LMAO! If i'm ignored then why is most of this post about little old me?ElStud said:
What i said in my post can't get any clearer.
The rest is my own opinions about the kind of game you pulled. I've seen friends try that and get nailed in the nuts! Did i once hate on you specifically in that post? Don't think so! In fact, i agree with you that you can say some pretty insane stuff and get interest!
More power to you! If crazy man gets the girls, well, who am i to stand in crazy's way? Just get the girls man!
Aren't they all?
Sometimes i wonder if yuo really understand what you're actually saying. It's almost cruel to watch it as it happens. Hillariously cruel that is.
For gods sakes man, Look at this very one!
Something or other? I think? i can't remember?
How can you honestly read/write this and expect us to not question it? Oh but wait, you made other approaches that day and clearly and in CAPITAL letters you reinforce this.
If it was such a spontaneous thing to do, it's VERY hard for me to to see that and not get suspicious. This is teh kind of thing that sticks in a persons mind because it's so different from teh average norm. Unless you're doing this all teh time and it's a normal occurance for you...
You know what would make this more believable? If you were drunk. Then i'd respect that even drunk you managed to get a girl's number and in such flamboyant ways.
You say that if you were to fake a FR, yuo'd **** a girl in it.And that even if it were a true FR. We'd all try and call you out on it and hate.
Maybe you should consider why. Most of your FR sound like platonic everyday interactions with polite and wellmeaning girls. The issue I have (i can't speak for HandyAndy or any of my other fellow thinkers) is that you seem to be taking these exchanges as something more than what they really are.
As far as the rest of your FRs that prove you're "out there approaching"? This is the kind of communication i had with female clients/coworkers/customers when i was a deck designer at Home Depot, a completely normal and everyday occurance.
I'd get hugs(kino), IOIs, invited to coffee/lunch, #s, and polite and friendly banter that sometimes could get very funny and even raunchy. And i thuoght nothing of it. Because it's exactly that, nothing.
So you told a girl some pretty non-sensical stuff and got her number. Good! Call her and see where it leads! if it goes nowhere, next, and move on!
THink of it as sales, Every person you call is a 10% chance of a sale. 10% isn't a lot, but every person you DON"T call because you figure they won't buy anything has a 100% chance of no sale. The better you get, the better your % gets. But you'll never get any better if you keep putting off the calls.
There are any number of reasons why a girl will flake, you've got to move on, go to the next girl, and if they come back, MAYBE give it another chance if they realjy try. As you say, you've got alot of numbers and facebooks, so use them!
But dude, when you say stuff like "I'm lazy with numbers" or "I finally called the numbers i got." What the hell is a person supposed to think when they hear that? That's basically saying "Yeah i get all these numbers, but they don't mean much to me." but then you go "i want to kiss close" or "How do you get lays?"
WTF? what is it then? Do you not care about getting the girl? or do you want to get kissed/laid? Make up your damn mind.
Frankly, you sound like a recovering AFC who's seeing some success now that he's got some confidence. But you're overanalysing every little thing to try and figure out the "best" ways on your own and are almost delusional in your own self-belief.
Since you brought it up, Maturity is important. But are you really understanding it?
I accept that for whatever reason you have, you feel the need to validate yourself with FRs. I also accept the fact that you are stubborn as a mule and nobody will ever change you, and that's respectable.
However, i can change my actions towards you. I can be a smartass and question your mental health, or i can try and be reasonable and simply agree to disagree.
You won't have either, So now i'm just simply here for the lulz since this is damned funny and reminds me why i decided to change who i was when i was 18.
That's why i'm posting this. I see you and i see my worst nightmare.
So on Maturity, Show some and then you'll get some. Accept the fact that most of these FR are basic conversations for a somewhat confident and funny man, and has little bearing into whether there is any real interest there...
P.S.
Since you Love proof, look at your "like having options" thread, I'm the first one to reply and it was was short, positive, and to the point.
EDIT: P.P.S
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Had to add this once i saw it.
Yeah, My threads are pretty tame. My hero and father, a 56 year old nicaraguan guy with more DJ in his left nut then you have in your whole body.
Another girl, txting me randomly ended up wanting to go out, who wants to hear about that? happens everyday to some people.
Oh and my favorite, just a girl calling me in the middle of the night because she couldn't wait 2 days to tell me she's been a bad girl and wants me to dicipline her. Oh, the ending of that is revealed in my thread "A true Natural." But then again, it's not a kiss close so what do you care?
