FR: The most boring girl I've met. Behold a FR.

Eccentric

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So this chick is back at my place. Her option. She was up for some Chinese food and movie. So we're eating on the couch and watching some TV and I notice she's really defensive. Like 30 minutes into the movie she cuddles up with me, ok change of pace I'm thinking. I try to make a move, she senses it and adjusts her self; to the point where her body language screamed no.

About another 30 minutes later she cuddles up again, and I'm thinking to myself what is her issue. About 2 minutes later she moves again. I ask if she's alright, she says she's got a slight stiff neck.

At this point I can tell she's not happy for whatever reason. I ask if she'd like to go home. She tells me no, and she wants to say. The movie is almost over and she's like I don't have PJ's. Change of pace again.

I tell her that's fine, she stands up and fixes herself. Sits back down and cuddles. I try one last time to make a move. She yawns. Ok enough is enough. I tell her if she's tired that I'll bring her home, she says ok.

She holds my hand the whole ride home and she's like I had a fun time. I get to her dorm and she's like so I'll call you tomorrow? The night can't get any worse so I just say sure. I get home and she calls my cell. She apologizes for being awkward and she says next time will be better; if I want to see her again. I tell her yeah we'll head down to the beach. Shes tells me it sounds like a good plan, but that she's going to bed and she still call tomorrow.

That's where it ended.

Never in my life has a date been so boring. Her personality sucked as did her sense of humor, a total 360 since when I met her. Remember how I said she was defensive? That was body language as well as her humor. I'm a funny guy, and she barely cracked a smile. Talk about no chemistry.

I read a thread about ugly chicks being rude. She's not ugly, but not hot. I can't help but think it played a major role. She must have thought all I wanted was to ****, because that's all she's good for. For the most part she was right.

Moral? You win some you lose some. :woo:
 

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Eccentric said:
She must have thought all I wanted was to ****, because that's all she's good for. For the most part she was right.
That's what I thought about boring frigid chicks, until I found out that they're exactly the same in bed. It's like masturbating using a woman instead of your hand, but feels worse as you feel like you're just using her like some Kleenex tissues (well that's what I felt anyway).
 

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I'm telling you, any other girl and I wouldn't be posting. Years ago when I went back to a girls dorm in Mass she wanted to ****, but I didn't make the move. I thought for sure that was the worst. But then there was tonight, it takes the cake.

I mean what the hell were her intentions then? Yikes.
 

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she did sense that all you wanted to do was fvck her. and she's in it for some emotional relationship type thing

if you dont want that with her, and she sounds like she bores you, give her one, maybe two more dates, like doing stuff dates, and then see
 

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Eccentric said:
Never in my life has a date been so boring. Her personality sucked as did her sense of humor, a total 360 since when I met her.
So she was already a boring mess when you met her and invited her to your place to feed her ego and her stomach?
 

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she probably had some issues before and doesnt want to take it too fast
 

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So she was already a boring mess when you met her and invited her to your place to feed her ego and her stomach?
**poking fun at the fact that you mean 180**

Meh, it was one date. You met her once and she seemed cool, she obviously was in weird place or just wasn't that comfortable, but was trying to give you some IOIs.

My personal opinion: Women do what you're doing to AFCs and to some DJs. They meet some body under one set of circumstances, and if the next time they meet or go out, the guy is not totally on his game or they don't feel an explosion of chemistry, they next him. (And in the course, no doubt end up passing on some good guys). She obviously felt some chemistry for you, she just was being a chick version of an AFC.

Rather than be like woman in this sense, I would give her another chance. It won't kill you, and you've already put this much effort in to attract her successfully-might as well have one more date just make sure.
 

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Eccentric said:
Years ago when I went back to a girls dorm in Mass she wanted to ****, but I didn't make the move.
It wasn't Becker Junior College in Worcester was it? If so, ask around for the legendary "Ten bottle Charley". I'm quite sure there is still some of my sperm circulating around the Sorority houses.
 

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Well the dates only going to be boring if you make it boring. But hey say the girl really WAS boring, than just ditch her for a more interesting girl. But lol it could just be that you're not being interesting, your subcommunication is off or a bunch of things that we can't tell just by reading.
 
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Eccentric said:
So this chick is back at my place. Her option. She was up for some Chinese food and movie. So we're eating on the couch and watching some TV and I notice she's really defensive. Like 30 minutes into the movie she cuddles up with me, ok change of pace I'm thinking. I try to make a move, she senses it and adjusts her self; to the point where her body language screamed no.

About another 30 minutes later she cuddles up again, and I'm thinking to myself what is her issue. About 2 minutes later she moves again. I ask if she's alright, she says she's got a slight stiff neck.

At this point I can tell she's not happy for whatever reason. I ask if she'd like to go home. She tells me no, and she wants to say. The movie is almost over and she's like I don't have PJ's. Change of pace again.

I tell her that's fine, she stands up and fixes herself. Sits back down and cuddles. I try one last time to make a move. She yawns. Ok enough is enough. I tell her if she's tired that I'll bring her home, she says ok.

She holds my hand the whole ride home and she's like I had a fun time. I get to her dorm and she's like so I'll call you tomorrow? The night can't get any worse so I just say sure. I get home and she calls my cell. She apologizes for being awkward and she says next time will be better; if I want to see her again. I tell her yeah we'll head down to the beach. Shes tells me it sounds like a good plan, but that she's going to bed and she still call tomorrow.

That's where it ended.

Never in my life has a date been so boring. Her personality sucked as did her sense of humor, a total 360 since when I met her. Remember how I said she was defensive? That was body language as well as her humor. I'm a funny guy, and she barely cracked a smile. Talk about no chemistry.

I read a thread about ugly chicks being rude. She's not ugly, but not hot. I can't help but think it played a major role. She must have thought all I wanted was to ****, because that's all she's good for. For the most part she was right.

Moral? You win some you lose some. :woo:


What are you complaining about? You made it through a date, and she wants to see you again. I don't see a point to your b!tching and moaning.

To be honest, it sounds like you were the boring one.
 

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Some part of it was your fault.

Sitting home watching TV with a girl isn't very fun.

That's why I prefer dates where you do something fun like sports... even a walk to the beach would seem better.
 

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whoa! all the fault here is of the girl, right guys? come on....

first of all, why would not start off by a neck massage to make her feel good? why would just think of her like a fvcking body? im not a feminist, mind it guys, but just looking at it from a different point of view...

why would you not just sit right where u are and strive to connect with her when she backed off once? bad move, friend. whether she cuddles or sits away turning her back to u, u dont care and that doesnt mean u look down upon her. u r the DJ and u dont need to make a move or ur aim is not that, if u feel like it or u r thinking of doing her a favour, then might be u can think of fvcking her.

what teh heck, she was giving u IOIs and u were buying them so quickly, come on, give it sometime, ur taking it to the next level. take it subtly, man.
 
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