10+ years and how she suffered, it was granted and I just read them. I understood I hurt her badly but there was nothing to be done and just to move on. She kept messaging me and I said to myself, "Well baby girl, if you want another round, lets fvcking go"

She $hit tested me non-stop during the whole interaction throughout weeks. I knew what was happening, so I took her for a rollercoaster of emotions by doing the same. One of those days I posted this beautiful woman on my Instagram and told her "well since you're not here I'm gonna fvck her tonight" (I didn't, it was just to fvck with her), she replied with "its not about quantity, its about quality". It was an atmosphere of bantering, fun and games through text.

I ran game on her for about 8 weeks, long story short, I'm about to leave to pick her up at the airport, she paid for her flight and a very expensive hotel in my city that I told her to reserve for 4 days, to have "our overdue honeymoon"
 

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Well I suppose you can post an update and let us know how it went. It takes honesty and respect to keep a good relationship going, let's see how it works when you two meet in person.
 
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My guess is no dice, she’ll use the weekend to give you blue balls and then leave.

you botched your chances bad enough already and I’m sure she’s looking for a more mature partner by now

man you can’t outrun the game women spit, they’re natural born experts at relationship management
 
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Women are like casinos

it is rigged in her favor and if you get caught trying to cheat the house they’ll have security guards drag your ass out and notify every other casino in town
 

New_Journey

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Update:

We stayed in the hotel for 4 days. It was great. She has changed physically from how I remember her, the wall is undefeated. We talked a lot and I had a few realizations when I was with her that reinforced my thinking, if men work on their shortcomings there will be no competition.
 
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What was the purpose of this interaction? Getting laid with her again?

What was her SMV after so many years?

Tbh I do not believe any chick above 5/10 SMV would let her game herself for 8 weeks by the guy that dumped her to eventually fly to the guy that treated her badly, pay for hotel and let her get herself mowed for 4 days in row on her cost by some guy from the past.

Seems it was a lot of effort and plowing of average SMV woman in exchange for narcissistic boost of confidence...
 

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Update:

We stayed in the hotel for 4 days. It was great. She has changed physically from how I remember her, the wall is undefeated. We talked a lot and I had a few realizations when I was with her that reinforced my thinking, if men work on their shortcomings there will be no competition.
You are making progress Pedrito. Happy for you azzhole. ;-)
 

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